Hey everyone, my name is Kristin, there's a picture of me on my advice column.. I'm a senior in high school and im 18 years olds.. I know I'm pretty young, but I've been through more than anyone would imagine and I've been through things most teenage girls haven't experienced yet in life. Here's a few things about myself, I've gone through a very serious one year relationship that ended a long long time ago, my parents have been divored for about 6 years, I cheerlead for my high school, I do ballet and have been playing the piano since I was seven, I work at a nearby UPS Store, and I am a dedicated Greek-Orthodox Christian. I hope to get accepted into Cal Poly San Louis Obispo and major in Nutrition..I love to hear about other peoples issues and problems so I could help them deal with it by relating them to my own experiences. So if you wanna talk, I'm here =]
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Hey. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer. (link)
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hey, i am SOO PROUD OF YOU GIRL!! u sound like the exact same typa girl i am...one thing that u shoulda added was how long ago u gave him that letter...listen..u, in his eyes, are different from any other girl. why? because he is use to girls jumping on his nuts, forgiving him, running back to him, etcetc...but u arent, u are rejecting him and being a strong girl..he sees that and LIKES it. BUT..a big reason why he likes u so much is cause u dont run back to him, u dont forgive easily, and u play hard to get..once u do forgive him, not nesessarily run back to him but once u give in, and stop playing hard to get [by forgiving him easily], thatll make him kinda loose interest a bit ya know? SO i know its fucking hard as hell to not talk to him, etc, but when u see him in the halls or at school make some eye contact with him, etc..not TOO MUCH at all, just here and there..i can almost promise u, if u play hard to get, act like ur TOTALLLLLY FINEEE, if he calls u, the first like 2 times he calls u, dont pick up or call back [after the 2nd time u can call him back], and basically just play it off..he'll come back and try some more...just give it acouple days/weeks after the letter u gave him, and try and follow whut i said to do..do that and see wat happens..u cant be the one to make it work, HE HAS TO..see how much he works for u, if u think he works for u enough, then ull know whut to do.. if u need more help, im here
love kristin
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Grl! Thanks for your awesome advice. I could totally see myself doing what you said. If you ever want to chat my im is: princessana2789
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