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okay well my boyfriend and i just like started dating or whtever.And like when he asked me out and everything i really really liked him.. well after like a couple of days i kinda had a weird feeling and like i didnt really like him anymore.. so i asked a couple of people what they thought about us and like if i should break up with him, cuz like i was ignoring his calls and i really didnt want to talk to him.. well like after a while i was gonna tell him that i just wanted us to be friends.. and so i waited for his call, and waited and waited.. well he never ever called and like i tried calling but no one answered.. well like now i realy do like him i guess i was just scared i would get hurt so i was pushing him away..well i duont know whats wrong, i dont know if hes mad at me and like he hasnt called in like 3 weeks and theres no other way i could talk to him.. so what should i do and is he mad at me... i am soo sooo confused.. please help me i really like him... and i dont want to lose him and he wont answer his phone so i dunno.. thnks soo soo srry for the length.. **hearts** (link)
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CAUTION : I am giving my honest opinion. It could be offensive, but is not meant that way. Everything is completely heartfelt and meant the best possible way. If you read further, you are reading at your own risk. Thank you.
I think you were probably "infatuated" with him. Puppy-love. Superficial. Surface only. Now, now, don't get angry with anyone, you are not alone in this. Hundreds of teens are going through the same thing. They meet the boy. Boy is cute. Boy is smart. Boy is funny. Boy asks girl out. Girl says yes. Boy and Girl go out for a while. Girl realizes she doesn't like Boy that much after all. Girl is afraid to annul the relationship because it might hurt Boy. Boy has no idea what is going on. Girl is afraid, thus she isolates herself from her friends and family - including Boy. Boy is afraid he did something to make Girl mad, so he doesn't call. Girl wants to call of the relationship. Girl calls Boy. Boy is now angry and frightened, so he does not return Girl's phone calls. Girl leaves messages on Boy's cell phone. Boy decides to call Girl back. Girl explains that she wants to take a "break." ... blah blah blah. You know the rest. Hundreds of kids (teens) go through this every day. They think the person they met is the best person EVER, like the Santa Clause of teenagers! If that's what happened, you're in good company.
I would suggest calling his cell and leaving a message, or calling his house and leaving a message. Sound happy, polite, ask that he call you back. If he doesn't call, 'shop around' with your friends and try and find his SN or E-mail address. You've got to get in touch with him somehow. If you can't find anything, look for him at school (if y'all go to the same school). If you can't get in touch with him, keep calling his house/cell (like.. twice or three times a week) and ask that he call you back each time. When you do get in touch with him, apologize for not talking to him etc. and tell him that you'd like to :
1. Take a 'break'
2. Break up with him
3. Be "friends"
I just don't think it's a great idea for you two to be together if you don't like him that much, you know. Sorry if I didn't help much. :-\
-FunnyCide
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thnks soo soo much tht boy girl analogy wrks hehe i actually get it.. u rok!! heartz..
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