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ok so there's this guy who i really like & we're friends & everything & i know he doesn't have a girlfriend [& like me has never had one, except in my case a boyfriend] & i want to tell him how i feel, but i'm too nervous because i'm scared he doesn't like me back. i once talked to him online for 3 hours straight, which i never did with anyone. he's really great to talk to & the sweetest guy i ever met. but is there a way i can figure out if he likes me or not? or to have him find out i like him, without having to tell him or having it get rumored or told by a friend? please help me if you can. i will rate you if you want.
Well what I would do is flirt with him and see how he reacts. If he flirts back, then he might possibly like you, but if he doesn't, then I'd just forget anything happened and stick to being his friend because you don't want to ruin the relationship you two already have. Or another thing you can do is the next time you talk to him, ask him who he likes and if it's anyone you know...and then maybe even tell him you like someone he knows, so in a way it's sorta hinting but he probably won't figure it out cause guys aren't the best at that sorta thing =P but maybe also try asking his friends who he likes or maybe have one of your friends ask him. If none of that, then I'd just suggest asking him out. Sometimes you can't be afraid, cause you always gotta think WHAT IF? WHAT IF he did like you and you never asked him out? You'd have lost the possible chance at a relationship with him. So sometimes you just gotta take a chance. Be like," Hey.. I gotta tell you something. I like you alot. I don't know how you feel about me, but I just needed to tell you that because I just wanted to get it off my chest. If you don't feel the same way please let's just go back to friends, because I don't want to ruin our friendship over this and I promise it will not be awkward it will be the same as it was before." ( or something like that ) and you don't have to tell it to his face.. you can always text, IM , say it on the phone, write it in a note, etc. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
(Rating: 5) wow thanks. but a few things. 1;; i don't flirt. neither does he. 2;; it's a new school. i don't have friends there. & i don't know who his friends are. 3;; i obviously can't ask him who he likes, because i don't know anyone there, so it's obvious. 4;; i don't just ask people out. cause i don't want there to be tension between us. =/ thanks though.