I'm a third year psychology student and i love giving advice to those who are in need of it but if you ask me a stupid question you should expect a stupid answer i love hanging out with friends and socialising i can be really conceited at times and if you get on my bad side you might wanna sleep with an eye open!
Altogether I would say that I am still finding myself and my place in this huge world, searching for the great amor and visiting beautiful places
so guys feel free to ask me anything that's on your mind and I will try to give you the most helpful advice
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Well.....i am a 15 year old girl...and recently I have masturbated.....but....everytime I do...I feel guitly and dirty...and I don't want to continue...I want to ask my sister, or brother, or even my parents..but I'm scared to...I keep thinking they will laugh or get mad at me....and say that I am disgusting...so I just wanna know...Is it bad or wrong? And why? (link)
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it's completly normal to masturbate almost every girl does it i'm sure you mum or sister have too however i don't think you should speak to them about it because masturbation is really personal and it would be really awkward for you to discuss this with them but you shouldn't feel guilty it's a normal healthy part of life
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how do you get to a girls g-spot (link)
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lol well you could experiment and kiss her all over till you find a few spots where she starts breathing really heavy or gripping your hair and can't sit still then thats probably it
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Hi, i had sex for the first time with my friends ex boyfriend. I am 14 years old, and now she doesn't talk to me anymore. (if she would find out about the sex shed probably kill me.) We used protection, but he doesn't seem to love me but i think I'm falling for him. What should i do to get him to like me (BTW he isn't my boyfriend) I am Female and 14 years old. I am from America (link)
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if she's not speaking to you then it's best that you don't tell her right now it could just make things worse and okay lets get to the guy
firstly he doesn't love you or probably doesn't even like you because he had sex with you knowing that you're his ex's friend and secondly the fact that you had sex with him and he's not your boyfriend makes it seem like you're easy to him he doesn't respect you, you shouldn't fall for someone like that he was just a guy looking to get laid, you deserve better
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my hair is long past my eyebrows to keep it down I just a wear a beenie but I'm thinking I should straighten it but what I'm wondering is if thats a good look for a guy? (link)
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try using a hairdryer it adds more volume and gives you that wind swept look, straighteners could sometimes make your hair look flat but i love a guy who takes good care of his hair and other girls will too
keep it up!
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I am fifteen. I am currently in a relationship with a great guy. I have known him since August and we spend a lot of time together. He makes me feel so special. He compliments me, accepts me, and treats me right. He is patient with my insecurities and I feel like we could be together for a long time because of our strong chemistry. Our relationship has lasted two months so far, and I could never be happier!
We are physical in our relationship. We kiss a lot but I am uncomfortable with making out so he told me he will wait. He loves to cuddle and hug and he is never pushy but very understanding. Still, I find him often staring at my breasts. I take it as a compliment, but some days I just feel like that's all he cares about. Sometimes when I am talking his eyes are glued to my chest. It hurts a little but I know guys will be guys. He really wants to see my boobs but I have told him I am not ready, and again he assures me he will wait. Still, I feel skeptical. I feel like if I do show him my breasts, even if he is pleasured, the relationship will turn more into physical love and fade out of the spark it is now. But I feel like if I don't do it, he will grow tired of waiting and get bored with me.
He assures me I have nothing to worry about. He is so caring and sweet.
What do you suggest I do? Are my insecurities from past relationships getting to my head? (link)
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i admire you for telling him that you're not ready, good job! but think it's only been two months everybody knows a guy has needs but they are willing to wait if they want the relationship to work and don't let him guilt you into it because i'm sure you notice that that's happening but speak to him about this tell him you don't want your relationship to be just physical theres other ways to keep yourself occupied so he wont get bored and it doesn't have to be sexual if he really cares about you he'll wait
best of luck
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Hey, I'm only 11 but I really like this guy. I mean, I have never felt this way about a guy before! I don't know what to do! How do I tell him I like him? Please help me, if you can't that's ok. You probably have lots of questions to answer. TTYL, Maybe. (link)
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well i'm sure you know the best thing to do is tell him yourself, ask him if he wants to hang out sometime he'll get the point but if you find that hard to do maybe you should get someone you trust to tell him
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how do u know if your a good kisser? (link)
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if people you kissed tell you you're a good kisser
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how should i turn my 15 year old
boyfriend on? (link)
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well if you want him to respect you keep your pants on!
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I need a cute nickname for my boyfriend, Cain.
but I can't think of any good ones?.. any ideas?
"Cainerbear"?
>Thanks in advance (link)
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lol daddy cain, sugar cain whatever he loves hard to say coz i don't know him
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I am 13 years old and i cant get contacts in. I wore glasses until 7th grade when i started noticing my appearence. Aau basketball is coming up and i need to get them in soon! But i cant! Help!Does anyone have any suggestions? Or an easy way i could get them in? (link)
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try videos online and practice often i usually use my index and middle finger, put your index finger on the top half of the contact and place it down gently with your middle finger don't worry if it doesn't reach the centre of your eye just KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN and move it about and it will fall into place
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How can I tell when a guy really likes me? (link)
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well you'd find him staring at you at times, he would look into your eyes when talking to you, find ways to touch you and get really close when speaking to you but all guys are different, why not just hint him? and find out for yourself
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Hi, I am 14 years of age and all my friends have had their period and even my younger sister, 12 years old has had her period. I LOVE kids and what to have some when I get married. If I don't get my period, will I still be able to have kids? What age does the chances of having your period stop? (link)
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you're so lucky that you don't have it yet! but don't worry it's normal and you'll get it eventually but if you hit around the age of 17 you should go to a doctor to get it started, for now just enjoy it while you can
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I'm looking for good songs for people in a relationship, but not quite in love yet.
I've never been in love, and believe it could be possible with this one.
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"angel of mine" by monica, "weak" by jojo, "beautuiful soul" jesse mcCartney
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well im getting braces and i was wondering eat u can and camnot eat (link)
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you can eat normally as you did before you get braces just when you in stringy stuff like spinach make sure you clean your braces often
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is being bulimic bad? (link)
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yes, it's really bad and can sometimes be fatal to some girls it often becomes an addiction with an obsession about losing weight this is really unhealthy and hazardous to your body
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so i just met this boy and i am really infatuated with him.
we hav been texting nonstop for a couple of days and today he didnt text me ONCE
im so upset.
clearly if he liked me he would of texted me or something
y am i not on his mind??
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well you said it's only been a day maybe he was really busy or some guys use that tactic where they don't speak to you for a while in order for you to keep thinking about them it kinda keeps you hooked and plays on your mind like what it's doing to you right now or he's probably playing it cool you know being a guy but if he doesn't text you for another couple of days you should confront him but in a nice polite way, you never said if you were dating but if you're not then he probably doesn't see it as a problem that he didn't text you today
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my name is Rachel and Iam 21 will be 22 in another month and my boyfriend is 36 I know big age diffrence please don't lecture me. my boyfriend has major trust issues becouse of past relationships one put him in a wheel chair and paralized him for the rest of his life but let's get to my problem everytime I go out with friends or my sister he accuses me of cheationg on him and i've told him that iam not that type of person over and over again. I havn't done anything to break his trust at least not that iam aware of. How can I get him to believe and trust me? (link)
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well it seems like your boyfriend has self esteem issues and he thinks that just because he is in a wheelchair he has a disadvantage he feels that you would find somebody else because of his disability you need to speak to him and assure him that you love him and that just because he is paralysed it does not mean that he is any different to you, tell him that you love him for him and make it known that if you wanted to cheat on him you would have done it by now but he means a lot to you. communication is the only way you'll get through this because you too need your personal space and if he doesn't see reason then this would affect your relationship
best of luck
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I'm with this girl who I have been trying to get with for a while. She has on occasion mentioned giving head to other guys in the past nonchalantly, which makes me jealous.
I'm usually doing the work in the bed, and she wont ever finish me off/give me head. We've had sex... but I sort of have a fetish with handjobs/blowjobs... why if she likes me as much as she said give me a blowjob, while shes given other guys blowjobs? I mean, I treat her better than anyone else, I shave down there, take care of my hygiene, and have an average penis.
It bothers me a lot to know that I have to work so hard to get so little when others worked so little to get so much. Can someone help me get over this? or fix this? or advice at all?
It makes me feel like i'm not worth so much because she wont put forth the effort to please me anywhere near the level she has other guys. (link)
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well if she knows that you know about her past experience then maybe she feels that if she does give you head it's gonna remind you of her past and she maybe feels that you will think that that's all she's good for but maybe you should try speaking to her don't ask her directly that could be awkward try asking in a way when you both are already having sex that's when people tend to give in easily and if she does then after that speak to her and assure her you've forgiven her for her past and if she's comfortable blowing you
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okay so the boy i like knows i like him and he had a girlfriend and they just broke up well he broke up with her because she cheated on him. And i dont know if i should like talk to him more or something because i can tell he is still hurt because when he told me i could see the hurt in his eyes but i think this is the perfect chance to get him and i am just confused on what i should do any ideas??? (link)
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well you said that you saw the hurt is in eyes which shows that he's obviously not over her i understand that you like him and want to get him but if he does get with you you would be kinda like his rebound he'll use you to get over her i think you should speak to him though seems like he needs it, be a supportive friend and assure him that you're there for him and as time goes by i'm sure that he will start liking you for you
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I've been looking for a song that describes me & my "friend". . .
we've been messing around for at least 3 & 1/2 years now & we've been through A LOT & we will always be there for each other . . but I would like to have him listen to a song that would tell him I like/love him a lot but I dont want to keep waiting around forever for something to happen between us because I want to be with him now... yet I'll always be there for him no matter what..
If that makes any sense at all lol
It can be any type of genre, but preferably something r&b, rap, or rock
any help is appreciated greatly ! (: (link)
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how about "crush" by david archuleta, "maybe" by jay sean or "for you i will" by monica
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