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Q: guys im worried.. ok so this guy im dating, we dont talk about EVERYTHING yet; weve only been goin out 4 3 weeks, and hes told me that his parents dont want him dating right now because of some wrong decisions he made in the past..but he never comes right out and says what those decisions were, and iv never asked because im scared he might not be a virgin anymore, and im a lil more prude than him, i know that for sure.. im 14, almost 15, and hes 16, almost 17... and whenever i tell people that im dating him, they're like "girl what are you thinking, ive heard so many stories about him" ive never asked 2 hear those stories either,cuz im scared of the truth, but i know he went out with this "slut" last year that was a grade older than him, and a girl 2 grades older than him which is who he made the bad choices with.. do u think hes jus datin me cuz im a grade younger, so his parents might let him date again? im also scared he might not be a virgin, which means he might try something i dont wanna do with him, although i made it clear in the beginning im takin it slow n im not a slut... eeek hes at work camp this week with his church which is where he hooked up with his g/f he made bad decisions with (but that was last year @ camp).. i hope shes not there again.. and i dont really doubt the fact that he'll try 2 put the moves on other girls... hit me up ladies~ im worried about this one..
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You should judge your bf on who he is now and not the decisions he made before. You have to decide if it is really important to you what he did before and see if you can look past that. As far as what he may expect from you, it has been my experience that guys want relationships w/respectable girls and not easy or "slutty" ones.
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alrighty, ill try 2 look past it, but im not quite sure if he changed in 2 months
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You were once wild here, don't let them tame you."
-Isadora Duncan
She was conscious that the things she did were the things she had always wanted to do.
-Zelda Fitzgerald
Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend them all the care, kindness, and understanding you can muster. Your life will never be the same again.
-Og Mandino
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Gender: Female Occupation: Student Age: 25 Member Since: July 22, 2004 Answers: 47 Last Update: September 15, 2005 Visitors: 9729
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