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Sometimes he acts fine, but sometimes he acts completely opp


Question Posted Tuesday August 22 2006, 8:08 pm

I'm sorry that this is so long.

Well, let's just say my dad isn't the greatest dad in the world.

Sometimes my dad is okay and happy. But when he is actually like that, I don't see why he thinks I want to spend time with him.

If I just go and ask him one little question, he starts yelling at me. Normally I end up crying and he doesn't even care. All he does is yell, "STOP CRYING!" Everytime I end up going up to my room and laying down on my bed crying.

He always yells at my mom and they argue a lot. He hit her once and she threatened to call the police if he did it again, but instead he went upstairs and slammed the door. He threatens her with divorce a lot.

When they are fighting, I'm always in the same room, so I get to witness it all the time. I normally get upset listening to them and I end up going to my room and crying for at least an hour.

Only one of my friends know about this but I've known her for a very long time and she's my only best friend that I know I can trust with this. So far she hasn't told anyone anything.

I've tried talking about it with my mom before and all she did was say, "Well, would you rather live in an apartment?" and laugh. I wanted to scream! She's too scared of my dad to even do anything.

I really don't have any idea what to do. I'm sick of my dad and my mom. Neither one of them care. I don't know who to turn to anymore or what to do. Any ideas about what I should do?

Thanks in advance.


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xkellxx answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 11:25 pm:
first off- my mom and dad fight all the time too but theres no abuse. my dad drinks alot.. but i have seen a couple things my mom has like booklets on what to do in some situations and a divorice packet.

so i can relate to your situation. what i usually do when they fight is walk away and do something else to forget about it. if there's abuse going on you should get help from a professional. maybe a guidance counsler at school or something. talk to your mom about it more and if she laughs, tell her your serious and its not a funny thing. well i hope i helped

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deagleaver answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 11:04 pm:
i think you should talk with a counselor about this.

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