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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

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Basically, I'm torn between two people. One is my boyfriend whom I really care about. He knows how I feel about this second guy. The second guy is a friend I've known for over a year. We both recognize that there is a real attraction between us, but up to know, we've mutually decided to ignore it.
I always feel like I can never split my time evenly enough between the two of them. When I'm with one, the other is calling me or getting pissed that I have to go.
I don't want to stop spending time with either one, I care about them both a lot.
So should I just get them both to get over it or what?

i would say get over it and pick one. becuase its not fair to either of them.

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(Rating: 2) not very helpful at all. it's not fair to my boyfriend to hang out with a friend and it's not fair to my friend to hang out with my boyfriend?

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