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Hey I'm mystical_breeze! I'm a Christian, so Jesus comes first in my life. When I'm older I want to be become a comsmetologist or a writer. I love the jonas brothers like whoa man :]♥[IF YOU NEED ADVICE, LEAVE ONE IN THE INBOX]♥.
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ok..im in love ...head over heels..star struck...but there is a huge problem..the guy i am in love with id 3 years older then me...and i am in 8th grade...so he is a joinor ...and my brothers best friend...but we were dateing...untill last night when i had to break up with him becausea bunch of my "friends" decided that they were gonna tell my brother that something sexuall had happened between me and him...when nothin sexual happened...so my mom and dad found out about this cuz they made it sound like rape and im not even supposed to date..and i had to break up with him because i wont be seeing him at all any more...please help...how can i convice my parents that he is a nice guy and that i love him and he loves me??? ill rate high if they arent bull shit answers
Well, you and this guy knows exactly what happened, and tell your parents that they should trust you about your relationships. Tell your parents your friends only told your brother he "raped" you to start crap with you and your parents. Explain that this is a REALLY nice guy, and you really like him. Tell them that you and your boyfriend will hang out only at your house for the next few dates, so your parents can get to know him better. Then, when your parents trust him again, you can start going out alone together (it's better then not seeing him at all, right?). Your parents are just concerned about your safety with him, but I think once you REALLY convince them, the relationship will get better. Don't make it sound like your relationship with this guy is too serious. Just make it sound like you both like eachother, and want to be together more often. If they still say no, then I guess you'll have to accept their descicion. Only hang out with him at school (or talk to him online) if your parents don't want you two together. Then, when you're older, get together with him and become more serious. If he really loves you (which I'm pretty sure he does), he'll wait for you.
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mystical_breeze
(Rating: 5) thack u sooo much :D