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Hey. I love giving advice. I enjoying giving advice about the sexual things, I've been thinking about getting a degree to be a sexual education teach or, or a sex therapist. I my second best would be friendship[s] and relationship[s]. I am 21yrs old. I have a pit bull named Zip. I work at a middle school as a nutriton assistant. I have 4 god children, 1 boy, 3 girls.

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Hey I like this guy but he has a girlfriend and I don't know if I should tell him how I feel because I am scared that he will reject me or what not and he told me I was very sweet and pretty but he had a girlfriend right now but whenever I see a picture of them or something it hurts soo bad bcause he thinks that he is soo in love with her and he is soo not!!!! What advice can you give me!

jst go for it! tell him how you feel! don't be afried! i mean yeah there has been times but her...u don't need to fear rejection...cuz if he rejects u then it's his lost not urs!
How long has he been dating this girl??
jst be friends w/ him drop him hits that u gotta thing for him flirt w/ him (when his girlfriend is NOT around) haha!
let me know how it goes or if ya need some more help w/ it!!

~b

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do most girls shave on the pussy lol?

i shave mine...that's only bC i don't like hair down there...to me it seems a lot more cleaner! and some guys like so it don't in there mouth when they eat you out also!!

hope i helpEd
~b

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i am dating my mom's brother's cousin's grandpa's son's daughter, are we related?

ur dateing ur cuzin!!

~b

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im thinkin i want a guy thats a year or two older than i am because that way hes not so immature and hopefully not as prude... but then again.. i dont wanna be made fun of or called a whore for the stupid things ppl will assume.. so i guess i could go for a guy my age.. but isnt it more important what i want then what my friends think... please help! i rate well! x0x0x ~*a*M*y~

ur not a whore if you date somone a couple yrs older then you...and there is really nothing wrong w/ it...if ur friends have a problem w/ it then jst tell thme that you want someone thats more mature and not some lil 5yr old acting boys! i've dated guys that where older then me but none of my friends had prblems w/ it bC they dated older guys to...plus the guys i like are more my style and there also older but idk...got off track for am in... but there is nothing wrong w/ dateing an older dude!

hope i helped...let me know!

~b

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Hye its nukka again and i did what you told me to do about the ex boifriend and he was like i love you and i dont wanna hurt you and she doesnt matter to me she is gettin annoyin but somehow i dont believe that at all so do u think i should believe him or not?? ((I really need to know what u think))
Bye

well do but then don't...wait and see his next move..see if his going to break up w/ his girl or not!...and if he does it in the next couple weeks then he meant it!...but ask him y don't he jst break up w/ her and get back w/ you since he loves you so much...let me know wat happened!

~b

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Hey... i have 2 questions for you!
one is that i dated this guy who is 18 and im 15 for a year and all of a sudden he broke up with me for no reason but he still talks to me and is like i love u and i wanna be with you but he has a gurl and than he acks like a total jackass when she is around so what do i need to do or should i tell him how i feel?? i really need help he means alot to me! :.(
2nd one is me and this guy are "talkin" if thats what u wanna call it but his ex is a total and a complete physco and got my number and callin me and tellin me to leve him alone and that they are datin again but he says that they arent together anymore and never will be. what should i do??
Luv, Nukka

1. ask him y his such a butt to you when shes around...and then tell him that you still have feelings for him and ask him y he still tells you he loves you when his w/ someone else and ask him y he even broke up w/ you in the 1st place

2.well if shesa physco don't believe her when she tells you that there still together....bet her butt if ya want!...but...some how get her # blocked so she want keep herassing you....i'm there really isn't much to do about it...jst don't listen to her and don't let her mess things up w/ you and that dude!

hope i helped....plZe let me know! haha

~b

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i used to be friends with this girl but we started fighting over stupid shit and we've worked things out quite a few times but something always fucks things up...i said a lot of shit i didnt mean jus cause i was pissed off...i dunno what to do..but itd be nice to be friends again...

i miss you blazey baby = (

idk wat to tell you!

~b

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theres this girl that i dont really get a long with ok i REALLY dont get a long with and i keep trying to work things out with her and we get them worked out but then something messes things up again...

i've been there to! Do things jst keep getting wrose everytime it goes wrong? well i mean try and talk things out and don'tjst start yelling at each other...or jst don't try anymore and not to wrry bout it cuz that's wat i did w/ the last person i kept getting in to fights w/...but if you really want it to wrk out then jst try and talk to her ask her y she gets mad at things you do...or tell her y u get mad at the things she does

hope i hlep let me know

~b

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i have a problem..... this girl i know is really awesome but i talked to this other girl and now shes mad and i dont want her to be mad and id do anything to have mine and her relationship back.....


IM SORRY BLAZE :-(

awww....well since she loves you so much i'm pretty sure she will forgive you...she porbably doesn't like that girl to much...and is afried youll turn againest her like someone else did!!

i love you lil richard!!

~b

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hey I am 14 years old and I am a female and I really like this guy a lot but he has a girlfriend and he thinks that he is in love with her but like when I saw him and she wasn't around we had like some chemistry going on but when she is around he atcs like I don't even exist but when we were together he always talked about her I mean I am like in love with him what do I do!?!

he mite be acting like he doesn't know you when his around his girlfriend so she doesn't think his cheating on her w/ you! but next time yall get alone time ask him bout it and see wat his feelings are towards you! don't make it sound like you like him jst be like...do u have a thing for me? and then ask him y he doesn't talk to you when his around his girlfrined or y he acts diff...he mite denie that he does but itll be ok! jst go w/ the folw...i hope i helped a lil...let me know how everything goes...

~b

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hey....i have a problem.... i really like this girl...shes soooo awesome but i think she thinks im a loser....let me know something please....i race motocross and had fun with this girl at a mx track called camp coker in SC... we hung out at my best friend's trailer with all of my other friends and she had to be back at her trailer at a certain time so i walked her back to her trailer then the next day we hung out and i rode her around on my friends pitbike and i gave a lucky shot gun shell... (scroll down)








haha blaze i got bored and thought i would do this... im just messin around with u.... but this part is true {shes soooo awesome but i think she thinks im a loser} ;-) haha if u figure out who i am.... IM me

awww Richard! ur such a goober!!...i don't think ur a loser!! i love u...and thanks for walking me back to the camper! haha!

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i'm 19/m and i have a huge fear of regection. in fact i've only had two girl friends, and i'm still a virgin, any ideas on how to get over my fear?

dude go for it! Don't be shy...hey there are some girls that dig shy guys! and who cares if you get regected jst get right back up and try again! Do you want to lose ur virginty? i mean it's not a bad thing that ur still a virgin...i know some girls that are your age that like guys that are still virgin...but back to the regection thing...u shouldn't wrry bout it jst be like hey she didn't dig me let me go see if this girl will...

~b

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I am 13 years old. I just recently broke up with my girl friend. It sucks, but i'll live. the problem is I had sex with that girl, and everyone knows. I now for a fact that a girl i've had a crush on since 4th grade likes me, do u think the fact that I had sex will push her away from wanting to date me

hun! ur 13 ur not suppose to be haveing sex! omg!! it depends most likely yeah~bC u are 13...but if she doesn't mind that...don't go haveing sex w/ her cuz she might not be ready for it yet! cuz YALL ARE ONLY 13!!!

~b

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my doctor does check-ups on me, im a 13 female, and he's a male. he always checks my breasts for things so he knows nothings wrong--like for lumps or something .. none of my other friends have their doctor do this .. my doctor practically squeezes me, and he always unzips my pants and looks down them and feels around. like i said, none of my friend's doctor's do this, and some of them have the same doctor as me. what do you think is going on? is he doing this sexually, or just being a doctor?

GO TELL MOMMY!!!...or when then doctor does that ask him wat his doing...and if he has a good answer then still TELL MOMMA..but other then that tell him to get the fuck off you!!!

~b

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what is wrong with being a lesbian i mean everyone is always making a big deal what is it?

home girl there is nothing worng w/ it...and if ur comfortable w/ it then flaut it!!...one of my best friends is a lesbo...and there really is nothing wrong w/...i thnk some girls have problems w/ it bC they think u mite hit on them..but it's not always like that

*Good luck*

~b

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this might be kinda stupid, but is there anyway to practice making out, or having sex, besides masturbating?

Pillow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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i wanna have sex b4 i'm 15...sum of my friendz tell me 2 wait, what do i do?

*HOME GIRL U NEED TO WAIT!**THAT SHIT IS IMPORTENT TO YOU!**DON'T BE A WHORE!!!***not tryingto be mean!

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If you use a condom, can you still get an STD?

it's like 99% or something around that line safe!!

but go get tested jst to make sure!! if you fell like you are!!...but it's good ur using a condom!!!

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f/15 ok i have been going out wit this guy for about 2wks and he's really sweet, but the problem is that i want to break up wit him. got any tips to let him down gently?

jst be like i don't see us future we still gunna be friends...but it's over! i'm srry!!

make him think u care

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hey everyone, I am 15 and I need some advice...my boyfriend of 9 months is leavin and movin to Oregon in a few weeks. I live in Florida and I wanna try to do the whole long distance thingy but I dont think that he wants to. I love him soooo much and want to be with him. Does it really work? Should couples that are in love try it? Please Help ME!!! xo0x ~manda [ aka confused]~

ok hun! LD relationships suck! i've been in plany of them! i live in GA and i've dated guys that live in NC TX...and they never wrked! i eman u could make it wrk! but it's to hard on your life...ull get really stressed out on finding away to see each other...fights will soon form...and then when he wants something...and ur not there to give it to him his going to get it from someone else...not trying to be mean but pointing out the facts...yeah and Oregon is jst to far away...ur parents would get made bout the phone bill bC of the LD calls...and yall could write but it want be the same...and yall probably would eventually find someone else! trust me on this one girl! i've been in plany LD relationships!!...let me know how everthing goes and i hoped i helped!

~b

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