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Right heres a run-down. Recently i (16) ended a long distance relationship that had been going on for almost a year, to be with someone closer. But it all went horribly wrong( the closer relationship) and i was single again.I felt terrible not because it had ended but becasue of what i'd given up for it. I loved the person who was living long distance away and was ashamed at myself for what i had done. So i asked the girl from the long distance relationship to give me one more chance and thank the gods she did. My question however. Is i still feel guilty for what i did to this girl..Even though its in the past and seh has given me the second chance. I know what i did was wrong and i know that I hurt her. Because i love her it hurts me so badly inside. I dont know how my present gf feels though i just want to know. And i don't know what to do.. Any help will be appreciated!!
anthony

Well what I would do is just keep telling her you love her, and show her too.. like write her little letters and stuff and maybe send her flowers or teddy bears or jewlery or something.. and whenever you visit her, or she visits you just hug her and hold her hand and stuff, just don't mention it, because then you'll bring back bad memories and that'll probably make her feel upset, and you don't want to do that. So don't bring it up, unless she does, and if she does just be like," I know. I can't beleive I ever dumped you. I'm just so happy that you gave me anotehr chance. I love you." ( not exactly those words.. but.. ya know what I mean ) and I mean, if she's not bringing it up, maybe she just put it behind her..cause the past it the past. But just don't show her you're happy she gave you another chance, make her feel like it too =) Hope I helped!!





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MELii

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