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Ok this will sound weird but how do you get rid of constapation... lol and how to predent it thank you in advance (link)
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my mom has constipation and she using suppositores and she also uses this powder that you put in your drink i forgot what its called but you can find it at a drug store other than that i dont think there is a cure for constipation goodluck i hoped i helped
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you know how sometimes people look better on some days than others?
Why is that?
Like ill have a day where I look prettier than another day
and i used to think it was the clothes but then i would wear the clothes again
and it wouldnt look the same.
Same goes for guys,
why is this? (link)
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because sometimes we look how we feel sometimes we look like shit feel like shit or sometimes our skins having a bad day or your having a fat day it happens our bodys are always changing so you cant look perfect everyday and that only makes you human but it happens to everyone and you probley dont always look as bad as you think remeber we see ourself different than what other people see because we will always find fault in our selfs so i hoped i helped
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15/f
Okay, about a year and a bit ago, (with my boyfriend of 10months), I had sex. But my cherry didn't pop. So my question is.. Am I still a virgin or no? (link)
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you mean you didnt bleed well not everybody bleeds and you can pop your cherry{break your hymn} other than having sex so no your not still a virgin although you didnt bleed he broke through your virginty barrier hope i helped
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weird question lol again..
but for a girl, whats a cherry, like i know what it is but what does it do? (link)
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a gurls cherry is nothing more than the hymn inside of the virgina you can get your "cherry popped" when a guy penatrates you like lose your virginty or you can pop your cherry {break your hymn} while horse back riding or you know bike riding and if that happens dont worry your still a virgin you may have ripped your hymn but you didnt break through the barrier of your madianhead you know what i mean i hope i helped sorry if its a little confusing
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When guy and girl are having intimate relations what do girls like the most when your trying to pleasure her... (link)
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read her body launge if you touch her somewhere and she moans than you know you hit a good spot and to make it more fun for both you and her you can explore touch her and see what her reaction is you know charmed4u also has a good point diffrent gurls like differnt things but if you take the time to find out i think it'll pleasure her more because your showin that you care i hope i helped goodluck
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Okay so last monday me and some friends were hanging out. And the boy I so happen to have a crush on was there but he has a girlfriend. Okay well we were flirting A LOT. And by the end of the day we ended up kissing. >_< I feel so horrible about this! So basically I made him cheat on his girlfriend. And everyday I feel worse and worse about it. What do I do? Im so confused right now. =( (link)
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well you didnt really make him cheat in my opion because it doesnt sound like he pertically pushed you away he could of said no you may acted and flirted but you didnt force him so dont blame yourself and of course your going to feel bad but at least your learning from your mistakes you know and your'll no better next time but in my opion if wasnt completely your fault you were both wrong it takes 2 to tangle hope i helped goodluck
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17/f
i think i have problems weird stuff allways seems to happen to people when there around me and its like people are reading my thought i know they are i no it sounds crazy but they read my mind and some times say the exact same thing i been thinking of is there something going on around me i am not aware about????? (link)
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maybe your just being perdictiable
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Okay, this gets a little confuzling. Say their names are Kim, Jane, and Lori. Kim and Jane are in 9th grade with me and Lori is in 10th grade. They are all bi and i have no problem with that considering that I'm bi. Anyways, Kim and JAne used to go out last year. They were kind of on and off for about 6months? Well, Kim has definately moved on but Jane is still lingering on Kim. Kim however is ignorant of that fact and goes between being her friend and getting mad at her. (I don't know the details but this has been going on since the end of last year). So anywas, so Jane has, yet again, said that Kim is officially really pissed off at her and it goes like this:
Kim and Lori are going out and they're both druggies. Lori is infamous for going out with someone for the max. of 2 weeks and within that time screwing them. Jane was really really sad when she heard that Kim was going out with Lori and I was like "Hmmm, not surprised." Then I was talking to Morgan, a guy, and he was like "So Kim is soo pissed at Jane because she said that Kim and Lori had sex." and I was like "Hmmm, woah REWIND." And I mean I have so doubt, but very little. There is a huge possiblity that they did have sex and just a little that this si false information.
Anywhos, so Kim gets mad at me if I talk to Jane and vice versa but they're BOTH my friends and not talking to either of them for a period of time isn't going to really help. So what do I do? And please don't suggest. GO TALK TO THEM or something like that. Should I just stay out of it or what? (link)
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stay out of it there fighting is between them not you and there being unfair cause there making you choose and honestly i was in the same perdiciment i told my friends that im not choosing because its not right so let them work it out and if they get mad at you and doesnt want to tal to you over it than fuck them you dont need there immauture little game you know they might be mad at you at first but there admire you for beging a real friend and not choosing
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...But I don't know what to do. When I see a girl kissing a guy, I get seriously turned off...But when I see a girl kissing a girl or something...it seems right to me. I sometimes get aroused by the latter. This is very strange...and I have no idea how it came about. The thing is - sometimes I like guys too! When they kiss a girl, or when a guy talks to me. I have NO idea what's going on. I might be bisexual, or I might be a full lesbian. No idea what's going on with me...I sometimes have thoughts and weird lesbian dreams. o_o...sometimes it scares me. I haven't told anyone. But there are certain clues...In school, sometimes when a girl passes by, or something...like a PRETTY girl...I for some reason (without even REALIZING) tend to stare at her for a while (Like, "check her out")...and it seems VERY weird. I don't even realize what's going on - and then my friends have to tell me that I'm going to be late to class. I just find girls SO pretty. I don't know...I myself am a VERY girly person. (I'm 15/f). This is very foreign to me...lol. :(...is it too young of an age? And what exactly is happening? (link)
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ok dont worry about i have those feelings to it compeletly natural i get more turned on by gurl on gurl action than guy on gurl you know and maybe your bi theres nothing wrong with being bi i think i may be and its a scary feeling yes but its completly natural acutally once i learned to ecxpect it me and my best friend are currently dating an experimenting so its fine with me i just
look at it like im not afriad to try new things and if people dont like it than fuck them so do what you do and dont worry be you your expanding your sexuallty and its completly normal any more questions write me ill help you any ways i can because like i said ive been there and done that hope i helped goodluck
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do guys ALWAYS have an orgasm when they come? (link)
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simple question simple answer of course its one and the same
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I was raped when i was a younger child by my older cousin and ever since then I've been unable to perform an sexual act with another person. I get an erection but then lose it very quickly and I can never reach a climax or anything... I can when i'm alone but I can't seem to do it when I'm with anyone no matter how much stimulation they give me handjob, blowjob, etc. I've been to a shrink but it didn't seem to help me out... How can I fix myself to be able to show that type of intimacy with someone else? The reason why I ask is because i've been dating this guy for almost 4 months now and we've messed around a lot but he doesn't want it to be a one-sided thing where he is able to reach his climax and have an orgasm whereas I don't. I've already told him my situation and it frustrates him that he can't do anything to make me be able to Climax... Can anyone help me?? (link)
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like you said you can reach it when your alone maybe its trust issues im sorry what happened to you when you were younger and if a shrink cant help you than its you who can cure your self maybe your just holding on to the past because of what happened to you you need to try to let go of the past the best you can and just let go only see him and you ,you can try writting down poems and song and even writing to your self i know it sounds crazy but its the only thing that keeps me sane just try to let go of the past i hope i helped maybe you can start climaxing when you win that inner battle within yourself hope i helped
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I was taking my usual ballet class...and while doing a split...I felt pain in *that* area. I'm 15 btw. I went to the bathroom to see what was going on...And I started to bleed...and was sore and that *area* hurt. But it wasn't my period. Because the time didn't come yet. Could it be possible that my cherry has "popped" un-sexually? (I haven't ever engaged in sex). Does this mean I'm not a virgin anymore? ;_; (link)
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you dont have to have sex for your cherry to pop and just because your cherry popped doesnt mean that your not a virgin for example your ballet thing if the penis didnt enter you than your still a virgin so yes your cherry could have popped but i would def go to the doctor if the soreness doesnt go away hope i helped
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I don't understand this...I'm already in the 9th grade...and ALL of my friends have boyfriends! What do guys look for in a girl? Because, to me, it looks like I don't have it. I'm NOT a pushover, I don't dress slutty, and I'm not flirty. Let's also say that "I'm not easy to "get to"". I don't know. I'm a VERY good student....and I get good grades....but this seems like somewhat of a turn off for guys. And those guys that are nerdy (but cute) too, still don't PAY attention to me! It's like I'm invisible...It's just not fair. ;_; (link)
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your'll find somebody dont worry and its good that your not flirty because the gurls who are normally flirty get all the guys because there easy to get to but you said that your not flirty or sluty and you very smart but do you put your self out there not necessary sluty or tramply but friendly do you take to any body maybe your invinsible because you dont make your self known you know what im saying so try to be more sociall and dont worry like i said your find somebody im 17 and dont have a boyfriend surre i get lonley but its not the worst thing of all goodluck hope i helped
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ok, i REALLY need a job! (mostly because i want to buy clothes ) im only 13,but i really want one. i cant babysit,im horrible with kids. (maybe i could if i had another person with me) but other than that,what else could i do? i'm turning 14 in 3 months, so what jobs do they have for 14 year olds also? thanks!! (link)
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there are some jobs that hire really young like trading post they hire around 14 like trading post or bus boy you know stuff like that and if that doesnt work out than how about just a summer job like cleaning peoples houses like the jewish bunglos they give really good money it might be hard cleaning but hey its money right hope i helped
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I have noticed a lot of people ask questions about weight loss. Would anyone like to form a support group/challenge? I am captain of one right now and as a group we lost 103 lbs. last week. It would be strictly based on healthy diet and exercise. So let me know! (link)
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yes i would love to do the challange find me at twistedlover69 thanx please get back to me
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when you no your in love with someone but you know behind you back he is flriting with other girls but when yyou ask he if he's doing it he say he loves me (link)
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guys will flirt and play mind games if you dont think that he really cares for you and playing mind games than yes its def time to move on before you get hurt more i know its hard expecially when you love somebody but it hurt even more when the guy you love is playing mind games and using you your better than that and like you said you know that hes flirting so save yourself the hurt good luck i hoped i helped
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Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years...we're 16. We used to be so great and happy, until this past year. He seems to be changing faster than I am. I haven't noticed until him and some of my friends pointed out that I'm way too clingy, I call him too much and want to hang out too much with him. I can't control it, I've tried to but it ends up being the same. He's frustraited with me lately and it's hard to leave him alone. I want it to work I'm sick of this. (link)
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you need to try to do things that will keep your mind off him and not be so clingy and if you dont change than you might not have a boyfriend to cling to much longer only call him 2 everyother day and try to give him space its easier said than done but if you dont than your'll regret it hope i helped
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I have this teacher... he's my gym teacher and track coach. I'm not trying to sound strange, but I think I'm sort of in love with him, and I have absolutely no idea what to do! He does flirt back with me, but he doesn't flirt with anybody else! Its always been me, and only me. Since I'm one of the best runners on the team, I'm always staying after class to talk, and he flirts with me by touching my arm and stuff, and he is SO attractive! He's one of the HOTTEST people I've probably ever seen, and I am under a "spell." Sometimes he'll call me into gym during my other periods so we can talk. I'm sort of obsessed, but hes only 23 and hes extremely gorgeous!
I am so confused, and no I have never done anything with him, nor will I ever, but I just don't know what to do! All I do is think about him and any advice will help!! (link)
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well its normal to have a crush on a teacher but you know you can never really persue it until your old enough and if hes flirting with you than he can get in a lot of trouble thats rape in a way no matter what especially if he try to do anything with you because your a minor so my advice is to try to push yourself away try not to be as close to him as you are i know that its gonna be hard but its better than wanting and gettin hurt and think about what i said your a student and hes the teacher he should no better just think why would he want or act like hes going to cross the line dont do anything that your gonna regret i hope i helped goodluck
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What Do I Wear To A Valentines Day Party? Thats Not A Dress? Thanx! (link)
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if you dont want to wear a dress wear nice black pants classy and sexy at the same time with heels and a cute red top it is valentines day after all you know hope i helped and besides you cant go wrong with the classical sexy look
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so im 14 and i met this guy that makes my heart melt. weve only see each other in person once at a party. but we have been talking and he invites me to ahngout with his friends. but my parents dont know his friends and i dont know his friends so i know for a fact my parents wont let me go. so i ahve been saying im sick. or i have other things to do. i dont want to tell him that but i feel embaressed when i have to say oh well my parents dont trust my judgement enough to make the right friends. no besides the fact his friends arent the perfect crowd i would never get under hte influnce of perpressuer. i am very responsiable. but my parents dont see that. they see me as some slut. so its aggervateing but. i just told him all of this and he seemed totaly cool i guess with meeting my mom but now i feel if he thinks im so child. we are the same age and in the same grade. but still do you think he would possible think less of me or think im some kind of child? (link)
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if he does than fuck him honey you can find better and like you said you guys are the same age so im sure he has the same problem with his parents because your both still kids and if he likes you any less over something that you have no control over than honey forget him because hes obviouly the child and an immature one at that i hope i helped good luck tell me how it works out-
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