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Hey everyone, my name is Kristin, there's a picture of me on my advice column.. I'm a senior in high school and im 18 years olds.. I know I'm pretty young, but I've been through more than anyone would imagine and I've been through things most teenage girls haven't experienced yet in life. Here's a few things about myself, I've gone through a very serious one year relationship that ended a long long time ago, my parents have been divored for about 6 years, I cheerlead for my high school, I do ballet and have been playing the piano since I was seven, I work at a nearby UPS Store, and I am a dedicated Greek-Orthodox Christian. I hope to get accepted into Cal Poly San Louis Obispo and major in Nutrition..I love to hear about other peoples issues and problems so I could help them deal with it by relating them to my own experiences. So if you wanna talk, I'm here =]
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my bf just told me he was a pothead...and hes been doing it for almost a year. and we've been going out for more than a year, i dont know what to do. hes lied to me for so long. i told him if he did it i'd dump him but he did it anyway. i only said that so maybe he wouldnt do that but it didnt work. idk what to do. im so confused and idk. please help. and dont tell me to dump him because i cant. i love him too much to do that. no matter what he does. (link)
Wow, that must be an awful feeling :-/ Sorry to hear that. One thing I would do if I were you, is well naturally talk to him about it again. But this time, tell him that you love him too much to break up with him and it's something you're just going to have to accept. And really, you are just going to have to accept it.. You basically said if he doesn't stop, youd dump him, but he still did it. That means that there's really no stopping him.. Ofcourse tell him everything thats on your mind, like you want to know every little thing from now on, when he smokes where, etc, only because you care about him and want to know what's going on in his life... It's really hard because I know for a fact, if I were you, I'd be going crazy and probably not talk to my bf for like a week, because that is such a hugee thing not to tell your gf, especially since he's been smoking for a year now.. Maybe you two can make a compromise and let him smoke only once a week, etc. love kristin


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thanks, i did talk to him and i asked him why he still did it even after i said i'd dump him and he said to pass time...




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