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Hi, I'm Kristin..I'm sixteen
I love to read the directions on everything.. Shampoo, cake, you name it..
I'm a pretty laid back person, in general.
I don't like annoying people, or things, but then again-- who does?
It really bothers me when people walk slow.
I'm really into photography and my camera is my pride and joy.
It's about the only thing I'm known to take care of in my life.
I'm on drumline.
Austin and Tarra are my Best friends
I'm in band, which goes along with the drumline.
i love just standing in the rain.
I'm easy to get to know.
Easy to lose my trust
Hard to get it back.
Obbessive people really aggrivate me
advice
The other night, I was out with a friend, and we met up with these guys. I guess you could call them 'skaters'. So. The two of us walked around, while they skated around us. They asked us if we'd let them finger us, and we joked around saying yeah. We told them we'd have sex with them in an instant, even though we were kidding, which I guess they didn't realize.
So, we headed for a park by a school, and they got behind a bush and pretty much just pulled it out right there, and they were begging us to come back there and, well jerk them off. I wouldn't do it because quite frankly, I've got a little more self respect than that. I wouldn't let my friend do it even though she was tempted because she has a boyfriend and she knew she'd regret it right after she finished.
So, these guys were telling me I'm a total "downer" and a "prude" and later they told my friend that they really didn't like me, just because I wouldn't give them a handjob.
So, I feel really bad about myself, like I let them down or something, even though I know that they're just huge jerks. For some reason, I can't stop thinking about it and wishing that I had just done it and everything would be fine now.
I'd really like some advice about what I should do. Thanks.
These guys are jerks and you did the right thing. I know you regret not doing it, but you'd regret it even more if you had done it. I know how it feels to regret something, but if you think about it a little more you'll realize what you did was right. What if you did that and then they'd though it'd be okay since you did that, that you'd what to do it with them. What would you do in a situation like that? You got yourself out of a huge mess. If anything, you should feel proud, not regretful! Who cares if you let some random guys with raging hormones down? They could find another girl with no self respect to do that to them any day. ♥
(Rating: 5) thanks. i know i did the right thing, and that's the same thing my friends have been trying to tell me, but theres still this little ounce of regret. and it's driving me insane.