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Q: Ok so this summer I'm taking Tennis camp with some friends from our school and some other kids who dont go to our school. I met this guy named Grant. I mean we met in the most freaky way. We met when he accidentally hit me on the head with his racket while doing a serve. I never really noticed him till then, but when he hit me and looked back at me and smiled, i believe that it was love at first sight -- for me, at least. During practice, we'll tease eachother in a friendly way, racing eachother, and trying to hit eachother with tennis balls. Only two of my friends know about me liking him. So here are my questions...

1) Do you think he likes me?
2) Should I ask him out or ask him if he likes me?
3) when should i ask him?
4) should I ask him face 2 face or have my friends ask him?

I appreciate all the people who took the time to read this...i rate 5's for any answers that help me a little. =]

--crushed.

Well,
he DID look you straight in the eyes and smile, which COULD be a sign of love but not necessarily. You have to really know the guy to know if he likes you or not. I think he likes you, unless he flirts A LOT with other girls. Other than that, your answer is yes, he most likely likes you. I think you SHOULD ask him if he likes you. That way, if you say "Do you like me?" and he says "No", you can cover it up and say "Good! I don't like you either!" Hahaha. That's what I always do! :-) You should ask him when you two are alone or talking on the phone with no one around. You should ask him after flirting a little to see if he flirts back. If he does flirt back and smile while he talks, ask him but if he kinda hesitates, don't bother. He's not worth it and you're better than him, anyway. I think you should ask him face to face because then, if you guys get married, you can say, "I asked him out on the first date and he said yes!" but if your friend asks him, you'll say "No. So-and-so asked him." and you definitly want to say you asked him. I think you'll do great! Don't get too nervous and act kinda... sexy around him. Like, talk with a little attitude in your voice like you know what you're doing, even if you haven't a clue. I think this guy will LOVE you and I wish only the best to you. If you want to talk or need more advice, ask a private question in my Advicenators inbox or email me at: kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
Best of luck!
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