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My name is Abby. I'm 14. I am a freshman at DHS. I live in MA. I like to sing dance, write songs and poetry and I play softball.

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I have been in my current relationship for 9 months. Previouisly my relationship was 4 years in which we had a child. since then her father hasn't seen or talked to her in 6 months. Now when she starts to get close to my boyfriend she takes three steps back. But if she meets someone new she walk with them and hold their hand and she won't do this with my boyfriend. This upsets him and I've told him maybe she's just afraid to get close with himbecause she's afraid he will leave her too. Please help me try to understand this better. (she's only 5 years old)

Hi. I can help with this one. My parents are divorced and my mother remarried a guy who is a total asshole. I know I am a lot older than your daughter but I went through the same thing. Your daughter is acting like this because she is affraid she will get attatched and then he will leave like her father. Also because she is affraid that he will hurt you, kids are like that sometimes because they are very protective when they are little. But if I were you, sit her down and talk about him. (not when he is there) then try to find a solution so you can feel more comfortable.

Hope I helped
Sincerely,
Abby

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much
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