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Torn between two people?
Okay, this gets a little confuzling. Say their names are Kim, Jane, and Lori. Kim and Jane are in 9th grade with me and Lori is in 10th grade. They are all bi and i have no problem with that considering that I'm bi. Anyways, Kim and JAne used to go out last year. They were kind of on and off for about 6months? Well, Kim has definately moved on but Jane is still lingering on Kim. Kim however is ignorant of that fact and goes between being her friend and getting mad at her. (I don't know the details but this has been going on since the end of last year). So anywas, so Jane has, yet again, said that Kim is officially really pissed off at her and it goes like this:
Kim and Lori are going out and they're both druggies. Lori is infamous for going out with someone for the max. of 2 weeks and within that time screwing them. Jane was really really sad when she heard that Kim was going out with Lori and I was like "Hmmm, not surprised." Then I was talking to Morgan, a guy, and he was like "So Kim is soo pissed at Jane because she said that Kim and Lori had sex." and I was like "Hmmm, woah REWIND." And I mean I have so doubt, but very little. There is a huge possiblity that they did have sex and just a little that this si false information.
Anywhos, so Kim gets mad at me if I talk to Jane and vice versa but they're BOTH my friends and not talking to either of them for a period of time isn't going to really help. So what do I do? And please don't suggest. GO TALK TO THEM or something like that. Should I just stay out of it or what?
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stay out of it there fighting is between them not you and there being unfair cause there making you choose and honestly i was in the same perdiciment i told my friends that im not choosing because its not right so let them work it out and if they get mad at you and doesnt want to tal to you over it than fuck them you dont need there immauture little game you know they might be mad at you at first but there admire you for beging a real friend and not choosing
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Stay as far away from this as you can. You can still be friends with them if you want, but be very careful. Try to avoid spending a lot of time with them. If they bring up the situation tell them that you want to stay out of it. Smiling and nodding through it all will only make things worse because they will think that you have chosen a side. If they ask your opinion about something specific you can give it, but I wouldn't go any farther. Make sure that if you do choose to still be friends with them and spend time with them that you spend an equal amount of time on all of them. If you don't they'll take out all of their anger and jealousy on you. I wish you a lot of luck. You may need it!
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Yes you should stay out of it. BUT they are your real friends if they are trying to make you choose sides and you should let them know that. Just because they are friends, don't mean you cant be friends with each of them.
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