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Ugghh. I usually like older guys. But omg. There's this freshman! He is absolutely delicious. Hahahha. I'm a JUNIOR. He acts mature, could possibly pass as a sophomore :-D.... at least he's my height! We flirt a lot and I get BUTTERFLIES for a FRESHMAN. He tells my bestfriend how he likes me. Oh, FYI not trying to be "rude" but, we're both pretty "popular" and EVERYONE would know if we went out. Omgoodness. Do you think its wrong or weird or what? Some friends say "age is just a number!" Some roll their eyes. Some say "No! You need a read man!" I don't know what my mom would say! I don't want people to think I'm a pedophile!! Help!! Thanks!!! :-D

Age definitely is just a number!
It varies with everyone what their maturity level really is--and that's mainly all that manners, how they handle themselves, ect. Some married couples are more than ten years apart, so it obviously isn't a problem.
Maybe it's not as 'normal' to be dating a freshman for you, because the 'ideal' couple I guess would be where the guy's older or the same age, but really.. who goes with the 'ideal' anything, anymore?
Take a chance with this kid, you never know what you'll find! :)

XOXO
KAT!

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what are the positive sides and negative sides to car pooling? like, how does it affect (effect?) the enviroment?

Carpooling is generally a very positive thing! It prevents other drivers from using their cars and emitting certain gasses into the air, so it decreases pollution. :)
Plus, you get to use the carpool lane! :P
Though there are no environmental negatives, it can be a little less convenient than driving your own car. You kind of have to go around on other peolple's time, and if they're late--you're late, aswell.


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KAT!

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i want some posters to decorate my room.
like bands, actors, and movies.
does anyone know what stores sell some?
i don't want to buy them online.
thank youu! ;]

Oh! I'm not sure if you have these stores but:

Hot Topic
Spencers
FYE (For Your Entertainment--Music store)
Most movie stores (I'm not sure what they're called, sorry lol)
Walmart
Kmart
5 Below (posters for five dollars! :D)
Target

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KAT!

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I have a crush on this guy ( lets call him bobert) And Im pretty sure he likes me back but we neva talk to eacother. Everytime I try to go to him i get scared and freeze up. Should I let my friend tell him I like him or what? I need advice! I always rate and give comments! Thankz!
-smileygirl513

Hmm.. Well here's my take on this:
If you're not COMPLETLY sure if he likes you, maybe take a little time to talk to him and get to know him better. If you're nervous, just talk about something random that happened throughout the day, or ask him questions; regardless of the stereotype, most guys love to talk about themselves as much as girls.
What I do with some of my friends when there's nothing to talk about is play something called the "random question game". It's where you both take turns asking questions about just about.. ANYTHING, and it really gets some very interesting conversations started.
Then, once you can be more sure of the decision, you should tell him yourself that you like him. It's so much more personal to hear it from the person 'in question' so to speak, than a friend or something like that. Make it special :)

Best of luck!!

XOXO
KAT!

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what does it mean for a guy to be whipped?? like in john tucker must die it said that.... what does it mean?

Haha, this means the guy will do pretty much everything and anything his girlfriend will tell him to do. Whether it's because he's really loyal, or he's out to get something, that's what it means. For example, the guy seems really obsessed, spends A TON of time with his girlfriend over say.. his friends, and will do just about anything to make his girl happy :)

Haha, it's your opinion on whether or not that's an insult--it could go either way. :P


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KAT!

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im on the jv squad at my school. for varsity next year i have to have my back handspring and working my back tuck. i currently have my back handspring with a spot, and i can do it by myself on the tumble track (trampoline). i am deciding to discontinue the tumbling classes provided for my squad, and am starting private lessons once a week at a different gym, because i am not learning anything at my current tumbling gym. my question is, which tryouts like 2 or 3 months away, do you HONESTLY think it is possible to get my back handspring and mostly get my back tuck by the time of tryouts? if i work hard, and stuff, like i know everyone is different but..is it even possible?! thanks so much =D

Hey,
Coming from another cheerleader, I can tell you that it DEFINITELY is possible! Be optimistic about it, and try your hardest!! It's usually an issue of wits, so when you're ready, and know your stuff is strong, throw it HARD. Make sure you really put some effort into it, and once you get your pass down, you'll feel much more confident. The first time alone is always the worse, I can tell you that, but afterwards, it's usually cake.
I'd say to start off with getting your handspring alone, maybe a running handspring, then work to a running tuck. It'll give you alot more power, and once you're used to pulling that (believe me, it's much easier to pull than a standing!) you can get comfortable with pulling a standing tuck.
Make sure you practice every day, and only pull what you feel confident with!!


Best of luck, you'll do fine :)

XOXO
KAT!

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what does it mean when a guy says that you are a fox ?

Hahah, it's a compliment. It's pretty much means "You're hot." :P

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KAT!

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what does it mean when someone says you have a good face for makeup? is that an insult?

Nope, this isn't an insult. It just means that when you wear makeup, you actually look good. Like, when some girls wear it, it tends to look bad or gaudy or something. It probably blends well with your face and looks really good.
Definitely a compliment :)


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KAT!

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Well i am 14/f, and i know im young but i think i am in love with this guy. His name is Chris, and hes 16. Well, we are like best friends. Hes always over my house, and im always over his. Well we about to cross the street, and it was night, we wanted pizza. Well a car went speeding past and he ran and pulled me back. We both got cuts and bruises, but he saved my life. And he was so worried he carried me home and stole his parents car and took me to the hospital. another time, i was locked out of my house, and he came and picked me up, and walked me to his house, I ended up sleeping over his house, in his bed with him. Well nothing happened, but we were cuddling. We have this thing that we get each other, and our families are so messed up, divorced and dead. But...he has a girlfriend, of 3 months, on and off. She is a whore and cheats on him but shes really attractive, and she has a hold over him. He tells me that he cant get over her and doesnt love her, and she hates me and curses me out, and i told her i love him and she punched me. He got so pissed and broke up with her but they got back together. What should i do? Tell him? or no? Thanks in advance

You should definitely tell him!
Life is short, and if you don't, you may end up looking back regretting not saying anything. Explain your feelings, and why you're feeling that way. In person would be prefferable, but if you have to do it through a note or something, make sure you talk to him afterwards.
It sounds like this guy REALLY cares about you, and if his girl friend is treating him like this, both of you shouldn't have to deal with it.
You two sound like you really understand each other, and should eventually end up together.

Best of luck!!!

XOXO
Kat!

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Is downloading stuff for your sims game hurtful to the computer or the game? How can you tell if something is bad or not?

Usually, this stuff is fine to download onto your computer. I'd reccomend to limit yourself to thesims2.com for downloads, however. When you rely on other sites, they tend to be less safe. Unfourtunately, you can't tell whether they're 'bad' or not, but if you stick to the generic/origional sims site, you should be okay. (They probably wouldn't upload something that would mess your computer up.)
The most it can really do is cause you computer to go slower. The more you download: the slower you game/computer will become, so remember to delete the stuff you're not using some time! :)


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Kat.

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ok well i know i am to old to suck on my finger but i have a question and i am very scared.well i just got done cleaning and i forgot to wash my hands and i have cleaning smell on my hands.and i put my finger in my mouth and i have the taste of cleaning stuff in my mouth.can this kill me???

No, you'll be fine. Most things are okay in very small quantities, not that that'd be reccomended, ha. As long as you haven't been chugging chemicals, you should be fine. ;)
Just a tip to kick the habit, though: Wear a band-aide on that finger, and tell yourself "I'll go a week." and then continue that way. It's really not so bad once you think about it, and it saves money on braces :P

Just wash your hands to avoid an icky taste XD


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Kat.

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I'm dating this guy and we've been together for about 2 weeks but known eachother for a long time. We had sex and we talk a lot. We've told eachother we loved eachother, but he never calls me anything sweet like baby or etc. Does that mean he doesn't really love me all to much??


SOrry if its long.

No, no worries.
This dosen't mean he dosen't love you, it just might mean he's not comfortable with 'pet names' and stuff like that. Some guys just aren't; and it shouldn't really be forced. He probably just has other ways to show affection and stuff. Every guy's different, haha.

If you're worried, just ask him about how he feels about you. :)


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Kat.

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You know how every year the senior class gives a gift to their high school to leave a legacy (a bench, statue etc)? What are some of the things classes have left to your school?

We've had some pretty normal stuff your school could probably go for. :)

-An arch with our alma mater on it.
-Sign with our alma mater on it (haha)
-A message board for outside. Like, where it announces events and stuff.
-Benches

But you could also go with things like artwork, clocks, anything that'll look 'cool' or help you school out, pretty much. It really all depends on your budget, haha.


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Kat.

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is it weird for a 10 year old girl to be so interested in biolagy and health because my sister is 10 and she is a huge tomboy and all she does on the computer is look up stuff about brain surgery and other stuff that has long names and is hard to pronounce is that weird should i be worried for any reason i mean she is always talking like a retierd doctor all sientificly or whatever is that weird for a girl her age thanks in advance to whoever takes there time to read this PPPPEEEAACCEEE

it's not necesessairly 'normal' but really, who cares?! it's a great thing that she's trying to enhance her mind and everything, and it's really going to help her for when she ends up actually taking that class in high school.
it's a great thing, and you should really encourage her to continue!!


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kat

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Im 14 years old and a female. theres this boy and he likes me a lot and wants to date me. i kind of have been leading him on and i likED him a lot. so basically i dont like him as any more than a friend any more, how should i tell him? is texting him okay?

aww, i hate to hear this kinda story, i've been there and it suckss. haha. but owch, don't do it over text. if you have to.. kind of hint that you like someone else, or that he's like a brother. he should get the point. if not, aim should be alright, but everything is better and more personal when you're face to face. just flat out ask him about how he feels about you, and say how you feel (be honest, never use excuses, guys aren't dumb, lol) and explain why it would be better for you two to be friends.
if you're scared to do it in person, you could always write a note. at least it offers more explanation than a text, and is much more personal.
just make sure you let him know that you two can always be friends, and who knows what could happen in the future. make sure he's alright, and make sure if he kind of avoids you, that you don't really 'ditch' him. sure, he might be a little bummed, but if you two still talk, he'll be fine.

best of luck :)

xoxo
kat

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Why do girls use the word Love so much?
Im friends with a bunch of girls and they always use it. Im good friends with them but do they like me or sumthin? Its also really akward becuase i dont use it unless its actuall love,

girls generally use this as a phrase to just express that they like something that's going on, or maybe something you did. if it's a bunch and it's flat out in public like "oh my gosh, i love you!" it's most likely them kidding around. it's just something we say alot in general, just like when some girls will say something like "no way! shut up!" they don't actually mean it, it's just kinda a phrase these days.
and it's a good thing you don't just throw the word around. personally, i believe it should be that way, so it means alot more when you're ready to actually say it :P


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kat

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what is aquanet? is it like superglue for the hair?

Hey,
It's a very very strong hair spray, made famous in the eighties. :p
It works really well, you should try it out. ;)

XOXOKAT

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Ok I have anemia to be more specific iron deficency but I take this pill and whatever but I feel so weak and tired during the day and dizzy should i go on a different pill? also I don't eat that much meat is that the reason? what foods should I eat?

Hey,
Yea, if you've been on this pill for over three months, and it's not working, you should either get a higher dosage or try out a new pill.
You may just need more time to get adjusted to it, so maybe you'll need a lower dosage. I'd say to talk to your parents, and then to your doctor about it. You should report any symptoms.
You feel weak and tired because you don't have enough iron to support you, so your body's feeding on all it has left, leaving you tired. so this could be from either the pills or from the Anemia.
You should definitely eat alot of red meat. Make sure you have at least a little each day. Also eat alot of beans, and things high in iron and proteins. This should help ALOT!

Hope this helps, and hope you feel better!


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okay so im going to a FOB concert in october and im not sure about what to wear.
we are going to be like right in front of the stage, so i guess i need something comfortable :D

thankss

Hey,
First off, you're lucky. :p. And secondly, YOU NEED TO DRESS COMFORTABLY! I'm not sure about Fall Out Boy, but I know MCR concerts can get VERY hot, especially since there are large crowds. This will definitely be the situation with you, because you'll be in the front.
Wear something like black shorts and a band tee shirt, or some capris and a tank top. Wear very comfortbale shoes you're not afraid to get dirty, and your hair should probably be in a pony tail, or pulled back. If it's left down, you'll look even sweatier by the end of the night. Waterproof eyeliner/mascera is good, but I wouldn't reccomend much of any other makeup.
Basically, be very comforable. Fall Out Boy dosen't care how good ya look, they care about the awesome time you have. :p

Also, just a word or wisedom, get there early, and don't get TOO incredibly close to the barrier if it's very crowded. You're likely to get hurt. But yea, just make sure you're early, because there's gonna be TONS of people who want to be in the very front.

Best of luck, and enjoy the tunes!!

XOXOKAT!

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ok just to start i am a man..ish lol (16 years old) but the thing the proceeds to allways piss me off is the way i see other guys looking at girls as if they are mindless sex objects, damn i hate it. one of my freinds freind today was lookin at a girl across the street going oh wow looka her ass i'd bone that bitch and crap like that. am i missing something? because its demoralising as hell and i hate it... how do i just tell him that he is doing something that pisses me off to no end without being so... oh how to put it harsh... well maybe a little to show him a bit, but i dont know ime confused about it i just need a good one liner that will tell anyone i meet like it in the future.

Oh my gosh! Wow.
You're definitely the kind of guy that.. pretty much all guys should look up to. I'd personally like to say thanks so much for being one of the rare gentleman left. :)
Most girls don't like these kind of guys, obviously, and being a perve isn't attractive (let's exclude some of the 'easy skanks').
While I'm not sure of how he'll react, I really think you should just flat out say "Dude, that's really rude." It sounds incredibly lame, but I don't really know what would get the idea through to her. "She's not a peice of meat." might work. :P
Basically, ask him why he has to say crap like that. Let him know about how girls like sensitive guys, and how most girls would probably choose a guy like you over a perve.

I'm not sure this has helped your problem specifically, but I hope it helps in some way, and I hope you find your answer, becuase you're simply awesome! :D

XOXOKAT

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