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my stepdad... well he 'touched' my sister alot. like every night. my sister ended up moving away to live with mu dad. he has done it to me once when he was drunk. but that was years ago... the thing is, i'm confused cause i find myself defending him. i told one oof my friends and i keep saying that he was drunk, didn't know what he was doing, etc. why am i doing this??? i am fairly close to my stepdad (in a non sexual way) and i hate my sister badmouthing him. i dont know why. Please help me!!!

I think this is mental related situation. You say you two are fairly close, right? That is probably why you find yourself defending him. Because you care. Sometimes, no matter what some people have done in life, you always care and can't help but side with them. What he did was wrong but it only happened once so you feel it's no big deal most likely. Don't worry about it. If it happens again, I'd tell though. You can't have that happening. Xo

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(Rating: 5) i told my best friend coz she lives close. if it happens again i'm leaving. thanks.

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