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Ok, so my parent's have been devorced for a long time and my dad is re-married. my mom has hit rock bottom, and now I have to tell an investigator ware I want to live. I am stuck in the middle, both parents think I wana live with them but I really havent decided. please help me! I'll rate 5's for none stupid awnsers.
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This would be extremely hard for anyone. Especially since you're so young and have to make a choice like this one. Honestly, don't consider it a choice over who you 'like' better. Consider these things before you choose :
- Who would I be most comfortable living with?
- Who will be able to provide best for my needs?
- Who will I be able to know that I'll always be safe and warm with?
- Where will I have the best education?
- Where will I be brought up and taught valuable life lessons the best?
- Where will I be able to develop social and home making skills best?
Once you answer those questions, it will be a little easier to make a decision, though it would be completely based off of logical thinking and non-emotional.
Though, if your mom has "hit rock bottom" it will only be harder for her to provide for a daughter as well. If you live with your dad, you could quite possibly be better cared for. You'll have TWO moms that love you and a dad. Possibly step-brothers / sisters. Just think about those questions, and when you make your decision, make it clear that you love both parents THE EXACT SAME. :-\
Life bites sometimes.
-FunnyCide
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