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hi everybody, this is a long one but i really need your help. ok so theres this guy that i know and he is like 19 or 20ish and im 16. and ever since i first saw him i thought he was like super hot! and so one day a couple of my friends told him that i thought he was really hot. and then they asked if he thought that i was cute and he said " ya shes definatly hott" and i was right there so i heard him say it and everything. and ever since then he would like sort of half way flirt with me and say like your really cute and stuff. but he hasnt asked me out or asked for my number or anything. so i was thinking maybe hes just, you know playing with me. but then i was talking to some of his friends and they were telling me he was talking about me and i asked what he said but all his friends would tell me is it was nothing bad. and sometimes when im around him i would sneek looks at him but i would already see him looking at me first (does that make sense?) so i dont know what to do because i reallllly just cant stop thinking about him but its been like a month and nothing has happened. i dont really see him that much though, i use to see him like maybe 2 to 3 times a week during the summer since July-ish but now i mayyybe see him once a week. but no other guy i talk to compares to him. so does he like me or do yall think hes just playing me and what should i do about this? if you answer seriously i'll rate high!! thanks yall!
o ya and hes not like some stuck up college guy, hes kinda...geekish which isnt normal for me to like but people told me i was like the hottest and nicest girl to ever like him.
It does sound to me like he does like you.. he just might be catious because of the age difference. Because it's illegal to date a minor, and he might be afraid of getting in trouble or something..I know you probably don't want to, but if you want something to happen, you might have to make the first move here. Just go up to him and be like," Hey, your friends said you like me. I like you too. Wanna go out?" ( lol or something like that.. I've never asked anyone, so I don't know ) he could just be shy to. I hope I helped!
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MELii
(Rating: 5) heyy thanks!