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So, like, I'm this guy. And like, I do stuff...

Chemist, musician, artist, programmer, coach, husband, dad, uncle, etc.

So yeah.

Advice-wise? There are no stupid questions, just stupid people.
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i figured i should get a guys opinion so ..ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female and i need the truth .. please dont just tell me what i want to hear .. i need to hear the truth! (link)
I think it is obvious that he "likes" you, but there's no telling how intense he likes you, nor is there anyway of knowing what his intent is. Why worry about the whole boyfriend/girlfriend stigma - just be friends with him... I mean, good relationships are built on solid friendships anyway, so it shoulnd't be a big deal. I see people throwing away perfectly good friends over the whole quasi-going-out bit... it really just doesn't make a lot of sense, the number of people who squash friendship over it.

It comes down to this: don't worry about it, and just let it ride. If something happens, great. If nothing happens and the two of you remain good friends, that's great too. This should be a no-lose situation.


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thnxz! i think your right, but its hard to just be freinds when i want to be more. but ill just go along with it and see what happens.




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