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My name is Melissa. I'm a sophomore, and finally SWEET 16. So, I'll be driving on January 7th. I usually go by May or Mel. In the picture is myself and my AMAZING boyfriend Kyle. He's truly my entire world & I'm not sure how I got lucky enough to get someone like him. I don't like girls. They're fake, and I just in general dislike most girls. Little known fact? There are times I hate my best friend, I mean, hate hate. She drives me insane. When I'm close friends with a girl it's a big deal. As far as best friends go; I have Kyle, who's the most amazing boyfriend in the world; Jennifer Anne Reese aka: PIECUP.. she's one of the few girls I'm close to. I'm generally a nice person, if I like you. If I don't, you'll know it.

In college I want to major in psychology; with a minor in wedding planning or some type of organizational planning type thing. I'm a planning freak. I ALWAYS have a plan, and if you don't plan stuff ahead of time, I'll probably kill you. I tend to change my plan spur of the moment a lot, but I always have one. Lol, one of those weird things about me.


I'm not that much of a "laid back" person. In general, I have my opinion, and I'm going to win. Drama = stupid. But just like every other girl on the planet, I definitely start my share of the drama. I don't like it, but it follows me like a puppy, so I'll just admit I start stuff.

I like giving advice. I've been through a lot, and I want to help people in any way I can. If you'd rather email or IM me, feel free to ask. ♥

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13/f he is 14/m
Theres this guy that i've been talking to online for about a year. We eventually exchanged cell phone numbers and have talked on the phone. He is really nice and I find myself feeling in love with him. I know people probably think internet love is a bust but that's how I feel when I talk to him. He isn't one of the guys that wants to have cyber sex either, just to talk. He's always there when I need him and he's very sweet and he is always looking out for my best interests as well. I want to meet him but I don't know if I should. He lives about an hour away from me and he was planning on taking a train to visit me. I know there are some freaks out there, but I don't think he comes off as one of them and I also know to be careful and if I were to meet him I would bring a friend, of course. I don't know what to do, the train station is public but the town is small so not a whole bunch of people would be there. Please give me advice.

That's not the smartest thing to do, but if you're set on doing it there are some things you should do.

-Bring a friend. Even if you think that would make it "awkward", bring one and don't let them leave you.
-HAVE A PHONE. I know that sounds stupid, but make SURE you have a phone with you. [It would be really smart to let him think you DON'T have it, because if he TRIES to do something, he'll think he has the upperhand.]
-Tell other friends what you're doing, and make some kind of word signal or something like that. If you call them saying a certain word or phrase, have them immediately call your parents.
-The smartest thing you could do is tell your parents what you're doing. Or at least that you're meeting somebody new, and bringing a friend, but if you call in trouble, they'll know why. Let them know what you're doing.

Just because you've talked to him on the phone and he doesn't SEEM weird, doesn't mean anything. A person can always be nice on the phone and internet, they can change in person. Just be super careful, and take WAY more precautions than you think you should.
♥ Melissa

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