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my bestfriend.......
well me and my best friend well....lets just say were not friends anymore, she started datin this guy like a few months ago and i started datin this other guy. she decided to put him before me and i always wanted to hang out with her. i got annoyed and stoped hanging out with her, and i started hanging out with my boyfriend eric. then her boyfriend hurt her and dumped her for some other chick.then she wanted to be my friend again. i tried but i kept on putting eric first before her and she got mad. i told her that she did it to me and she didnt want to hear it and walked away. then she got jealous and started spreading rumors about me and tryin to get him to dump him. it worked, she asked him out. he found out and dumped her. so she got mad and tried to get me to believe that he didnt like me and didnt want me anymore. so then i didnt believe her and almost broke up with him after 10 months for something that wasnt true. now she wants me to be her friend again. i tried to talk to her at her house on the ohone, but her mom called me a tramp and a bitch and a slut.so im trying to tell her i dont want to be her friend because she is being too twofaced and liein too much. but i dont know how to tell her. im lost, can u help me?
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wow thats terrible
you should probably talk to her and tell her face to face what is going on. give her examples of how she hurt you so that you can back up what your'e saying. if she really wants to be your friend, she needs to accept the choices that you make and appreciate what you do. otherwise thats not trust/friendship.
secondly. thats very mean of her mom.... if her daughter is trying to regain a new friend, she shouldnt go around saying that. you should probably tell her that you dont appreciate it and that it hurts your feelings.
i know you dont really want to be her friend, but its probably a good idea just to be friends with her. even if shes not a great friend, thats better than an enemy. she may be two faced, but then at least she won't be making rumors and stuff about you.
you should probably tell her the whole story about how it happened. tell her the honest truth. if u lie, itll get u into worse trouble...
hopefully my advice is useful. :) good luck with dealing with your friend. i hope it goes well in your favor.
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Hey,
You need to talk to her face to face and somewhere private where y'all could talk this out like mature adults. Tell her how you feel about the situation and tell her what you think of her then just be blunt and tell her that you don't want to be friends with her anymore.
Good Luck,
Advicegodesses2
P.S.Write back and tell me how my advice was and if it helped.
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wow you have a serouse problem...deal with the mom frist..call or go over tehre when you kno that the gurl is gone..and ask tot alk to the gurl...when she says she aint there rite owq then you can just say..ok but can i talk to you about some thing? and tell her every thing that happened...ti might help to right it all down and stufff first cuz you need to tell her alot of stuf...that ay when you stop being the gurls friend...her mom will kno it was for you own sake...then...comes the messy part, ...you have to get RID of this bitch!!! i kno that is hharsh..but u dont need that in your life...way tpo stressfuo...not good foryour nerves. so how you shoould do this is get her alone...NOONE can be there...you dont want any nesty twisted romors...then you say just plai and clear...i do not want to ber your friend if you are going to lie about me and treat me like this...either you change or i am gone...and stick to it...give her a time frame...like ...say maybe a week...and of othing happens...or if she staerts mouthing off rite there on the spot...slap her and walk away...she will get the point...or for get the smack and just leave...if any romors come up tell the truth...ti more belivealbe then what she sayd any way...because if she treats you like this...she polly treats athers the same way...hope this helps.. bye
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