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Q: I'm taking the advice of those who answered my last question; I went through alot of stress dealing with problems wth one guy and a relationship that was almost official but flopped over and blew up in my face. Besides I'd like to have a boy friend.
Thing is there aren't lots of choices. I don't like asking guys straight up front to be with me, I'd rather pull them on gradually. Is this the right way to do it? And is it better to seek someone in your own social group, people you all ready know? I don't like any one romantically right now, but what kind of traits make a guy dateable, and how can you tell he might be made to like you over time?

Well,
I think that the way you pull boys is fine cuz if thats how you work then hey, thats how u work.But i think a guy has to be CUTE definitely and he has to know how to treat a girl and he has to be FUNNY or atleast ADVENTUROUS and he cant be all stuck up and he shouldnt have a bad ego. Hope I Helped.
GOOD LUCK!

Q: I really like this guy and hes home for vacation and so am i but i dont know if i should ask him if he wants to hang out or how. I mean we are really good friends but he has a girlfriend (who isnt home and hes thinking of breaking up with) but we never talk on the phone and he cant go online cuz his comps broken.....ugh what do i do!

Well if he's not satisfied w/ his current girlfriend that means he's looking for someone better and who knows maybe you can be that better person so I say ask him!
GOOD LUCK!!

Q: Well, my boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time on Tuesday.

I was just wondering if I should, like, shave you-know-where. I've tried shaving that hair before, but it didn't really go over so well... It was still stubbly and I couldn't get rid of that, and it was really just wierd.

I was wondering if the hair would gross him out or something... Would it?

Im not a boy or anything but my boyfriend he has seen my "you know where" and he thinks that hair down there is a sexy thing and alot of my guy friends think its sexy too don't worry about it cuz the main thing you should be worrying about is the sex not the hair.DONT SHAVE IT!!!!! I shaved mine once and it itched like hell!!
GOOD LUCK!!!

Q: I'm in love with one of my old guy best friends. I don't really know what to do about it though. He's really shy and I got him something for Valentine's Day and he liked it. And I think he likes me, because he's always glancing over, coming over just because and always gets nervous around me, little things like that. Do you think he likes me and what should I do about it? I dont want to ruin the friendship, but the way things are right now is driving me nuts! Help!

Well! I think you should tell him or if you're scared then find some kind of way to ease it on like if you're scared he doesn't like you back make him like you and take notice of everything and then when you think he likes enough then you tell him and hopefully he will like you back

GOOD LUCK!

Q: So my boyfriend and I, both almost 18, were together for nearly 11 months, virtually every single day. We were inseparable. We'll both be going to college next year, and we were planning on moving somewhere away and finding an apartment together. There was even tentative talk of marriage. I felt like I could really see where my future was headed. I was so completely in love.

But then he tells me, one month ago tomorrow, that it's just not working out. He says he doesn't feel the same anymore, and that he can't give his whole life to me. I was completely devastated and cried for days straight.

He's the most wonderful person I've ever met. We share our group of friends, so we agreed that we would both try our best to stay friends and avoid awkwardness, and forcing people to choose sides.
So I'm still around him all the time, and every time I see him or talk to him, I'm just reminded of all the reasons I fell in love with him and everything that I've lost. It just sends me spiralling into sadness all over again.

But he's helped me so much with so many things. He brightens my day, and he's a genuinely good person. I don't blame him at all for what happened. I can't bear to lose him completely, but how else can I get these thoughts and feelings out of my head?!

ok.... i did the same thing to my boyfriend that he did to you about 2 days ago... we had been together for about 10 months... my whole family loved him and i just figured im too young to be with one person for so long and that i was gonna like look around you know.... but i already miss him sooo much so if you guys really felt strongly about each other then trust me he'll come crawling back to you

Q: i'm in middle school and we have the popular cheerleaders. Everyone tells me how thin and beautiful i am. And the popular girls aren't that pretty, but all the boys love them. I'm not a cheerleader but i think i'm just as good as those girls. why don't the boys notice me?

ok... well u have a serious problem that i call innocence.... u need to turn into a slut like those cheerleaders... like start giving head and stuff like that then all the guys will line up to just talk to you

Q: I have two friends, a girl and a guy. I have a crush on my guy friend....but my girl friend is in the way. I mean, she already has a BOYFRIEND...but it's as if her boyfriend is our guy friend. I also think that he likes her, because he's always hugging her and being nice to her, while both of them leave me out and make me feel bad. And when they talk, I can't get into the conversation, because I have no connection to what they are talking about. HELP!

THE TRICK IS......
Find a new boy that is possibly better than your crush and then you can always be with him instead of being the 3rd wheel you can be 1 of the main 2 wheels

-Janee'(SxyLilPoo47)

Q: hey i have little freckles on my face n they r lyke really light so it looks like the skin on my face is dirty or something but i usually wear powder cover up by cover gurl on it and it works really well but it never lasts for a very long time...ive tryed liquid and i hate it it makes me break out..i wanna stick to powder but do any of u know any good brands that stay on long??

I actually do know that revlon makes great make-up and uhmm...... if u go to RICH'S and to the fashion FAir place then they will give you the best make up ....or if you buy the creamy foundation or the roll-on foundation

STORES:Target....Wal-Mart....Walgreens....Kroger or Publix

Q: my friend name is Brittany she has a b.o. problem and ervery1 hates it. i dont kno wat to say ta her wit out hurtn' her feelns' but can somebody pleaze help me out thanks.

i rate very high.

signed confused friend.

Dear Confused Friend,
Well if she reeks of b.o there are 3 simple answers for that....Dont be her friend anymore or very collectively approach her and say Im not trying to be mean or anything but can u please start putting on more deodorant or perfume,or tell her that everyones talking about how bad she smells and then she should get incouraged to start grooming herself properly if that doesn't work than theres pretty much nothing else you can do..... :(

-Janee'(SxyLilPoo47)