The name is Kayla.
I'm totally cool with giving anyone advice. It's what I love to do. So ask away.
Hm. I'm 16. Brownish - red hair .. green/blue eyes .. 5 ft.
I love life. I've experienced many things in it.
Live it to the fullest, but never regret .. you can never take back anything you've done.
E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: School
Age: 16
Member Since: October 5, 2004
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Last Update: May 23, 2006
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y is that every guy that i like ends up breakin up with me b.c all the want is sex and i won't give it i end up gettin hurt and i feel bad b.c i think that in order to go out with them i have to give it up and i dk what to do
HELP PLZ.... RATE U 5'S IF U ANSWER (link)
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You don't! You must've found the wrong guys! Most guys I know don't care whether I'm a virgin or not and wouldn't do anything to make me do something I didn't want to do. I know a guy's pulled out a condom when I was with him, but I told him I didnt want to right then. So he didn't care. He was cool with it. Just keep looking for more guys. Good luck! Hope I helped! -Kayla
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One of my closest guy friends just told me he fancies me. I don't know what to do, I really like him as a friend but now I don't know how I can carry on as normal with him. And what makes it worse is my boyfriend is his best friend. (link)
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Well, I know it's hard, I know how it to have one of your good friends like you as more than a friend and it's hard for you to act normal but just do it. Act like you were before you knew he liked you. It'll be good in the end. He won't like you like that, but you'll still be his friend. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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we were together for two and a half years and have been through a marine corps deployment and came out even stronger. she broke up with me cause i was not helping out with the bills. i have made many changes with my money and have now paid all my bills off. i understand her reason for breaking up with me. but are relationship was extremly good exept for that one part. all though she has kicked me out she has not asked for my key back or to get my stuff out. i have sent her flowers and we went out to dinner. whe have plans for tomorrow and i dont know if i should ask her what is going on with us or not. also is she just playing me know cause if i get my stuff she will not have a kitchen table, couch's, entertainment stand and a bed for her sister to sleep on. i want to work this out but dont know how long to hang around. thanks b (link)
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I think the only advice I can give in this situation is for you to talk to her about it over dinner or whatever yall are doing tomorrow. If she is using you then get rid of her! Otherwise keep her and try to make things better. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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is there a certain time of the month lykk # of days after your period where u can have unprotected sex w/o getting pregnant? (link)
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Nope, there is no day of any month that you can have unprotected sex and be positive that you won't get pregnant. -Kayla
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y r my questions always being deleted..sometimes i rele need help or advice and i cant get any cuz my things are deleted constantly..im just trying to do the same thing everyone elses is..get advice (link)
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Yeah! I hate it when it deletes my questions but sometimes they get deleted bc someone has already asked a question like the one you were trying to ask. Still, it shouldn't delete! It's aggravating!
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OK so i'm at a new school and like i made this one fried ... lets call her susan. So susan invited me over to her house for halloween with some of her friends too. I don't know for sure but i've heard her friends talking about doing drugs and all (not planning it for halloween but talking about it in like the past sence) I'm pretty sure Susan doesn't do drugs or anything but i do think that she drinks. I don't do any of that stuff, nor do I want to. Do you think I should go to her house and take the chance? PLEASE help me... i'll rate EVERYONE! (link)
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I don't think you should do anything that you don't want to do nor do I think that you should do anything that will make you feel comfortable. Do whatever you think will make you feel comfortable and still be happy with yourself. Your friends shouldnt care that you don't want to but they will still be your friends even if you don't. I mean I don't do drugs and I never have. I drink but not very much only on occasion and my friends don't care at all. I mean I have friends that do drugs and I have friends that don't but they still except me for who I am not what I do. Don't do anything that you think will make you cool because it will just make you look un cool. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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how can u get a popular guy to like u when u r very very shy??? (link)
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I guess all the advice I can give you is to just become friends with him and act yourself and see where things go from there. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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okay well i feel really stupid asking this but okay here i go.. i have done everything with a guy besides suck dick/blowjob w/e.. okay and its not that i dont want to bc i do but im scared! What if i dont do it right or sumthing?! Do you have any advice on how to do it or step by step or anything?! If so thanx! i really appreciate it!
-Desperate girl- (link)
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Alright I can answer this one. Well, my first time i was really scared and to be honest if the guy knows you've never done it before or your like I don't think I'm very good then even if you aren't any good, they don't care. They will just love to have some. Just stick his dick in your mouth and suck on it like move your mouth up and down and use your tongue too. So like when your sucking use your tongue at the same time. They think it feels really good. Go as far as you can with your mouth or should i say as close to his balls as you can. If he starts cumming in your mouth. It tastes really gross but just swallow it, it won't kill you and it's a much better sight then spitting it out lol. Uh, let's see what else, I mean that's basically it. They shouldn't care whether your bad or not and on my first couple times i couldn't get to close to his balls without feeling like i was gonna puke just because I wasn't used to it and I couldn't hold all that in. So, eventually you'll get good. And it's ok to be scared I'm still scared whenever I do it. But after your doing it, it's ok. I know when i first began the second guy I did it to, had gotten head a lot and he knew i wasn't that good and I couldn't get him to cum so he gave himself a hand job and made me swallow his cum. They will think of something but if they haven't had it a lot then it will be easy for them to cum. Sorry this is so long. I hope i helped. -Kayla
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ok me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex..i right now am a virgin..my question is, ive never shaved and he wants me to..but like i honestly dont know how i'm suppose to do it..do you just shave everything? or what..and like what about the hair really far back?? sorry if this questions a lil blunt but i really need advice & well thats what this sites for right?..
:) thanx in advance..i'd really appreciate some advice :) (link)
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Shave everything! Just put like shaving cream or something like that, that you would shave your legs with. Then shave down not up and make sure you get everything "down there". -Kayla
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I have smallish shoulders, smallish hips, C-cup breasts, and a fairly undefined waist. I'm 5'4 and weigh 125 pounds, and have a small bone structure. What kind of styles of clothing would look best on me? Thanks! (link)
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Just go shopping with some friends and try on some clothes. Then ask them if what you like looks good and if they like it. I guarentee they will tell you what looks good and what looks bad. I hope I helped! -Kayla
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but theres this kid in my spanish class hes a sophmore and im a freshman. and ever since school started he always checked me out and stuff, and he'd stare at me all the time. every time he'd pass me he'd flick his hair at me. well i just thought that it didnt mean anything, until these past few days in the halls he'd point me out to all of his friends, and they'd be like "oh thats the girl who you like?" (but they didnt know that i heard), so i know that he likes me but he's kind of shy! i like him too and i want to go to homecoming with him but i want him to ask ME so what should i do? i dont want to ask his friends cause thats lame, but im afraid to talk to him. do you think he's embarrassed cause im a freshman? (link)
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No way! There's no reason for him to be embarrased that your a freshmen and he's a sophomore. Personally, I think that next time he looks at you or points at you then just say hey. Then maybe he will say hey back which im sure he will and yall will strike up a conversation. Then ask him if he's heard about the homecoming dance and ask him if he's going. If he says yes then be like, yeah me too! Then see what he says. Tell me what happens and I hope I helped! -Kayla
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Hi, I straighten my hair everyday, but now that its rainiing im afrid it will get frizzzy and wavy. I use john fried hair serum and i have a chi. Do u think it will go wavy on me? Or do u have any ideas wut to do with my hair so it wont get frizzy and wavy? * I rAtE* (link)
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Wow! I straighten my hair too and I'm pretty sure there is no cure for your hair when its raining and you want to keep it straight. It will get wavy or frizzy no matter what. Maybe next time you know it's gonna rain, try wairing it naturally so it won't look bad or wear it up. I hope i helped! -Kayla
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Today I found out that my boyfriend played dares at the weekend and tongued a girl for 12 seconds. He hasn't tongued me before. I play the same game and have kissed other guys before but not with tongues. Should I be mad? (link)
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Most definitely! I would be very mad that he did that with another girl and not his own girlfriend! That really sucks! I'm sooo sorry! If you need any other advice just leave it in my box! Hope I helped! -Kayla
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ive been with my boyfriend for just a week or so and he wants to have sex, and i want to too...and he told me he loved me but i dunno to belive him or not, what do i do? (link)
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Haha. Unless yall were best friends before yall dated, then he doesn't love you. That's a lie to make you want to have sex with him more. If you want to have sex with him then do it. But, I don't think its a good idea.
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wats the easiest way to get a six pack without goin to the gym...i can kinda get the top ones but not the bottom ones...and my love handles... (link)
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Try doing sit ups and crunches. Those should help you out. -Kayla
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Ok well I like this guy, whose name is Frankie. Frankie is a total skater dude, and I’m well... kinda preppy. The only reason I’ve really talked to him is cause he sat by me in a couple of my classes. When I talked to him he was really nice.. and sweet. I finally realized I liked him. I really don’t know if he likes me because he's so different from guys I normally like.. And so different from me. Anyway we had this little inside joke thing where we always like wave to each other outside of this one class we have 2gether... and yea.. He always smiles and waves when he sees me and he is so nice. I mean from what I can tell I barely know him though... it really stinks. Yesterday he switched some classes and now I have no classes with him... I’m really upset. It ruint my whole day yesterday anyway.. I really want to talk to him and just get to know him better. But there are some problems... I’m pretty outgoing but I can be really shy around guys and stuff.... Frankie is totally different from me, and a skater dude... most of his friends totally hate me.... And most of my friends don’t really know him (and I wont tell them who he is)... and I have no classes with him. He still waves to me though. I need advice on how to like talk to Frankie and like really have a conversation with him or just play around. I’m pretty creative, but with all the problems I dunno what 2 do.... And I’m just not very bold when it comes to guys... please help me find a way to talk to Frankie! (PS. in case it helps, I'm 13) (link)
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Well, next time you see him in the hallway do that whole hand wave thing yall do and just to let you know I'm kind of preppy myself and I dated a skater guy. All my friends think he's pretty cool once they got to know him and meet him because he goes to another school. I think that you should just one day when you do that hand wave thing just be like so how's your day been? What class are you going to .. etc.? Then eventually after yall have talked a few days or a week or so be like hey do you want to teach me how to skate board sometime .. since he is a skater and then hang out with him. It will give you a chance to get to know him a little better and if he likes you, he might just end up kissing or hooking up with you. Good luck! Hope I helped! -Kayla
PS. Thanks for writing in my inbox!
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okay i have a problem.... i cut myself... and i dont know how to stop.. its just that i get all jittery and the room spins but as soon as i cut myself i feel normal again and i get a major high off of it.... i want to stop because i know that someone is going to find out and than my life wil be over... so i guess my question is how do i stop without my friends or family ever finding out??? (link)
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Think about what your doing before you do it .. and whenever you want to just remember IF someone finds out it won't be good. Slowly, stop cutting less and less. I hope i helped! -Kayla
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Ok well so far in school im failing ALL my classes except 1. Im in 10th grade and I just switched school. You have to turn in a PERFECT PAPER. And if you get 1 thing wrong you have a F. And if you miss 3 things you get a F. Its hard. So I feel like im going to fail this year. I miss school on the days I have tests on accident. Like i know im going to have tests but I get sick. I like taking tests because it keeps my grade up. And my friends arnt helpng they keep saying Im going to fail. Like im missing 14 assignments in math. So of course I have a F! I just cant handle all of this stuff. Its too hard and It gets me thinking of how I passed 9th grade at my old school. What should I do? How can I keep up my grades and do all my work? (link)
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Well, make sure you get ALL the work you have to make up and actually make it up and turn it in. Then, make sure you make up ALL your tests and STUDY for them! Like until you know that everything that you studied for is in your brain lol. Afterwards make up your grade it shouldn't be too hard! Good luck and I hope i helped! -Kayla
PS. whenever you have a paper that you have to turn in, ask a parent or adult to look it over and if they see anything that needs to be changed, change it! They know what they're doing.
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there is this boy in my class and he is like the most popular in the grade/skool....i like him alot cuz hes a gentleman,nice and funny. i am the tallest one in my grade and im like a couple of inches taller than him. i want to go out wiht him...but i dunno kno how its gonna work. He like trys to make me laugh andstuff but im shy when i like someone and i am around them. I think to mayself mayb i have a chance with him then i c all the other popular girls hanging around with me. How can i get him to ask me out and like me w/ my height?(plz give me ur TRUE & BEST opinion)(i hate when u say "he has to accpet u the way u are")(ps..i am not the most popular person but i am wellknown and nice to evryone therefore im not unpopluar but im not really really popluar)
THanKz...sry its long (link)
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Just flirt with him and act very happy around him. Guys love happy people because other wise they might think your a bitch. Also, I don't think he should care how tall you are because your not much taller and maybe you should hang out with him like outside of school and get to know him. Then if you does like you, you will definitely be able to tell! I hope i helped and I hope everything works out! -Kayla
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ok well yesterday me and my boyfriend broke up..he told me and my best friend that it was cause when we were on the phone that all I said was oh and thats cool and he didn't think I cared when he said stuff so I wasn't that upset about it..but then at school today everyone was like awww I feel so bad and I'm like I'm not that upset and there like wow how could he like her and I'm like what and no1 got a chance to tell me what that meant until my other friend was like I heard what happened and I was like yeah..and shes like do you know the reason and I was like yeah and shes like and your not upset and I was like no not really and shes like do you know this reason and was like he likes this girl (-shes such a slut and he has broken up with me before for her-) but thats not what he told me..and he also told my other friend that he thought I liked this one kid named Jordan but I dont we're in 7th and hes in 6th and hes just a friend..I can understand why he would say that though because my best friend likes him so we're always hanging with him..and so like I really wanna go back out with him..I like him soo much! and like health at school he was like staring at me the whole time and then in tech ed I was hanging out with my best friend and some other people like 2 boys and just my best friend..and he looked like so miserable..and like kept looking over at me..so I dunno if he still likes me or not and I'm gonna talk to him online tonight and I was wondering if hearing that story if you think he still likes me and what I should say to him and if I should ask him back out or just talk to him adn if just talk what should I say! sorry its so long..whoever reads this I'll rate you high! (link)
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Wow, that is really long lol. But honestly, maybe he keeps looking at you because he's confused and maybe he does like that so-called slut. Honestly, if he IM's you any time soon I think you should ask him if he really broke up with you for that girl and if he says no then ask him if he does still like you. Then if he says he does tell him that you still like him too and you wish yall were dating. I hope I helped, I just don't want you to ask him out when your not sure if the rumors true or not. -Kayla
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