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hey guys..my column has been the same for soooooo long now...so im gunna change it up a bit! any ideas please let me know! anyway..heres the ordinary junk...im kayla, im 14, i like in md close to dc, i go to rhs - home of the rams! yay haha, and i dn i just love helping people!

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hi im whitney im a girl and im 13!
I have a on going problem with my friend. We hang out a lot and shes there for me...most of the time. My problem is everytime I meet a guy and start likeing him, they end up likeing her. I personaly don't just think It's the guys fault either, shes a very competitive person. Whenever I hang around with her AND guys shes a totally differnt person and doesnt act herself just to get guys. I was wondering what should I do. I dont want to change who I am like she does. I have like several guys before and each time it seems like she goes after them just to be competitive and show me up. She is a good friend..when she isnt around the guys. I have tried bringing it up to her before but she says stuff liek "oh im so i know how you feel...i just feel like cutting up my whole body so guys dont like me OR oh im sorry I wish I had a big blanket to cover up my body" then that makes me feel bad about myself..sorry this is long. Thanx soo much!

Hmm if they only like her for her body then they're no good anyway! Lol. Umm if talkng to her about it doesn't work, maybe just keep them away from her! Like when you like a guy, go over and talk to them by yourself, don't bring her along! And when you see them outside of school, ask a different friend to go! Don't like ditch your friend or whatever, but don't let her take your men! Haha! Just like...make the guys want you haha! Leave them wanting more, and show them that you're not intimidated or whatever when you're around her. Don't change yourself or whatever, but have a really kick ass personality! But yeah just try to keep her away from them hehe! Good luck! x0x0x

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much chick! thats means alot to me, you seem really kewl! ill try that and i agree =) x0x

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