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Okay, I'm pregnant. I chose to see my family dotor who has been my doctor for years to go see for my checkups. The problem is everytime I have an appointment and go to tell my in-laws about it they are always comparing my doctor to thier family doctor. Like they say "well Doctor So&So would have never done it that way". And they compare the hospital I'll be delivering in to the one they go to as well. You know, it pisses me off because I think it is my decision what doctor I decide to see, especially in this time of my life, I trust my doctors because i have known them for so long. And I refuse to change doctors because I shouldn't have to. This is my choice. The problem is lately I've been trying to bite tougue my in-laws oppinions but its is getting harder. I don't want to say something mean because they are very nice to me and do alot for me and I don't want to come off disrespectful, so what can I do to keep myself from blowing up at them?
Well maybe you can tell them politly thank you for your concerin but I trust my doctor. If that doesnt work maybe you can get your husband to talk to them they are his parents... and he doesnt always have to be nice. He can say its not you that said something to him that he gets annoyed of the fact that they are always bothering you with it. Good luck and I hope the pregnancy goes great!
-holly-
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