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I'm in search of the karaoke version of "Astonishing" from the musical Little Women. I can't find it on Limewire. Does anyone know if they have it on other free music services before I go to download a different program to my computer? As a last resort I would buy a CD, but I don't know as far as websites where to look because I only need one song and I don't want to splurge over 20 of my dollars.

if you typed in "karaoke version of astonishing" try typing in "Astonishing instrumental" hope i helped

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i need help! can somebody explain to me if theres such a program that will take off the vocals on a song? Like if i had a song that has words on it and i only want the music on it, is there such a program that will let me do that? please help!!! I have a song and i only need the background music for my dance class. plz help! thanks

i dont really know if theres a program, but if you have a downloading program like limwire, ares, kazaa, etc. you can download some songs without the lyrics by typing in something like "(song name) instrumental" hope i helped.

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I have a boyfriend. I've been going out with him for over a month now. My mom wont allow me to date until I'm 16 and I'm only 14. It's hard to see him because of this and its a strain on our relationship. I need help. I dont really get along with my mom so I know that if I tell her she wont let me ever see him again. Plz help me.

my friend is 14 and has a boyfriend too but shes not allowed to date (i dont know when shes allowed to though, but her dad is strict i guess) so what my friend does..

-go to the movies
-go to HIS house, but tells her parents shes going to her other friend's house cause she lives near him
-any parties there are .. they both go (sometimes their not invited, so i dont like that one lol)

but any chances you get, use them.

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this might be kind of long but here it goes...

im one of those people who think alot and over analyse things allllll the time and it drives me crazy! the worst is when someone says something to me and i just keep thinking about it in a what if what if what if way. like for example last year before homecoming i was talking to my friend and i was like gosh i need a date who's taller than me and isnt an idiot. so she says why dont you go with (insert name here)?" then i thought about it alot and i started to like him! it always happens, and the latest thing is in one of my classes i was talking to one of my guy friends and this girl says to me: dude you to need to go out already! now for the past 24 hours or so all ive been thinking about is what if we went out? do i like him? does he like me? and it wont stop! i cant just stop thinking, how do you tell yourself, "hey no more thinking!" that doesnt make any sense? it even happens when im sleeping, ill have like 4 different dreams in one night about whatever is bugging me and then when i wake up im exausted!i dont just think about like guys and stuff or anything its school too, im really good at math because i think so much like dont even bother me with the calculator or a formula, i just figure it out by myself. i dont know what to do! but my constant thinking is driving me crazy! please help!!!!

im not really sure if this is gonna help.. but i read in a magazine that if your thinking about something and you cant stop you should say "stop" out loud and some how it's suppose to help. i know it sounds like i wouldnt work but i tried it once before i was going to bed and it sorta did. so try it out. hope i helped. sorry if i didnt lol.

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where can you buy the spandex that stop inbetween your ankle and knee (with the feet cut off)
preferably, the ones that dont ride up your stomach/hide you fat

delias, filenes, hollister, almost anywhere.

http://store.delias.com/browse.do?categoryID=1323&sidenavTrack=apparel.leggings

theres a whole bunch right there.

hope i helped =]

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advicenators,
i've tried putting on liquid foundation before but i can't seem to find the right shade for my skin tone. its really frustrating! Are there any tricks to finding the right shade from looking at the bottle in the store? also, when i put foundation on in a duller light in my bathroom it looks fine, but if i turn on a brighter light it looks incredibly horrible!...like you know how everybody had very very light, almost invisible facial hair (i guess)..all over your face, well they become more visible i suppose. but i am not sure if its supposed to be like that. AHHH please helppp!

my mom told me that you should compare it to wrist.. the part right below the palm of your hand and it should be the same color as your face.

hope i helped =]

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14/f. i'm starting school soon and i have two questions:

1) i dont know what to wear on the first day of school. i want to wear jeans, but my school has no air conditioning, and i don't want to be hot. so i thought i would wear a jean skirt, but i think that everybody will wear skirts, and i don't want to be like everybody else. oh and i really don't like wearing shorts, so any good ideas?


2) also i have a problem for school picture day. i always straighten my hair, and that is what i want to do on picture day. but since my school doesn't have air conditioning, i'm worried that my hair will curl and frizz by picture time. i have my pictures taken 7th period, which is the second to last period of the day.


THANKS [=

im 14/f too and my school doesnt have air conditioning either =[ haha.

1)i would wear jeans anyway. but wear a light shirt or sleeveless shirt like a cami(if your school's dress code isnt against that). you could always roll up your jeans and turn them into capris if it gets too hot.

2)that sucks that you have it at the end of the day! i feel so bad for you. but i saw a portable straightener in like CVS, walmart, etc. that was $20. so you can bring that with you to school and go to the bathroom to fix up your hair if it gets frizzy. and maybe put gel or hairspray in too to make it last longer.

hope i helped =]

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do you think skinny jeans would look bad on athletic thighs? or are they only made for skinny people because my thighs are kinda big at the top compared to the rest of my thighs, and i was wondering if it would look bad.

you should try them on in a store and see what you think. if you feel comfortable in them and you think you could wear them without feeling insecure then you should buy them.

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I have a pimple close to my lip (it's not a cold sore) I've been using proactive on it but it's not going away (it's been like, 2 weeks.) How can I get rid of it?

there's this thing i have called a blemish stick. (it's like a lip gloss, but for your face) when you see that you have a pimple you put it on and it dries it out and disappears faster than usual. the blemish stick i have is from The Body Shop. i dont know if you have one near you but you can probably find it online too. hope i helped

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I just recently moved to a new town a few weeks ago. I started school today and I talked to a view people but didn't seem to meet anyone friendly. Is there a good way to make new friends at a new school? the school is actually really small compared to my old school. Any help is appreciated thank you.

join sports team or clubs. talk to people and act intrested in the topic (even if you arent). try to just get to know at least one person who is in your lunch maybe and then ask to sit with them and chat with everyone at the table. when new people come to my school, i an always intrested like i wanna know about them. so hopefully people at the table will be too and you'll make friends. hope i helped

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halloween costume ideas --

my best friend is throwing a halloween party, where guests should come in costume, and has elected myself and my other best friend the co-hosts. we've decided that we all want to have matching costumes, just the three of us, since we are the hosts. i know it's early to be planning a halloween costume since halloween is nearly 2 months away, but we want to make sure we have an idea of what costumes we want before they are all gone.

so my question is, what are some cute, reasonabally priced costumes, or ideas, for 3 people? thanks mucho!!

some cute ones me and my friends were thinking about doing this year were cowgirls, barbies, maids/waiters, or some people from a movie like mean girls. hope i helpeeddd

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I'm sorry that this is so long.

Well, let's just say my dad isn't the greatest dad in the world.

Sometimes my dad is okay and happy. But when he is actually like that, I don't see why he thinks I want to spend time with him.

If I just go and ask him one little question, he starts yelling at me. Normally I end up crying and he doesn't even care. All he does is yell, "STOP CRYING!" Everytime I end up going up to my room and laying down on my bed crying.

He always yells at my mom and they argue a lot. He hit her once and she threatened to call the police if he did it again, but instead he went upstairs and slammed the door. He threatens her with divorce a lot.

When they are fighting, I'm always in the same room, so I get to witness it all the time. I normally get upset listening to them and I end up going to my room and crying for at least an hour.

Only one of my friends know about this but I've known her for a very long time and she's my only best friend that I know I can trust with this. So far she hasn't told anyone anything.

I've tried talking about it with my mom before and all she did was say, "Well, would you rather live in an apartment?" and laugh. I wanted to scream! She's too scared of my dad to even do anything.

I really don't have any idea what to do. I'm sick of my dad and my mom. Neither one of them care. I don't know who to turn to anymore or what to do. Any ideas about what I should do?

Thanks in advance.

first off- my mom and dad fight all the time too but theres no abuse. my dad drinks alot.. but i have seen a couple things my mom has like booklets on what to do in some situations and a divorice packet.

so i can relate to your situation. what i usually do when they fight is walk away and do something else to forget about it. if there's abuse going on you should get help from a professional. maybe a guidance counsler at school or something. talk to your mom about it more and if she laughs, tell her your serious and its not a funny thing. well i hope i helped

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