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Well there's this guy that I've known pretty much my whole life. He's my neighbor but we've never really been that great of friends. We both play tennis so I see him kind of a lot in the summer. The other day we were talking online and he said we should hang out more. He's gonna call me when he gets back from basketball camp. I really wanna hang out with him but thing is, I don't know him that well. I don't know what to talk about with him. Does anyone have any suggestions on what to talk about? How can I open up to him more? Thanks, any help will be appreciated! Oh and I'm 14/f
Well that's the point of hanging out with him ; getting to know him well =) What I do, is I just think up stuff...just think: Family, Friends,Music,Pets,Interests...and just roll from there. And whenever you're talking about something and you share something funny that happened to you that relates to that it'll make ya both laugh which might ease up the tension a bit, cause you'll get more comfortable, and also it shows you have a funny side which is good =) But you shouldn't have to make up all the conversation.. he should have to too. To get him to open up, just ask for his opinions and views on things cause then he'll be showing you what's going on in his head and how he feels about stuff. =) Hope I helped!!
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MELii
(Rating: 5) thank you!