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My name is Melissa. I'm a sophomore, and finally SWEET 16. So, I'll be driving on January 7th. I usually go by May or Mel. In the picture is myself and my AMAZING boyfriend Kyle. He's truly my entire world & I'm not sure how I got lucky enough to get someone like him. I don't like girls. They're fake, and I just in general dislike most girls. Little known fact? There are times I hate my best friend, I mean, hate hate. She drives me insane. When I'm close friends with a girl it's a big deal. As far as best friends go; I have Kyle, who's the most amazing boyfriend in the world; Jennifer Anne Reese aka: PIECUP.. she's one of the few girls I'm close to. I'm generally a nice person, if I like you. If I don't, you'll know it.

In college I want to major in psychology; with a minor in wedding planning or some type of organizational planning type thing. I'm a planning freak. I ALWAYS have a plan, and if you don't plan stuff ahead of time, I'll probably kill you. I tend to change my plan spur of the moment a lot, but I always have one. Lol, one of those weird things about me.


I'm not that much of a "laid back" person. In general, I have my opinion, and I'm going to win. Drama = stupid. But just like every other girl on the planet, I definitely start my share of the drama. I don't like it, but it follows me like a puppy, so I'll just admit I start stuff.

I like giving advice. I've been through a lot, and I want to help people in any way I can. If you'd rather email or IM me, feel free to ask. ♥

advice

ok on friday i was supposed to go to the mall to meet up with a really close friend of mien with my best friend. since my parents are WAY over protective and wont let me if i told them i was goin to see a guy. i told my mom that i was goin shoppin and to the movies like a couple days ago and today she was like yea ok we will wait and see what happens, and since she trusts my friend a lot i know it would be a yes but then today she was talkin about friday about takin us swimmin and i was like i am not goin i am going to my friends house to go to the mall and the movies and she was like NO your not going to the movies or the mall wit your friend.. and i was like ok whay if i go to her house and she was like you can do that but not go to the mall. i mean today i was supposed to go to boardwalk wit her and she wont let me bc she has her party that she paid for to go to.. what i need to know is can someone help me out and make a plan that i could tell my mom or even tell her i am goin some place else bc the mall i guess wont work.. i need to go but i also dont want my mom to find out.. someone please help!! i have been waitin to see my close friend for like 2 weeks now... i have already tryed talkin to them about givin me some freedom and all they told me was ur 14 and at ur age you guys like to "experment" a lot of things.

You need to convay to your parents that you're trustworthy. Even if they already think that, do things to show them how mature you are and that you will make the right decisions. If they think that you're responsible and mature, then maybe they'll give you a little more freedom? Just try to prove that you can make the right decisions, and that you can handle a little more freedom. Good luck!
♥ Melissa

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(Rating: 5) ok thanks
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