HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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what does hugs means to you from your friends? and what do you think tight hugs means to you from your friends? (link)
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well..hugs from my freinds to me mean"i missed you you lil byatch!!" and hugs from me to my friends mean "aww i missed you too haha" TIGHT hugs from my freinds to me mean"lemme see if shell freak out and slap me as usuall lool" and tight hugs from me to my friends means"die you freak lool"hahah but it differs ofcourse from one person to the other....but tighter hugs are usually if they miss you^_^
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why are some guys are players? and do you think nice guys arent that attractive because they are"nice"? (link)
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There are many reasons why a guy can be a player.First reason is that he can be a total ass and just want attention and wants girls to like him and loves popularity.Second reason is that when guys see sluts they think...why not?When a girl is all over a guy,he uses her,and why wouldnt they if the girls all over him and disrespecting herself?Third reason can be that hes getting revenge for one of his freinds that like the girl but the girl didnt like him back.There are maaaany reasons as to"why" guys are players.Most of all they do it for attention though.I think that attractive guys arent all mean,but there are some that are and its because they can be arrogant and think that everyone loves them for their looks.But ofcourse not all of them.Unattractive guys arent always nice either,some are and some arent.But usually unattractive guys are nicer then attractive iones,cuz they dont only care about their looks
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what do you think about sweet-talkers? do you think its cute? i think its cute as long as you can play along with it do you think so? and does anyone know a "line"? you heard it from someone? (link)
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i think its damn cute UNLESS hes playing you.If he is then id prefer that he just shut up and dont say anything at all.
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I'm taking up belly dancing for my PE class and I have no idea as to what to wear. Of course, we wouln't be wearing those really flashy and not to mention, see-through costumes every meeting, so what's a typical outfit for this class? Can I just wear jogging pants and a tank top? Please help me ASAP cuz I'm going to shop this weekend....
Thanks in advance! (link)
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ok wear a cropped tank top that shows your stomache,low rise baggy pants OR low rise tight jeans and most importantly,tie a scarf around your waist when you go!your getting advice from an egyptian here so no need to worry lol.You know what kinda scarves im talking about rite?Like the ones you see on shakiras,you can find them at any shopping place,jcpenny whatever
good luck^_^
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im 17/f with no confidence at all to do anything..i wanna experience things..live..party it up..i mean im gonna be a senior. The thing is..i dont know how to boost my self confidence to go out and meet ppl..im not ugly..not fat..i just dont have good self esteem..i wanna LIVE..but where do i start? (link)
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The worst thing eever is not having conffidence.Ok ,i think your fear is rejection among people,that they might not like you.Ok that is true,you will get rejected.EVERYONE DOES!!But youll never know untill you try."Take a risk and you might lose,take not a risk and you will have lost ANYWAY"The only way to notice your true inner confidence is to give it a try and go out,get to know people.You have nothing to lose at all,even if they dont like you,they dont really have to.Do you honestly like absolutley every person youve met?Well neither do they.Take a chane and you wont regret it at all.Go out,look pretty and have fun!
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ok so me and my bf fight alot. we both love each other more then words could explain but we have 2 problems; my rebellious attitude and his inability to show affection! We have been dating for 1 1/2 years! i love this man and i wanna spend the rest of my life with him! last night i told him i needed a lil break because i havent been able to forget about all the times hes hurt me (lil things that shouldnt matter but they do to me). and well after we talked about it and everything he said it was fine but asked me not to take toooo long. understandable right? well i have this lil habit of holding grudges and not letting them go. so i guess what i need is ways to move on from all those bad things and start over with him. i dont wanna us to be over for good but i cant continue to be with him with all these lil things getting in the way. i just need a way to i guess not forget them but to just let them completely go and forgive him for all of them! im in DIER NEED!!!!!!! (link)
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well,i gotta tell you that if you want to continue with this dude you have to forgive him.Hes going to do many things in the future thatll get you angry and so will you,what are you going to do then??Keep holding grudges till you guys get older??If you cant forgive him for what hes done,then your feeling of grudges are obviously more then your feeling of love towards him.Ok take a 3 day break from him to understand the following things imma tell you about
*Hes done stuff in the past to piss you off,and nomatter how hard you feel anger towards what hes done,its NOT gonna change the past.He aint doing them things now right?
*All people that love eachother have arguments and conflicts.Youve hurt him and hes hurt you,and it will go on but not ALOT.The small things you must learn to let go of or you will not only lose this guy,but ALL the guys that you will meet in your life
*Obviously your rebellious attitude is what caused his apathy for you.You must learn to change the little things in you for the one you love and he must learn to change too.Before the break tell him that if you guys are to continue being together sacrifices must be made.He needs to be more affectionate because hes the only one you seek affection from.And you,chill out,dont be so rebellious,guys dont like that when it gets too much.
*Grudges ruin your life,and trust me it gets worse.Theres a quote that goes anger once fed is dead,tis starving makes it fat.It can kinda compare to grudges too,cuz grudges lead to hate.Once you get rid of your anger and grudges once they are small,itll be over and you wont feel them again,but if you leave them in you for a long time...theyll grow and become undefeatable.
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right im 15/m and i love my gf to bits and i meen bits! she is the most beatiful caring lovable person in my life and i have a sudden urge to by a gift for her i want something perfect any idea's ppl? thanks for your time:) xx (link)
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Buy her a gold necklace from like jcpenny or macys,jewelery there is pretty and not expensive.And give her a card writing a hundred reasons why you love her...aww thatd be mad sweet^_^
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how can i convince my parents to let me get a cell phone? my mom and dad have one, my older sister has one, and im like the only one except for my baby brother that doesnt have one! and im a 7th grader and like everyone has a cell now except me. and its hard to talk to some people who may not have AIM or something.. plus cellphones are just cool. i mean i dont even have an ipod, pet, or other special privileges other kids get. or maybe i just live in a rich area.. i dunno but often its just not fun.. i always have to listen to the radios like mostly online cause i have like one CD which my friend burned for me.. my parents have like 200 cds and us kids, have like none. its just really not fair.. and like how can i convince them to get me a cell? um also cause my dad's setting up this big company in a diff state so my mom says like we cant do all these things.. like it makes me so mad that like my friends can have sleepovers (I CANT EVEN HAVE THEM!! and my parents wont explain. its just cus they didnt have it probably.. cause i cant even have them with like really close friend and they know the parents and stuff) and always have fun with their families. im always like "your lucky" ALL THE TIME. its barely ever that like people would be like "wow your so lucky you got blah blah" i havent even gone shopping since last year and let me tell you it is HELL to try and not wear the same things over and over.. i borrow my sister's clothes but she doesnt want me to.. but i dont have a choice. it sucks really badly. and its cause my mom likes me having a clean room SO FRICKIN MUCH and when its clean she doesnt say anything and when it isnt she makes a crapload of a fuss about it. and she says she wont buy me clothes till i clean it... i clean it every week and i havent even gotten new bras since.. last year too and i almost was gonna get them last week but she got mad at me and bought my sis stuff.. which she always does when she has so much clothes she can actually put away clothes from lastyear while i still have things like from frickin fourth grade. i occasionaly get bad grades too.. but its like i have nothing really to work for to get them. i mean maybe i'd be more motivated and stuff if i got some perks like that.. i mean i wanna do good in school, but i feel like my childhood may not be as fun since i dont have some stuff. yeah yeah its better to not be materialistic.. but i barely have materials. its like always been this way. my cousins had gamecube and then we wanted it and by the time we got it there were newer better stuff.. and we only had one game. and with gameboys, we got gameboy color, and then around that time everyone had advanced.. and i wanted advanced so bad, then i wanted DS. and other games like DDR and guitar hero 2.. oh my lord. sometimes i know its bad but i wonder what its like to live in a diff family with nicer parents.. not too strict, not too nice, but my parents.. they just arent normal at all and i mean it. we're not necessarily poor or anything too.. i mean why have money when you dont spend it? the last time i went on vacation was in 3rd grade to chicago.. like 4 years ago since im now a 7th grader. we always visit relatives and stuff in maryland and like dont even do anything except be cooped up in a house, the adults talk and cook african foods (im cameroonian) and its very boring at times and i know my cousins also kinda feel the same... that we dont get as much since we have to then like play video games all day.
and one last thing, i just told my mom about like six flags.. i had a field trip to go there but i overslept and we got there when the buses left. if my mom were nicer like alot of my friend's moms, they would have just drove me to six flags, but no i stayed home that day after refusing to go to school. anyways i got my ticket back and its valid through all of this summer coming up. my mom's like "i dont really have any plans to go to six flags this summer i think you should sell your ticket to someone or something" and im like WHAT? cause me and a friend planned to go to the same day.. cause her parents are nice they'd let her just do that and come with me.. but nooo. i cant even go with her family because my family has issues with me being by myself at like places like that. they dont even want me to go to a private pool by myself with my friends at their houses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! stupid mucH??? ughhhhhh someone please help me or i seriously dont know what id do.. (link)
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lol ok number one...leave the cell phone aside now,its not as important as the clothes and underwear.I think you should tell your mom that you need to talk to her,sit her down and DONT ACT RUDE or raise your voice.Act all sad and sensitive and tear up(thats how you feel RIGHT!?so its not lying)and tell her that it hurts you to see that everyones getting new clothes all the time and you havent gotten anything for a whole year,tell her that you feel leaft out at school and that everyone gets new things and that you dont.Tell her that your breast size grows and obviously your gonna need bigger bras and newer underwears and stuff,you cant possibley wear the same underwears that you wore last year.Get that problem solved first then chek with the others.
As for the sleeping over your freinds house,you might see it totally normal like everyone eles does but your parents dont.And tell you the truth they have a right to not let you sleep over.What i mean is all the shit happening out there about girls getting raped by their best freinds brother or father,or girls turning lesbian and all confused cuz of slumber partys and sleepovers,im pretty sure thats why your parents wont let you.The seventh grade is a sensitive year with mixed emotions and stuff and your parents dont want any confusion for you.They wont explain to you now because they probably think your too young.Mabey when your older theyll let you,when they think youve matured enough.MY PARENTS DONT LET ME SLEEPOVER AND IM 16 loool haha.
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i need flirting tips fast cause i want to flirt with these boy that i like but idk want to do (link)
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go to www.myjellybean.com and ask for advice about guys...youll find a whooole page about that
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Ok so i had a fight with a friend 1 only shes telling everyone i called her slut but i didnt i said to her everyone goes around calling you a slut and i tell them to shut up anyways now her friends involved everytime i walk past the push me and call me a slut whore skank and i end up crying i even ended up crying last night im to scared to go to school now
please help me (link)
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omg what bitches.Ok screw your freind man,if she was true she wouldnt let these bitches hit you and curse you like that.Your freind here obviously wants attention and thats why she went around saying the opposite of what you said,she doesnt really love you and was only using you UNLESS it was a misunderstandment and she HEARD you wrong...but i dont think so,trust me its happened to me be4.But i think that you should be a brave person and stand up to them bitches.Raise your voice and call curse them out.Dont be scared,theyre not gonna kill you,even if they manage to hit you,its not really gonna make you end up in the hospital now rite?!If you got other freinds,tell them to be your backup,if you dont stand your ground and be brave,they wont do anything to you after you give them a good ass kicking!
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All of my boyfriend's friends tell me I'm ugly and he can do so much better than me. What are some ways I can improve the way I look? I just don't think I look pretty.
here are a couple of pictures of me (my hair isn't blonde and brown anymore it's dark brown/auburn)
http://s52.photobucket.com/albums/g14/kiirstinthegreat/?action=view¤t=DSC00108.jpg
http://s52.photobucket.com/albums/g14/kiirstinthegreat/?action=view¤t=l_77a2cb1b3f4578957a051490d299f973.jpg
Those are the only pictures I have that you can really see my face (link)
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ok first of all your boyfreinds freinds are mean and you should tell them to mind their own buisness and that theyre only making fun of you to feel better about themselves.Anywayz i do suggest a change that can make you look even better,you can try to make your eyebrows a little thicker,thats all you need to change about your looks and youll look prettyer.
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Ok..my parents have been divorced for about a year n a half. My mom is kind of dating and every guy that she goes out with..she makes sure to tell me that shes going out..just to keep me updated and let me know that shes seeing other ppl. Well my dad is a business man..he travels everyweek and lives 3 hrs away from me. He doesnt tell me anything about his relationships at all. Soo the other day i decided to look on his phone when he wasnt there and it turns out he is in love with another woman and one text said "be ready to meet your future step daughter" I couldnt believe it! She has a child too..she sends him pics of her child! Its mind boddling. Im so upset..what do i do? (link)
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what i get here is your dad isnt really close to you and doesnt see you alot,dont blame him,he didnt have time and most importantly,since he dont hang around you much,he doesnt know what your reaction will be like if you knew,he didnt want to piss you off.Just forget it,you need to be more open minded in this case,your parents are divorced,you cant expect your dad to live the resta his life alone now rite?thatd be sucha sad life for him.Your gonna get married one day and leave your parents house,imagine how theyd feel living ALONE.
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ive heard this alot...but is it true?? when Rihanna made the song umbrella wit Jay-Z i heard Beyonce and her got into a fight becuz it was Beyonce's man...is it true or not??
Thanx Alot :D
♥ Lesha ♥ (link)
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well we never heard any rumors of jay z yellin at beyonce when she made a song with sean paul now did we?I don think its true,beyonce wouldnt go fighting off a girl just cuza a song man.
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Ok. Don't Laugh. Well you will laugh but I was in a rush to go meet at Mickey D's with my boyfriend and a bunch of friends and my eyebroes wern't tweezed and they looked awful so I did thes tupidest thing, I'm not the smartest of people..haha anyway um I um I UMM I shaved my eyebrows?! :(((( :(((( :((( :D :D :D:D
anyway the worst is that only a part of the eyebrow was completely removed and it was only 1 eyebroe...imagine how that looks haha. well I was wondering what I should do? and How long do eyebrows take to grow back? And what should I do when one part is thin hair and the other part thick?? basically just i need to know what i can do to help them get back to normal. Thanks for answering if you do and I'm sure I atleast made you smile once today :)
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ok...leave your eyebrows aloooone.Let them grow then go to a hair salon and let them do your eyebrows...the RIGHT way..its not expensive,and even if its a tiny bit expensive,its worth having eyebrows that look,GOOD.dont EVER shave them off yourself if you dont no how to
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Before you read this, you must know I AM NOT A LESBIAN (no matter what it says).
So... i like this guy called Marcus. Me and my best mate Beth we were messing around one day calling each other lesbians. Some people over-heard it and they got from it that i'm a lesbian. So the joke went on and on. My mate Mat called me a lesbian right in front of Marcus, then he looked at me and just walked off. I said to Mat not to call me a lesbian any more because you said it in front of the guy i like and he took it seriously. He said sorry, blah blah blah.
Because i'm really close to all my friends and i'm allways hugging them and that. Chris came up to me and called me a lesbian and i said shut the fuck up, i've had enough from everyone else about that i am NOT a fucking lesbian. Then, my other 'so-called mate', Charlie said to Chris yeah she is ain't she. And i said your the fucking lesbian.
But that's something else...
I've talked to Marcus and said i'm not a lesbian. But, what can i do?!? Because i can't ask him out because i know this will still carry on. Beth says i should ask him out because what went on won't effect his answer, but i'm not sure.
Thanks xxxx (link)
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ok tell marcus that you and your freind were playin and callin eachother that and its all a joke.If he dont wana beilive him then to hell with him man.You know the truth and thats all that matters,if he doesnt wana beilive you then hes not worth you liking him and even if you go out with him after that,he wont be the type you want in a relationship.
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i have a french test tomarrow and i forgot to ge tthe answers for the study guide. Translators don't work and nobody i know takes my class and none of my family members know french so i was wondering if anyone could answer these questions in a letter form. Like Dear francois'the 8th , or dear whoever and include answers for all these questions in the letter. All help is greatly appreciated!!
Qu'est-ce que tu as fait le week-end passe?
Es-tu reste chez toi ou es-tu sorti avec tes amis?
Qu'est-ce que tu as fait la-bas?
En general. qu'est-ce que tu fais le week-end?
Qu'est-ce que tu fais qaund tu es chez toi le samedi?
Qu'est-ce tu vas faire le week-end prochain?
Qu est-ce que tu vas aller pendant les grandes vacances?
Combien de temps est-ce que tu vas passer la-bas?
Comment vas-tu voyager?
Qu'est-ce que tu vas faire?
Thankyou, i am very grateful for all those who help... (link)
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ok i think its like this
dear whoever
Le week-end passe,je aller au cinema avec mis amis.Je sorti avec mis amis.Nous faisons nos devoirs.En general,dans le week-end,je aller au club avec mis famille.Dans samedi,je aller au piscine avec mis amis.Le week-end prochain je rester a la maison.Pendantt les grandes vacances,je aller au france avec mis amis.Je sejour au france pour trois semain.Mon voyage etait tres bonne.Je me suis amuse avec mis famille dan france.......WELL this is the BEST i could do...hope it helped.....
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16/f
What triggers a person to say `Oh, she`s SO fake.`
Is it how a person looks; is it how they act or what they say? I don`t understand how someone can be fake. Does dying your hair make you fake? Do certain hair colours make you more or less fake? I think this whole `fake` fad is ridiculous and embarassing.
I dye my hair blonde on top and black underneath. Does that mean people have the right to say `you're sooo fake, ew` to me or behind my back? I`m sorry but I just don`t see what they`re implying. Besides, appearance has very little to do with personality.
Thanks. (link)
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what makes a person fake is when thaat person acts slutty and not be herself just to get attention,when she changes her voice all slutty,when she changes her appearance and personality for attention then shes fake.Dying your hair doesnt make a person fake.its the personality mostly that makes you fake,but as for looks,yes they can make a person fake.When you die your hair,have on super thick makeup,dress really slutyy and act snobby then your fake.
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Does Anyone have any good R&B music about love lol ?? (link)
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umbrella by rihannna
my all by maraiah carey
we belong together by maraiah carey
like a boy by ciara
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hey,
i was wondering if you guys knew any sites that have good quotes/sayings about love, being in love and crushing on someone... for example something like if oyu cant get someone out of your head, maybe their suppose to be there.
Also if you guys could find any other quotes sties with quotes like cinderella is proof that a pair of soes could change your life!...
oh and any with icons/ pics would be great also!!
thank you sooo much in advance!! (link)
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www.quotegarden.com kicks ass man...it has everything
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13 female me and my g/f tara, hear about this party from her older brother. so we sneaked out of house and went. well there was a lot of booze and drugs at this party. Tara kinda freak and left but i hung and start to party with these older guys. well i woke up in bed roo with them and i was naked. i found my clothes now i dont know what to do (link)
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omg,they screwed you and you most likley lost your virginity.What woulda happened if you woulda just thout about the consenquences of going to a party with older guys there ALONE.hmmm lemme think,you wounldnt have ended up like this!Your freind is vey wise to have leaft.Well all you can do now is go to a gynecologist and chek up and see if your still a virgin...there MIGHT still be hope.Theres nothing more you can do.If you end up to have not lost it then swear on your life not to do that again or itll end up worse.If it turns out you did lose it then,this is a lesson you must learn from to always l think about the actions and its reactions,look before you leap.Tell your parents so this dont cause you stress,they might find a better solution...
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