ok ive liked this guy for like 5 months now, and he told me that he likes me and i told him that i like him, my friends always tell him to ask me out and stuff but he says that im mean to him and that i dont even talk to him and stuff, which is kinda true i dont talk to him that much at school and i dont realli show him that i like him, but how can i show him that i like him and how can i talk to him more? he's always flirting with me, but he also likes other gurls too.
like i havent flirted with him like that so much and he says that i show no effection towards him what so ever. so he says why should i go out with her when she doesnt even talk to me?
well i dont talk to him that much and i dont pay so much attention, but how do i start if i start right now isnt that going to be kind of weird?
i need good advice on this. please.
hey sweetie! its wierd i know exactly what you're talking about-how do you randomly strike up a conversation-its wrong of him to blame it on you saying that you're mean and you never talk to him because it takes 2 people to start a conversation, he could just as easily walk up to you and start a conversation but it looks like you are gonna have to do it the hard way and be the first one to iniatiate something because it seems he already has his opinion. Make him get to know you before he passes judgment on you cuz thats just not fair! My first suggestion would be to either get his screen name or get his phone number and start talking to him, my second would be to approach him in person and just start talking to him perhaps about a class you have in common, something about school, or just something random. Gradually when you work up enough courage to get to know a little about him, suggest that you two get together and hang out so you can get to know each other better, maybe see a movie or go participate in something you both enjoy, example, clubs, sports, etc. Your options are really endless. This all depends on how bad you really like this guy tho, so basically the ball is in your court and sometimes its reassuring for guys to know that girls are willing to take the first step. it shows that you have a genuine interest in them and thats whats gonna set you apart from the other girls he flirts with. anyways best of luck i really hope it works out for you cuz i have definitely been in similar situations!!! xoxoxox-sar
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Thanks a lot
ive been trying to talk to him more and ill do that more often:)
thx for ur help.
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