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Hey whattsupp, my names Erin, but i sign E whenever I answer a question. I'm a sophmore in high school. I used to run, but strained my back and now i'm done. I love track so if you need any help in that I'm your girl! I'm love giving advice and helping people with their problems. I've been through so much in 15 years, that I can pretty much help anyone. Feel free to ask me anything I'd rather tell you that i don't know than give you a bad or wrong answer.
I love clothes so i'm best at answering questions about style or fashion. When I grow up I want to be either an actress or a fashion desighner. So these are my best subjects! Butt, I can help in pretty much all of them :). Please feel free to ask me anything, I'll ALWAYS answer to the best of my ability, and come on here as often as possible!

-E!

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thank you . thats true. and today me and my boyfriend were standing up in the school hallway and this girls passed by and looked at us and then they were giggling. i felt unconfortable. and they look at me and then him . i dont know what to do, if you were in this position what will you do ?

Well personally, I would ignore them. But I have a feeling your less confrontational then me. And this is okay. With me, I'm very confident, and I know who I am, and I don't care if people talk about me. However, its okay if your not like me. As far as I am concerned, you have two choices. One, ignore them. Two, ask them if they have a problem. Be nice ans just go up to them and say something. Say something along the lines, hey did i do something tho upset/bother you? if they say what do you mean just be like, your always laughing when you walk by.. did i do something. and go from there.
keep me updated!!!
-E

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it was me. ok so today my friend told me that a girl called me a stupid B**** because i didnt know the meaning of twin babies. i just found out today because my friend told me .
should i really care that the gurl called me a stupid B****??

umm, well personally, I wouldn't care. I mean not everyone is going to know everything. If people come up to you and repeat it, then just be like okay. and laugh it off. Blame it on a brain fart!

-E

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If someone was 11 years old in the 7th grade (my sister) and lived in Texas how many grades ahead would that person be for there age?

one grade. But, its possible that thcut-off was weird and they just went a year earlier.
E

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im 14/m and i love my gf
im not like most guys
i dont think of sex and not planning on it for some time now ( till at least 18 )
alil info on me and my gf
well were both "emo" (i dont like sayin i am but everyone knows it and i know i am =,,,( )
ok me and my gf have been together since jan 16 so almost 5 moths now and i know i love her and i cant say if she does cuz i cant say what she thinks
we've had problems and have been getting thru alright but im stuck on this one problem..
ok well over summer i met this girl and ever since then were relly good friends ( shes not emo )
and well she invited me to church and my gf got per say jelous and ya but shes just a friend and thats all
and so what makes me want to kill myself is that all the problems my gf is going thru and today is the worst day ever for me
today is may 10 ( mothers day ) and my gfs parents are devorced so my gf woke up with her mom gone..
ON M^%#$@"!.king MOTHERS DAY!!!
i love her and i accully provide myself
i do go to work and i get paid at this age
i love her and i wish to provide her
i wish to marry her
tell me what should i do..
i deeply love her
i wrote this earlier but it didnt show up so i rewrote it but not as good
sorry
i love her..

Yes, what are you asking?
Well I guess i'll just give you my thinking on the subject. I understand that you love her, but at 14, you shouldn't be 'providing' for her. You don't need to buy her stuff. I don't see the bid deal with her mom gone on mothers day, with her parents divorced i see how her mom may think that it is not a big deal, since her daughter, your girlfriend, won't have a real childhood. Real childhood:: both parents together. Today this is not normal, lots of parents get devorced, however, your parents think 'normal' is the traditional way. Was your girlfriend upset at her mother? if so, SHE needs to talk to her, it doesn't concern you. If your girlfriend gets jelous by your friend get a big group together and try to see if your friend and girlfriend can become friends.
Otherwise, just have fun with life, stay with your girlfriend, and understand that if it doesn't work out, not saying it will or won't, that you are still young.

-E

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im a fm 14 years old.
i do cheerleading and gymnastics for 10 hours a week every week all year

my left lower back is killing me. like some times i can barely walk it hurts so bad. like as i type its hurts like a sharpe painn.
my doctor said i was just over working it but since my check up its gotten alot worse.


can anyone tell me whats wrong?

I personally, strained my back from track(iknow weird..) anyway, it felt so much better that I went on the trampoline and was doing front handsprings and flips. That pulls your back, and I made my back like 654691631times worse then it was originally. With cheet/gymnastics, you are constantly pulling your back. You need to rest for a little bit, maybe a whole week off. Heat your back, so like lay on a heating pad, and then ice it down after practice, use an anti-inflamitory (like, ibeprophen). Lastly, call your doctor again. If it has gotten worse you need to talk to him, I am just going off of what My doctor said for my back, but talk to them and your coach.
Explain to your coach what your going threw and how you need to take it easy, they would rather you take a break for a week, then do something that will make you be out for months.

Feel better!!
Hope I helped!

-E
www.erinschoch.weebly.com
^^ my website :) check it out!

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i saw a trailer a while ago, and i forgot what the movie was called and ive been dying to watch it.
It's about i think these kids? or people, and they find a list of numbers, and the numbers happen to be of dates of natural disasters, and they were like "well what happens when the numbers end..?"
anyways please help!
thanks so much!

Knowing. Nicholas Cage is in it, However, I heard it was terrible. I also wanted to see it , but my firends said bad reveiw so i didnt'

-E
www.erinschoch.weebly.com

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sorry. i tried to say that the gurl that talks about me she told me that me and my friend missed the fight that happened in lunch .

Alright, and who was this fight between? Why is it important to you? Is she trying to calim toughness? If so, not fall for it. Just leave them be. It's the best thing you can do at this point.

-E

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So this summer my little sister (11) is going to camp...but she has to fly their. She has never flown by herself before and is very scared. There will be a camp counselor that will meet the campers at the airport but that dosnt calm my sisters nerves. What can we do to help? Will there be someone at the airport to help her out?

Talk to they airport and they can have it arranged for someone to help her. Your family can also walk her to the gate, and watch her go on.

-E

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ok, so heres the rundown.. me and my girlfriend of almost a year, ill go ahead give names and ages.. (as bad as that sounds.) shelby-14 and daniel-16 (me) i konw you want to quickly judge us based on age, but we love eachother.. we do. as much as i do love "getting some" that is not why im with her. im with her because i love her, we laugh, cry, joke, and we sometimes argue a bit. anyways, we had sex, in a public bathroom, and well... her mom found out. she knows we used pretection.. but.. she wants to not let us see eachother.. i mean.. i went to cozumels for cinco de mayo (cozumels is a mexican resturant) and her family was there... they saw me and they immidiately left... (they didnt order yet).. because of me... i mean.. i have to see her. i will wait the full 4 years if i have to.. but i cannot allow that to happen.. we will both spend 4 years of misery.. and i wound like to intervene... somehow.. i sent her mom a long txt.. nothing too personal, just telling her about me loving her, and that i want a long realationship with her... didnt work. needless to say i only sent 1 txt.. i mean, i dont wanna harrass anyone.. anyways.. help plz?.. just any suggestions im up for..

A text is so impersonal. I suggest writing a letter or calling. But, you need to ask them if you guys can talk. You need to explain to her parents that it was completly inappropriate for you two to have had sex. (wether you belive it or not, suck up to them!!) You need to tell them that it will never happen again, and you are fine with them being home when you guys hang out. You need to regain their trust, even if it starts with them sitting between you guys while watching a movie.

Hope I helped, if you need anymore help, drop a question in my inbox.

-E

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where can a 13 year old boy get a job at

There is a law called child-labor law and its where no one can work under 14. and if you do work under 16, you need a work permet. However, I am sure that you can mow lawns, work around the house(ask parents) and babysit!

Good Luck

-E

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well today me and my friend were sitting down and her and her friend came and they tols us deam you guys missed the fight . there was a fight in luunch. am like wth didnt she said she didnt talked to me. i dont know i dont understand!

I would love to answer your question/help you, but can you please use proper english thanks!
Go ahead and re-ask it to me!!

-E

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they sometimes look at me and then they start laughing . i feel really unconfortable. i dont wanna go up to them beause i know i will just end up fghting .

I understand, but if you do not want to fight then you need to just let it go. I don't think fighting is a good disition so just ignore them! I understand that it makes you feel uncomfortable, but just act like you don't even see them. Its all you really can do.

-E

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Okay, so my sister is completely and totally evil. I mean this litteraly she hit me on the head with plyers once, she talks back to mom and ad, she's always mean to me, cusses me out and embarasses me in school. She phyisically abuses me and my parents can't do anything about it what do I do?

Oh my gosh! What do you mean by your parents can't do anything about it? Talk to a school counsler. I think that you need to get out of there. Please, PLEASE! talk to someone. I'm going to assume that your parents just can't control her. I think that you need to first try avoiding her and if nothing changes the go and talk to someone. This is not safe.

Please, ask me anymore questions that you have.

-E

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hey, there are this 2 gurls ,one of them is balck and huge and the other one is skinny and long hair. when they see me give a kiss to my boyfriend they always sem to say something. and in class sometimes they look at my friends and me and they start mumbling and then they start laughing. i dont know whats soo funny. i dont want to go up to them beacuse then the whole class will know . thats how loud they are. if you were in this situation what would you do ?

So they kiss your boyfriend on the lips? Talk to your boyfriend. Personally, I wouldn't want to talk to them either. Just ignore them. Them laughing at you in class? PATHETIC! If their life is so boring to the point that they are going to make you feel uncomfertable, then who cares?! About the whole kissing thing ask your boyfriend to just give a hug and move his head so that if anything it will go on his cheak. Sooner or later the girls will get the message. But really, talk to your boyfriend, if he gets upset, tell him its not him its them. Hope I helpled and if you need anymore help please feel free to drop another question in my inbox!

-E

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thank you.

You're welcome!!

-E

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well yah , nd this is why i dont like having a myspace because it only brings problems . ahhh

Yes, I understand. However, it is a good way to communicate with friends. But, just ignore people like this, all they do is feed on drama.

Hope I helped you!!
-E

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Hi i'm 22years old my question is my penis(cock)wats the reason for that can i able to do sex...? How can i improve my cock....?

Alright, I don't fully understand your question. Whats the reason for what? Please try re-sending/asking the question.

-E

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awww thank you thats sooo nice of you to tell me that piece of good advice.
eventually she took it out and she put something saying that her friend come and go and that she doesnt care.
-some of my friends told me not to sttod to her level.Just to let her be .you think this is rue what i should do ?

I agree with your friends. Unless, she is a very close friend I would just drop it. You don't have to be mean or ignore her. You could just say hello. Unless, you guys are not friends. I say you just let it go. Move on with life. Have fun. This is just a whole misunderstanding and if she 'doesn't care' then why do you? Move on!

Hope I helped

-E

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So my friend is considered a so called "slut" just because she had sex with her boyfriend, i dont care if she did or not. But everyone is telling me she's not innocent. Am i just not looking correctly?? By the way im only 13 n a half and so is my friend.

The person before me is correct with the deffinition of a slut. However, you shouldn't have these conversations with these kids about it. Excuse yourself from the conversation when this topic comes up. For example, someone talks about your friend being a slut just say It's none of my business or I don't really want to talk about that now.


Something along that line.

Hope I Helped!
-E

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hey!
ok so on myspace i wrote am happy and am better then you . and thiq qurl started qoinq crasy and she put "girl am way better than you. there aint a person thats better than me so take a gun and shoot youself." i was like omg is this gurl nuts or something. nd i didnt wrote that im better the you because of her but i guess she thought it was for her. i wanna ask her wats her problem but i dont want her thinking am visiting her profile .
what should i do ?

Hey, okay I think that you should comment her, or message her(if you want it to be privite) and be nice. Pretty much say, I just thought I should let you know that my status was not about you, and I am sorry if you took it that way. *end* It was completly unnessesary for her to say the last part, 'so take a gun and shoot yourself'. However, do not stoop down to her inappropriate level. I have no idea how old you are, but I am going to assume that you do not want to be in a fight with this girl. I understand that you don't want her to think that you visit her profile, but as far as I am concerned, you have two options. 1. Message/Comment her (as stated before) or 2. Leave it and move on with life. If she starts saying inappropriate things back then send me another question with her reply. However, if you leave out the last part and act as if you never read it she might say something like ohhh, okay. and then just be done. But, if she does say something along the lines of her second sentence, either tell me, and i'll help you, or tell a trusted adult.

Hope I Helped!!

-E

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