ballerina04's advice column

ok well sorry if this is to long. well my parents are divorced but its not a big deal they been divorced since i was about 3 so i dont mind that. my dad lives in nj and i live with my mom and sis in ny. me and my dad arent very close but i would usually go down there when ever i had vacation off from skool. summer vacations almost here and i have to deside wheather or not to go, now heres where it gets complicated the only reason why im having trouble desideing is becaouse my dad hasnt payed child support since the begining of the years so about six months, my has tryed everything she even took him to court, he still hasnt payed the money. me my mom and sis depend on that money when it comes, $200 dolars a week, my mom works but doesnt make enough money and where very behind on our bills, so i guess what i need to know is whta would u do in my position?. would you continue to talk to ur father even if he doesnt help support you?
thanx ill give 5s

I definitely understand what you're going through. I am not close with my father at all either. You have to do what you feel most comfortable with. If it was my choice, I wouldn't talk to my father at all because I don't miss having him around. If you want to change what you're going through, maybe you should visit him. Tell him your situation and ask him if he could please help out a little bit more. I wish you the best! Send me something if you need more help. ♥ Kristen

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