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alright guys. well. tonight i think i'm going to the movies with my boyfriend. and he wants to see into the blue. you know the one with jessica alba and the REALLY hott guy with the nice 6pack abs? alright. well the problem is that if we go i know the whole time he'll be like in his head thinking goddamn she's so fine blahblah about jessica alba. but i'm not like that when i'm with him. and i bet that later on he'd tell me how hot she looked in different sceens and stuff. so i'm like... well i'll see if i can go to that one even though i really don't want to.

i really don't think thats a "couples" movie.
thats like. horny guy alone. do you agree?

and if like you were me (if you're a girl) would it bother you that like he'll talk about that stuff after the movie, when he know's that you wont talk about how hot the guys is?

please help as soon as you can. (link)
Hrmm... I have no idea who you are or why you randomly decided to ask me this as a Private Question, but OK. I hate to turn town a Private.

Well, is he the sort to go looking for "is she hot?" I mean, if I ever get a girl, I'd probably dump her as soon as she started talking about how hot some guy in one of my classes is, unless she means a lot to me. Movies, fine. Whatever. It's not like she'll ever get a chance to go out with Daniel Radcliffe anyway. So try ignoring it. Or if its getting WAY too bad, start talking about Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt. That'll get him thinking, and when he decides to ask you why you're suddenly so obsessed with them, tell him the truth. (Note: This one will NOT work if you're not the hot&sexy-obsessed type. Go figure =P)

Actually, that's not such a bad idea. Just tell him the truth straight away. The truth is the best thing. People always told me not to tell the one I'm after how I felt. But it was burning up inside me. I had to tell her that she was more than a friend. The truth helped. And it's applicable anywhere.

So, I hope I helped! Good luck with the movie


Rating: 5
Wow, you give really good advice.
And the movie ended up going pretty well.
He isn't that obsessive after all with other girls.
I just wanted a backup incase he was.




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