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Question Posted Thursday April 30 2009, 9:57 pm

hey, there are this 2 gurls ,one of them is balck and huge and the other one is skinny and long hair. when they see me give a kiss to my boyfriend they always sem to say something. and in class sometimes they look at my friends and me and they start mumbling and then they start laughing. i dont know whats soo funny. i dont want to go up to them beacuse then the whole class will know . thats how loud they are. if you were in this situation what would you do ?

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elw5039 answered Sunday May 3 2009, 1:09 pm:
They are trying to get to you and trying to intimidate you. They want to know that you notice what they are doing and that its bothering you. What you need to do is act like theyre not even there. Walk past them like you have all the confidence in the world and they are nothing to you. If you go up to them and say something that will just let them know that they accomplished what they wanted and that will give them room to start an argument. And then you will be on the same level as them. You have to be above them. Another thing that will absolutely get on theyre last nerve is if you kill them with kindness. Be the sweetest person in the world to them when they talk to you. And the more attitude they get, the sweeter you get. I hope this helps and ask me anything else you need help with. Good luck <33

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Darby answered Sunday May 3 2009, 12:31 am:
If I were in this situation, I would definitely ignore these girls. If they're mumbling things when you kiss your boyfriend, they're probably jealous! It's not worth a fight or argument with obnoxious, immature people. They are most likely just trying to cause drama. If you act like they aren't even there, they'll get bored with it and move on to someone else.

Hope this helps(:

Darby

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schochie16 answered Saturday May 2 2009, 11:45 am:
So they kiss your boyfriend on the lips? Talk to your boyfriend. Personally, I wouldn't want to talk to them either. Just ignore them. Them laughing at you in class? PATHETIC! If their life is so boring to the point that they are going to make you feel uncomfertable, then who cares?! About the whole kissing thing ask your boyfriend to just give a hug and move his head so that if anything it will go on his cheak. Sooner or later the girls will get the message. But really, talk to your boyfriend, if he gets upset, tell him its not him its them. Hope I helpled and if you need anymore help please feel free to drop another question in my inbox!

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