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Im a 14 year old girl and last year, my cousin broght his best friend to one of my family pool partys. My cousins a year younger than me, but his friend/neighbor was my age. We talked all night and had a great time. We hung out other times too and became best friends. We've been going out for 9 monthes now but my cousin HATES it! At first he was makin fun of us, but he's been trying to break us up ever since. I'm not trying to take my bf away from my cousin, but my cousin thinks i am. I love my bf soo much and i want to spend as much time with him as i can, but i do let them hang out alone sometimes. My bf is getting kinda pissed at my cuz and he'd rather b with my sometimes, but my cuz is soo pissed and he like treats my bf like shit when hes soo nice to him. My cousin thinks i treat him bad, by going out with his friend and it really upsets me, is there anything i can do? Thanks!

Just talk to him about it if you already haven't. IF he still isn't cool with it, then just take sometime between the three of you and you can invite some friends of yours and of your cousins and all hang out together. Just try to be as normal around your cuz as you are with any other of your friends. Otherwise he will need to get over it cuz it seems like you really like you bf. Hope my advice helped!
~Linda

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(Rating: 5) Thanks but, he don't like my friends and he doesn't really have any other good friends

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