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Hi, I'm Kristin..I'm sixteen
I love to read the directions on everything.. Shampoo, cake, you name it..
I'm a pretty laid back person, in general.
I don't like annoying people, or things, but then again-- who does?
It really bothers me when people walk slow.
I'm really into photography and my camera is my pride and joy.
It's about the only thing I'm known to take care of in my life.
I'm on drumline.
Austin and Tarra are my Best friends
I'm in band, which goes along with the drumline.
i love just standing in the rain.
I'm easy to get to know.
Easy to lose my trust
Hard to get it back.
Obbessive people really aggrivate me
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hi i've been with my boyfriend for quite a few years now, but unfortunately, everyday i start to think to myself that i should leave him. why is because every single time we get into fights, he never is willing to stay and work it out. he either hangs up the phone and ignores my phone calls/messages or says "just drop it" with an attitude. he also calls me names like bitch when he loses his temper, and personally, i've had enough.
but as you can imagine, i have grown emotionally attached to this guy. i fell in love with who he once was, a sweet, considerate, man. but now it's like i don't know who he is anymore and lately it's just the only thing i can think about is how the quality of our relationship is slowly crumbling beneath us.
i personally do want to call it quits, or at least take a break from each other for a little while, but he refuses. he says things like he can't live without me, and if i leave him he'll kill himself. in a sense i feel that i'm forced to stay in this relationship because i don't want to live knowing i made someone commit suicide over me.
it's a really sticky situation, and i don't know what to do anymore. i do love this guy, but i feel as though i'm falling out of love with him for the person he has become.
please help...
If you're in a relationship that you don't want to be in, you need to get out. Do you truely want to leave him? Sit him down in person and try and talk it through. If he wont listen get up and leave. You've gotta make him listen to you because you've got a point of view too. I can't be too sure, but him commiting suicide if you leave him is just a reason for you to stay with him longer. Sit him down and tell him what you told us. That you want to be treated better. Name specfic times when you felt trapped and wanting out and how he made you feel. If he doesn't care you need out of that relationship because that's no way to live life.
-therocket♥
(Rating: 5) thanks. i have talked to him about it numerous times, it's just he doesn't understand. he denies any behavior he is guilty of and he's the last guy that will apologize for his wrongdoings. no matter how many times i explain it to him, he just doesn't understand.