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I think I might be a lesbian...
...But I don't know what to do. When I see a girl kissing a guy, I get seriously turned off...But when I see a girl kissing a girl or something...it seems right to me. I sometimes get aroused by the latter. This is very strange...and I have no idea how it came about. The thing is - sometimes I like guys too! When they kiss a girl, or when a guy talks to me. I have NO idea what's going on. I might be bisexual, or I might be a full lesbian. No idea what's going on with me...I sometimes have thoughts and weird lesbian dreams. o_o...sometimes it scares me. I haven't told anyone. But there are certain clues...In school, sometimes when a girl passes by, or something...like a PRETTY girl...I for some reason (without even REALIZING) tend to stare at her for a while (Like, "check her out")...and it seems VERY weird. I don't even realize what's going on - and then my friends have to tell me that I'm going to be late to class. I just find girls SO pretty. I don't know...I myself am a VERY girly person. (I'm 15/f). This is very foreign to me...lol. :(...is it too young of an age? And what exactly is happening?
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it's never too early/late to be a lesbian and you can try it i mean if you never try then you'll never know but when you do this it becomes part of who you are and if your friends are really your friends then they'll stay by wyour side no matter what
(i'm a lesbian btw)
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You may like both, girls and boys, and there is nothing wrong about it. Right now, it could be a difficult situation since you're in school, but when you'll get older, it won't be so much of a problem to you. You will be more aware of the fact that you have a right to choose your sexuality, since you're the one who lives your life. For now, maybe it's better to explore the nature of your attraction to both, girls and boys. If you like a girl, you may ponder for a while on what it is that attracts you to her. It could be a physical aspect, or maybe something deeper? If you find yourself drawn to a boy, again, ask yourself, what is it that made you turn to him.
Some girls find female body as beautiful as the male body, or, for that matter, even more beautiful. You may like girls in their physical form, but it doesn't mean that you would like to have a romantic relationship with any of them. Besides, when you will really fall in love, you'll realize that looks are not as important as personality. Beauty can capture your attention, but what happens after that is a totally different story. Beauty may be a plus, but when you already love someone, you are attracted to the person because of who he or she is, and you'd be surprised how big of a turn-on could be that simple knowledge of who it is touching you.
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ok dont worry about i have those feelings to it compeletly natural i get more turned on by gurl on gurl action than guy on gurl you know and maybe your bi theres nothing wrong with being bi i think i may be and its a scary feeling yes but its completly natural acutally once i learned to ecxpect it me and my best friend are currently dating an experimenting so its fine with me i just
look at it like im not afriad to try new things and if people dont like it than fuck them so do what you do and dont worry be you your expanding your sexuallty and its completly normal any more questions write me ill help you any ways i can because like i said ive been there and done that hope i helped goodluck
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This is completely normal! Go by what the previous columnists said because it is a stage we all go through, especially during our teen years. I used to confused about mine too for awhile, but it all came out that I am perfectly straight. Don't be ashamed of the dreams you are having either, because I think we have all had those whether we admit to them or not. And also seeing any kind of lesbian, gay, or straight porno is a common thing, too so if you do that, it's OK. Just keep going through this cycle and you'll come out fine. And being 15 isn't young all all. Girl or guys experience this (I've seen) as early as 11! And by the time they hit 20, they were starting to find out what sexual orientation they were.
You'll do just fine! =]
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Don't worry about it. All these feelings are normal. Lots of people have them. You're not lesbian, bisexual, or straight. You're you. Whatever feelings you have are your own and shouldn't be put into a category. At this time in your life hormones are raging. Your body is doing all it can to adjust to the changes. Even if you find that you are straight in a few years, you may experience some homosexual fantasies or feelings when you're a teenager. In a few years all these feelings will calm down a bit and things will be clearer for you. It would be best to put off classifying your sexuality until then. In the meantime don't worry about it and don't be confused. All this gay/lesbian/bisexual/straight stuff is getting way out of hand in the media these days. There's no reason why you need to decide which fits you best. Just roll with however you feel. If you wanna experiment go ahead. It could be fun. Good luck. :)
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