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Hey everyone! My name is Jessi and I'm 15/f/IL. I've always been excellent at giving advice...or so I've been told by my friends. So you can ask me anything and everything...although I have a rather special talent for makeup emergencies (considering my mom sells it) and for dealing with affairs of the heart. (Some of my friends automatically come to me for boy problems.)And, without further ado...my advice column!
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I was obbsessed with this guy for like 6 months. I just got over liking him but my one of my best friends told me she went to a party and asked him to slow dance and they danced together 3 times. When she told me this i was speechless even though i stopped liking him. I am kinda mad that she danced with him-or i think i'm mad. I'm not sure whether or not i'm mad or just jealous...i still might have feelings for him. Do you think i'm mad at her or just jealous?
It's probably a little bit of both, actually. Mad AND jealous, I mean. I certainly would be a little upset if she knew that I liked him so much and had just barely gotten over him, and then she went out and danced with him. But I'd also be jealous, that she just went up and asked him and he said yes, three times, and I hadn't gotten ANYTHING like that from him.
Just explain to your friend that you're a little upset about it. She'll probably say, okay, I respect that, and step away from the guy. But if the boy asks her out, she has every right to say yes. If she likes him, and he likes her, you may just have to step aside and say, hey, I hope you guys are happy, you know?
Getting into a fight with a friend over a guy is one of the stupidest things you can do. Friends could be with you forever. But I really doubt that some guy that you dated in Jr. High/High School (whichever applies here) will be the one to stick around for so long that you MARRY him, or he is with you for the rest of your life. There are more fish in the sea, as everyone always says.
(Rating: 5) You're right-thank you so much. I talked to her about it but she doesn't understand why i was upset and she says i have no reasoning. That was really good advice though thank you!