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i use to cut alot but after i started goin out w/ this one guy i stopped for him. We broke up after 6 months and for this whole past year every time ive wanted to cut i've thought of him and would think about how much he would hate it if i started again. Well im still in love w/ him and i finally got the courage to call him and tell him. He told me that did love me and that really broke my heart and i've been wanting to cut really bad but i don't know what to do!someone plz help!!!!

thanx
-twiSted

Well if you're loved him and thought about how he'd hate it if you cut yourself, think about the other people now that you love and would hate it too. Because they care about you too and they want you to be safe. And even though he may not love you, I'm sure he still cares if you cut yourself or not, and I'm sure he still would hate it if you did, so keep that in mind too. You just have to keep telling yourself not to and resist the urges, and I would also suggest maybe getting some help. Go to a talk group with other people who have the same problem...hope I helped!!







Love,
MELii

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(Rating: 5) thank you very much, you did help.
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