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Hi!!:P I'm Tabrisha, and I love to help people out. I am currently taken by a handsome guy named Toney(I wish you guys could meet him:)But I'm trying to be on the flag team, stepping team, cheerleading team, and dance team and volleyball. I love a challenge.
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you see...i've known this guy since the summer..hes 3 years older then me but he always said it doesnt matter! he lives near me and we went before for about a week. and then i got grounded and couldnt see him or talk to him so he dumped me. after that we started fighting more and more. but everytime we would be friends again. it was no big deal but now its getting worse and ive liked him ever since the summer and there feelings wont seem to go away. i feel like he doesnt even like me. he already likes another girl but hes always saying that he will always have feelings for me and he does. and everytime we hang out all we do is kiss and stuff..but his profile and away messages always have different girls in them saying that he loves them and that hes always thinking about them! and when alot of people are around he doesnt even talk to me! it seems like hes using me but what could he be using me for?? i know your probably going to say for me to get over him and jsut stop talking to him but i cant! i really like him...i need to know what i should say to him or ask him i live right near him and hes also a really good friend and really fun person to talk too! so i dont know what to do i cant just STOP talking to him! but i like him more then a friend. and he says the same about me. we dont go to the same school but he hooked up with a couple of my friends weeks ago. one of them was one of my closest friends and he stopped talking to me and started talking to her.i was really jealous. and then he hooked up with my other friend and i was even more jealous but NOW hes talking to my other friend that I introduced him to! she said she wouldnt hook up with him but THAT was when she had a boyfriend and her boyfriend dumped her a few days ago and then she asked him to be her special and only valentine! and hes mine too...but he also has a valentine which is the girl he likes. i really need advice!! what should i do? PLEASE I NEED HELP! i cant stand it anymoree!! i rate!
oh, god... i would pack my bags and move to hawaii if i were you.
but since that's not possible, lets deal with the situation.
okay, from what i can get, you REALLY REALLY like him even though he treats you bad most of the time and blows you off for other girls and countless other things.
he has a commitment problem and loves to flirt, so i think the best way i can think of to deal with this is to go right up to him and tell him that you're tired of him doing this to you and you want to know right then and there how he really feels about you.
I know you don't want anyone to tell you this but i can't help it cuz it so true: if you don't get over him, you'll be miserable for as long as you like him. And he might do something one day that will kill your heart and make you unable to love again. Please try to get over him and then you'll be able to be friends like you wanted and he won't really be able to hurt you anymore.
Hope things work out for you.
*Diamyn*
(Rating: 5) thanks sooooo much you really helped me!!!