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Q: Okay, I'm 14 years old, a male, and I am a homosexual FYI. I lived with my mom until her drug problems escaladed and I had to move with my grandparents. During that time, I became friends with this guy who I am friends with but am totally not attracted to whatsoever. I stayed there for a few months and we signed up for summer P.E. together and everything was going good. Then, I moved with my mom again and I became friends with this other guy who I am totally attracted to and I guess that kinda boosts his personality. I ended up blowing my other friend off and dropped out of summer P.E. to be with the guy I like/love or whatever. Is it bad I kinda ditched my best friend even though its my life and I should be able to do what I want and if this other guy makes me happy that should be the only thing that matters right? Anyways, my summer P.E. friend calls and says I blew him off to be with Ronnie and smoke drugs which isn't entirely false and he hangs up on me. Is it bad that I did this and what should I do now. Also, remember its too late to sign back up for summer P.E. and its also nice to know my summer P.E. friend is a republican and doesn't know I'm gay or anything like that. Please help me out of this bind.
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yeah man that was kinda mean that you ditched him and quit the summer class. you could just tell him that you decided it wouldnt fit into your schedule and your really sorry that he felt like he was ditched. hopefully yall can get your friendship back. but you need to be the one to say sorry. if you say it genually, and he still doesnt forgive you, then thats when you shouldnt feel bad.
its cool that you found another guy though. but tell this old friend that he's the reason you ditched him. yano? it sucks but some people might freak out about the fact that ur gay. (i think its cool though lol).
hope this helps a little- :)
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I know its bad but whenever someone says its cool Im gay I have to give them a five. It makes me feel better about myself I guess. Thanks for the help and compliment.
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I'm Emily.
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Gender: Female Occupation: student Age: 18 Member Since: October 24, 2004 Answers: 561 Last Update: October 13, 2007 Visitors: 36362
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