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Okay I asked a question earlier about informing me on oral but I have a few more things. What should you expect when being fingered and also when a guy goes up your shirt to touch your boobs? And what do you do with your mouth or tongue when your giving your guy head? Last thing, do girls/guys expect their bf/gf to have pubic hairs(I mean i know they have them but...)? Or should girls/guys shave them off? Which is better or more common from what you know? THANKS in advance!! xoxo I'll rate high.

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I just finished watching the Exorcist. Is this stuff real? Has this ever happened? I know back in Jesus' time it happened because he performed an exorcisms, as it says in the bible. But does or has this happened lately or around the 60s-70s? I have read many things and there are some stories of exorcisms being performed, but the weird thing is when I watched this movie I don't see how all those things can actually happen to someone innocent whom ingaged in the Ouija board a few times, how does it happen? Im so lost and scared as well.

Hey,
You shouldn't be scared. I saw the exorcism of emily rose and it was based on a true story. People just don't won't to believe that these type of things are real. The Devil usually chooses people that believe in God 100%. Just so he can get that satisfaction that he's turning that person against him 100%.

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Advicegodesse2

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ok so i wasnt being too harsh.... but shod i call him and talk to him or stand my ground and wait for him to call me?

Hey,
I think that you should call him meet him somewhere private like a quiet little cafe and talk it out about what happened.

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Ok well I have a boyfriend but the thing is thatI like this one other dude too...Im not realli sure if this other dude likes me tho my friends say he does the case is dat this dude wants me to go sumplace with him and his friends and sum of my friends...I want to go b/c i just want to see if i actually have a a chance with him but im afraid i might end up cheatin on my boyfriend but i also dont want to break up with my boyfrind till im actually sure dat the other dude likes me...and wut i want
So pls help me im so confused right now
WHAT SHOULD I DO????

Hey,
I think that you should go to that place with that guy and see if he does like you and if he does then just follow your heart.

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Advicegodesses2

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ok i've had my iPod for about 6 months. And it's worked fine. But latley when ever i'd try to turn up the volumn or scrool it wouldn't work but the pause,play,seek, and menu button worked. And my battery was low so i changed it and that fixed it. BUt today i was lisetning to my iPod on the buss and it worked fine so i put it in my locer during the day then when i tried to turn it on it didn't work. So i came home and i pluged it into my computer and usualkly it'll charge and or turn on it self but it didn't. What's wrong what should i do to make it work???

Hey,
I;ve got an ipod, too. I think you should go to the company that owns your ipod. Maybe it's apple. If so, go and try to contact their company and send it back and have them get it fixed.

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my boyfriend and I are madly in love! seriously.... no joke! to help you with this you might want to no that hes a very kinky person he LOVES to bite! but today i found out he was hanging out with his ex-girlfriend (whos wants him bak desperetly) and today she was complaining about her arm and one of my friends asked her wot happened and she rolled up her sleeve and there was this MASSIVE bruise and she said he bit her! i was totally crushed i no it isnt really cheating but im kinda wondering about alot... he asked me wot was wrong today and i totally went off on him and was yelling at his in front of the whole skool telling him to keep his efing mouth to his efing self! and i no that prolly didnt help.... please dont remind me! but anywayz... its not really that i dont trust him its that i dont trust her! im am SOOOOOOOO close to kikin her skanky ass! normally we tell eachother we love eachother b4 every period and kiss! he finally got me to kiss him but thru the whole day i never said i love you! am i being too harsh on him? cuz im serious this REALLY REALLY pisses me off! i dont no wot to do :'(!

Hey,
You're definitley not being too harsh. You're handling this perfectly. But you really do need to go up to him and ask him what really did happen and why he would do such a thing to you.

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Okay I saw one of your questions where you in detail explained a blow job. I need to know a little about that kind of stuff and you seemed to know. If you don't its okay just tell me what you do and what you don't because I don't know at all!! What is ....fingering, giving someone head, and a hand job. Like what are they and what do you do during them in detail. Also any other terms for oral or anything like that that you know! Pleeease help!

Hey,
You're welcome hun anytime! I'm always here if you need any advice.

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Advicegodesses2

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Do any of you have friends as backstabbers and know how to deal with them...I need help!

Hey,
I just ignore those people and just stop talking to them.

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thnx in advance for answering this.. i rate high.. 15/f... well i like my really good frend... and im getting mixed signals from him.. and i want to know how you tell if one of your frend likes you.. PLEASE HELP.. ILL RATE HIGH!!!

Hey,
Here are some signs: 1)The most obvious signs to tell that a guy likes you is when he says the dumbest things just to keep talking. I say this because a guy I really like does that to me but he doesnt want to admit that he likes me. Because he thinks I will laugh. Also if a guy tries to hold your hand or starts talking dirty as a joke it's totally obvious.

2) One of the most obvious signs that a guy likes you is that he will just always stare at you even if they dont know you, they will just stare at you from a distance hoping that you will notice them.

3) When a guy likes to play around alot and glance his eye at you alot even when your looking. He makes up nicknames and picks on you for fun because he knows it will be a funny joke and not serious to make you mad. when your angry he will feel sad for you and tell you he's sorry if he bothered you. They also will take up for you.

4) I think if a guy likes you he"ll be touchy feely or he"ll like keep "accidentally" bumping into you just to touch you.

I also think a guy will play stupid when he's around you looking like a fool but he just really wants to impress you.

Guys will also act hard when they're around a girl they like or over protective of you.

5)He'll use the any excuse to touch you.. like if you're wearing a necklace he'll move closer and grab it to "look at the necklace" or he'll play with a tie on your shirt or a ring.. anything to get close to you.
He play fights with you.
when he's talking to you he'll touch your arm or put his hand on your shoulder.
He always makes eye contact with you.. even when you're not talking he'll just look at you and smile.. and he can't stop smiling.
He says stupid things to keep the conversation going.
He'll tease you playfully.
If you're going to the movies, he'll choose a scary movie over a comedy or anything else.. scary movies are an excuse to cuddle. :p

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Advicegodesses2

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Hey.
Today I had a couple people come over, just to hang out, and I asked one of my best friends to comeover but she said she couldnt because she went out to lunch with her brother. So I said, "Oh, well when you get home call me so you can comeover." and she said ok. She never called me back so I just kinda forgot about it. Then I found out she saw our two other friends there and they asked her to go to the mall so she went! I asked her to comeover wayyy before they asked her to hang out! Ugh it just gets me so mad because I also told her yesterday that I wanted to hang out with her today and she said YEAH! I don't know if I should be mad at her or not. What do you think?
Thanks!
--> Jenna

Hey,
Hell Ya you should be mad at her! You should ask her why she always puts everybody else in front of you. Y'all need to talk this out.

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Advicegodesses2

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Is it ok to have an orgasm while ur on ur period?

hey,
what do you mean? i thought you could only have orgasisms during sex. do you finger yourself or something?

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Advicegodesses2

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14/f
My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months now. He's sweet and I love him. We make out A LOT but we've never gone farther. Lately we've been talking about it and thought I'd give him a BJ and he'd finger me. I have 2 problems here. I know exactly what a Blowjob is but I dont know how to go about giving one and not sucking at it. I want to pleasure him not make him not want it. And I'm a little (not a lot) overweight so I'm body concious and don't want him to finger me but he obviously does. He knows I'm nervous about all of this and said we'll wait until whenever I'm ready and comfortable enough to do it. I wanna do it so any suggestions on how to give a BJ or not feel so body concious or something. Thanks SO Much.

Hey,
This is how you make a blowjob pleaseurable to your boyfriend. Make sure your mouth isn't dry,(sometimes it can get dry)so when it does just drink something. If you want you can put a condom on him...To protect from any desease. You don't have to put one on if you trust the guy. It's up to you. The guy doesn't really like it all that much, because it doesn't feel the same for them. They don't feel as much, but don't let that scare you.


Frist you want to feel comfortable about it, and with him. You want to take his penis in your hand. You can rub it if you want to get the feel of it. You don't have to just put it in your mouth, don't worry about that. Once you get ok with it and want to start, take your tongue and gently lick on the tip of his penis. You can also lick around it, Kind of a teasing thing.


Then you would want to take it and put it in your mouth, make sure your mouth is open and not just kind of open. Softly suck on the tip of his penis, move your mouth down farther when you are ready to. Move up and down on his penis, this will make it more pleaseurable for him.


If you don't want to go all the way down on him, you don't have to. Just put your hand at the bottom on his penis and softly but frimly hold your hand there. When you are moving up and down on his your mouth wont go any farther then where your hand is. Make sure you suck on it as you move up and down. You will know when to you faster by his moan. If he doesn't moan that don't mean you are doing it wrong. Some guys don't moan. He will let you know when to move faster if you don't know.


Make sure you let him know up front that you are new at this and make sure you are comfortable with him and he is with you. If you need anything more, just email me again.


Good Luck,
Advicegodesses2

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well me and my best friend well....lets just say were not friends anymore, she started datin this guy like a few months ago and i started datin this other guy. she decided to put him before me and i always wanted to hang out with her. i got annoyed and stoped hanging out with her, and i started hanging out with my boyfriend eric. then her boyfriend hurt her and dumped her for some other chick.then she wanted to be my friend again. i tried but i kept on putting eric first before her and she got mad. i told her that she did it to me and she didnt want to hear it and walked away. then she got jealous and started spreading rumors about me and tryin to get him to dump him. it worked, she asked him out. he found out and dumped her. so she got mad and tried to get me to believe that he didnt like me and didnt want me anymore. so then i didnt believe her and almost broke up with him after 10 months for something that wasnt true. now she wants me to be her friend again. i tried to talk to her at her house on the ohone, but her mom called me a tramp and a bitch and a slut.so im trying to tell her i dont want to be her friend because she is being too twofaced and liein too much. but i dont know how to tell her. im lost, can u help me?

Hey,
You need to talk to her face to face and somewhere private where y'all could talk this out like mature adults. Tell her how you feel about the situation and tell her what you think of her then just be blunt and tell her that you don't want to be friends with her anymore.

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I am 13/f and am in the 8th grade (middle school). I have this tee shirt that I want to wear that I got from American Eagle and it says "Very Huggable" on the front, and "Very Kissable" on the back. Is that inappropriate for school, and would it be sending a bad message because I don't want to look like an idiot when I wear it on Monday. Thanks a bunch!

Hey,
It sounds totally appropriate! I'm sure that you won't get in trouble for it.

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I just bought a pair of very old school Madden Sneaker Boots. They're brown about mid-calf length high.
It's too cold to wear a skirt and I don't want to wear jeans because they cut them off.
What do I wear with them?

Hey,
Try capris.

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is anyone part of the sO YOU WANT TO BE A MODEL contest or website becuase i want to join it bt it says its 20 dollars and i was wondering if anyone is a part of it so like they can give me more informatio like if you need topay more than 2 dollars
thanks

Hey,
I'm not part of the SO YOU WANT TO BE A MODEL contest, but I am part of a modeling industry. The industry is called "Barbizon Modeling and Acting Industry.

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how do i find good friends (who are not boring) in college if i'm shy and maybe slightly weird?
i'm female, 17

Hey,
Which college do you go to?

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there is a boy i have seen around on many occasions and he always stares at me when i do see him. i find him very attractive but was always too shy to talk to him. anyway, some extremely bizarre coincidences led me to see him on a street somewhere. he was looking at me with a smile so i approached him.

the conversation was very awkard because i was like "i see you around" and he was like "really, where do you see me?" "what shows?" but not in a very interested way. it was like he was stoned or something. it was almost like he was taunting me. then i went ahead and asked what school he went to, the conversation died, and he looked away. so i started to walk away. when i did that he had this slight worried look in his eyes, and he quickly asked me where i went to school. then we chuckled and i left.

what.. was he just nervous? he's a type of guy who never has to work for girls' affection, so could this be why he was seemingly cold? i was really nervous so i didn't say as much as i should have, but what do his actions say?

Hey,
I just think that he gets nervous around you and doesnt want to end up saying something stupid.

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I broke up with this guy that i really liked and its been about a week now. Friday I went to the football game and i saw him there. He waved and so did i. But i have another boyfriend now and he saw me with him. He has a girfriend too. Today i called him and he told his mom he didnt want to talk to me. So i had my friend call him and halfway when she was talking he hung up on her. I have been crying my eyes out all day. What can i do??
I rate high!!

Hey,
I think that y'all really need to talk this through.

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i need some help with something?
here it is.

its about a guy from my school i like him but, well see i met him on my bus and hes from el salvador and from then on he always says hi to me in the halls and he thinks im pretty and he always wants to talk to me after school cause he found out i liked him, but i get all scared and i just get butterflies in my stomach when he comes towards me and i tell him i dont like him but he knows im lying. well this week he came and grabbed me by the arm and telling me he wasnt gona let me go till i told him i liked him but i didnt and he finally let go well anyways he has been asking everyone to ask me if i like him and i do but see he has all these friends that are girls and most of them are his ex-girlfriend and this week he kept following me with one of them hugging her and so i left and he came by me again and i left and he kept doing it and to me i think he was kind of being a jerk and his ex's dont like me i can tell but the next day he asked someone to ask me if i like him cause he thinks im pretty so yea what do i do

Hey,
What you need to do is go to a private place with him like a little cafe and tell him how you feel about him.

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Advicegodesses2

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