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I really love giving advice and I really like helping people :]
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I was just wondering...15/f...can hair dye ruin your hair? are there any products out there that aren't harmful to your hair? maybe something non-permanent..?

It will damage it a little , but you can treat it.

Or grow it out all the way so that you can cut it making it all healthy

Okay, I don`t play any sports & I`m not the most athletic person. My parents really want me to do something & so do I, but there`s nothing fun that I`d think I`d be interested in doing. So, is there anything else, like besides sports that I could do? (Acting classes, etc.)

Art, Drama, Shop class, Band, Orchestra, choir, and anything like that is a great activity. Try signing up for a musical to get you acting and dancing , so its a sport and activity

hi, i hate my teeth. they're all discoloured, like pale yellow, and dont fit together, like normal teeth, some are like vampire teeth, and they have gaps between them. back to the colour, i dont smoke, i only drink coffee sometimes, and dont drink red wine etc, because im only 15. so whats with them? and how much would those proper hite teech cost? like the celebs? thanks

If you dont want to pay alota money, use crest white strips , and drink any dark liquids (coffee, tea, some sodas, etc..) through a straw so they wont get to your teeth.

i think i just wanna leave this world and
never come back. i HATE HATE HATE HATE my
family.you just dont know what ive been
through. its untakable. i just turned 13
a couple of months ago and im too young
to be dealing with this. my parents are
cheap selfish people and they wont buy
me ANY clothes. and thats against the law
you know. they have to provide me with clothing
but they dont. i already have 2 jobs but obviously
they cant pay for all the clothes i want.
all of my clothes have rips in them and they
arent even summer they are longsleeves and i
think im gunna fricking sweat to death in them.
this just isnt fair to me. i already pay for
EVERYTHING i get but clothing? thats just not
right. and theres no money problems in my
family whatsoever because my moms a lawyer and
my dad is the vice president of a bank. and how
selfish can they be to not even provide necessity
item to their daughter. im 13 i just dont think i
should be going through this. its ridiculous!
whats a number i can call to help me ?! no i would
never kill myself but ughh my parents ruin my life.

='(

Call Child support or any other place like that, and dont buy a&f and hco if you dont have eanough money

Good luck :D

my siblings and I have really gotten used to the stray kitten that is in front of our house.
my mom hates cats so she wants us to give it away
we rele dont want to give it away but we have to because once it gets rele cold it wont be able to live outside
wat is the best way to give away blinky (kitten's name)
to ensure that it is in a good home where it wont be abandoned again
by the way the kitten was abandoned in front of our house

Maybe you could give him to someone you know, that way you could still see him, and make sure hes in a good home. Or you could go take a walkthrough and talk to the (maybe) future owners of Blinky and see if that home is right for him.

how should i feel when i see some1 who broke my heart after 3yrs? When i saw him today i wanted to throw up and cry. should i feel that way? it's just that after seein him maid me mad and sad it's a hard to see him it makes me really angry. he didn't even give me a reason when he broke up with me. it really fuckin sucks. i hurts like hell too. some1 tell me how i should deal with this. PLEASE. THKS

Talk to him, and see why. It could have been peer pressure or something or he could have just been shy so quickly ran off without giving u a reason.

Good luck :]

XD Ok so there is a similer question about this. But mines kinda different...

Ok, I want my room to be...like something that just says me, you know? I love the colors red, blue, certain shades of pink, silver, green and black. I want my room to be sorta those colors...but not black. I want to choose a blue color...but so far, everytime I look for a shade, it either looks to dark of a blue, or way to light. And I would like something in the middle...do any of you have an idea on what you would do with your room if you loved those colors?(And I want to put stuff in my room that match with the colors I put above)

Thanks so much! ^^

For a light/dark blue try aqua or turqoise that way its like dark blue light blue and green.

hehe :P hope that helps

how do you make a youtube video where you take scenes from movies put them together put music and yeah how do you make one of those?

I use imovie (i have a mac)

But if you have a PC then im not so sure

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You probably have a different computer than me though hehe :D

I dyed my hair blue and it fades everytime I wash it and is always still a little green for the times i dyed it because my hair was a platinum blonde and then 2 or 3 weeks later i dyed it again and it turned out exactly the way i wanted and then I washed my hair and it went back to fading green and grey. and I don't want to go bald but I don't think my hair is that damaged but i dyed it about 4 days ago so how long do I have to wait to dye it again? and I'm going brown this time.
thanks

Try and grow it out a little bit to make it healthier and use special hair shampoo, then when your dying your hair leave it in longer than usual. If that doesnt work, go to a hair salon and get it dyed proffesionally. :D

Hope im helpin ya

I know this sounds totally stupid, and i feel like really dumb for saying this but whatever, okay so im like a 34a getting to a b-cup but i don't have clevege, how can i do this? people joke around with me sometimes, and then i see other girls who have it, how do they do it? and dont say like "you dont need to" or anything, is it a push-up bra or something? tape? or i have no idea. but help, because my friends need this to haha. [[ also i have no idea what catagorey to put this in ]]

Well That persons right, you could be born with it, or try a push up bra:

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/collection/?cgname=OSBRPVERVIL&cgnbr=OSBRPVERVIL&rfnbr=1096

Hehe hope Im helpin :D

my hair is down almost to my butt and i mean like not even an inch to my butt and well i really dont have anything to do with it i always put it in a pony tale or in a bun the only time i like it is when i straitin it which takes me like 2 hours to do and it cant be heathy for my hair if i keep heating it and its not curly its kinda wavy but and ugly wavy is there any websites that can show me some hairstyles i can try that are cute but easy to do thax

Cut it a little bit to give it a trim and make it healthy, and maybe some of these might work:
http://www.seventeen.com/hair-skin-makeup/hair-ideas/

http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/long-hair.htm

http://www.bellaonline.com/subjects/4211.asp

Those are just some of the ones Ive found, If ya need more , let me know

I found a kitten the other day at work, I think it was dropped off there. It is infested with fleas they are all over him. I have given him the treatments that you squirt stuff behond there necks, I have given him a flea bath but they are still all over him. What else can I do to get rid of the fleas. I feel bad because I am leaving him in a rabbut cage thats pretty big in the garage, because I don't want to bring him in the house and get all my other animals infested, so what else can I do to eliminate all these little critters? Any help would be very appriciated! Fast Too!

Maybe if you give him a bath, then put the flea stuff on him it will get better. Also take old blankets or towels you dont need any more and put them in the rabbit cage to make it comfy :D

A few years ago, my grandmother passed away after a long illness. My family was devastated,especially my grandfather. Some time passed and he met "Teri". She is 30 years younger than him,in fact she's 3 years younger than his youngest daughter. Teri does various drugs and has been in jail for larceny. While out on probation this past Christmas, she stole my grandpa's car and his ATM card. The car was recovered Around New Years, she stole more money from him (he forgave her) and wound up in jail somehow. Now my grandpa is tens of thousands of dollars in debt as he pays her bills off (which includes lawyers to get her out of jail),as well as his own. He makes very little money as it is. He's come to all of us for loans. We're a close family and we only want what's best for him. We want him to cut this woman out of his life and all of the negative influence that comes with it. I realize this might be a delayed reaction to the grief of losing my grandmother. All attempts to talk to him about it result in him saying "you don't understand her" or "don't worry about it." what do we do?

Tell him that she is just a gold digger, and will keep stealing that money, and that shes ripping your family apart (even though she might not be) :D

i know there alot of forgein exchange programs that bring kids to the u.s. from other countries. are there any that u.s kids can do to go to other countries? if so, where can i read about it? i've tried searching google, but i didnt find anything.

thanks!

Check at your school when it starts, they might have forgein exchange stuff there :D

does anyone know where i can get the piano music for Barlow Girls "Never Alone"

http://www.christianguitar.org/csong13906/BarlowGirl-Never-Alone

I think thats it :D

Hope I helped ya

what are the bad sides to weed? dangers?

Well, it kills braincells, which dont reproduce and you could die or get brain damage. Also if you get caught then you could go to jail.

I'm moving soon and I want to have a really neat room, any ideas?

I want a yellow or purple bedspread since those are my favorite colors. If you find any cute ones can you send pictures please :)

Or if you find any cool furniture or something like that, thanks!

i found a cute yellow couch :D

http://www.miniopenhouse.com/assets/images/__2010_Yellow_Couch_01.jpg

http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=br_1_2/602-5382096-8000623?ie=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B000K0QFF4

so i got this little tin box b/c i thought it was cute and i want to use it for something, like as a place to put spare change or savings. but not that because i already have something like that.
any ideas?

heres a picture so you can get a better idea =]
http://www.electrasol.us/whats_new.html
the one with the little dog on it =]

thanks.

Use it as a pencil holder, put your keys in it after work, and maybe little nic nacs (spelling :o) Hope i helped

im moving into an apartment and im not allowed to paint on the walls. does anyone have any good ideas on something creative i can do to my walls or cool ideas for the room?
thanks a bunch

Put some posters up, and alot of pictures of your friends and family etc... all matching around the same color , you can hang curtains on the walls also to make them more colorful and put in some rugs. If you want tile im pretty sure they have stick on tiles for a few dollars each that are temporary.

Hope I helped :D

i have a bay window in my room. does anyone know any cool things i can do with it?

Put a cushion on it and some curtains, with some lights above , if you can maybe make a little bookshelf built into the wall :D

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