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im just ur normal 19 yr old girl..second yr of college.
ive been on this site since my sophmore or junior yr i belive
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all my friends have got got boyfriends and i havent (im 14 and female), i havent even been with someone, n im scared that they will call me frigid, my mates boyfriend keeps saying 2 me that his mate will go out with me but ive neva met him n i dont wanna go out wit him either.

has any1 got any advice for me???

Eh, dont go out trying to find a random guy to go out with...only go out with someone if you realy like them and you think their worth ur time.

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well tomorrow is my school check in and pictures and im undecided on how to wear my hair for my pictures i know its a dumb fuckin question but oh well...anyways my hairs about a lil above my ...boobs or below my shoulders and its nat. wavy/curly sooo how do yall think i should wear my hair...down curly or down straight or up or what should i do with it (its pretty thick too)...oh and if yah need to know i think im wearin this pink v neck top w/ my hoops and i need some opinions!...thanks lol.

I like straight hair, so go with that =P. lol.

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What if my boyfriend is embarrased to kiss me in front of his guy friends ? does that mean he does not like me or he is using me or somthing ?

If he doesnt want to kiss you in from of his friends then maybe he's too shy, or he has another image when hes around his friends and he doesnt want to be seen in a differnt kind of way around them. Guys are just weird, dont take it too personally.

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how do you know when you are truly in love with a guy and how do you know when it is the right time to tell him?

I guess you just know, and you will know when the right time to tell him is..because you will say it unexpectadly.

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ok, i dont know exactly how to get a reputaion of sum kind in 6th grade. I have a popular friend that i dont usualy hang out with. should i start hanging out with her in order to get kool. or not?

It doesnt make sence to change urself for other people, just be urself and then u'll make friends that like you for you, and u'll be resepcted a lot more then the fake "popular" people.

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i get so jealous when i see someone that's really pretty- it makes me feel as if i'm ugly...what should i do?

Everyone goes through that, and compares themselves to other people, you just gotta accept urself for who you are.

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My first day of high school is coming up .. what should i wear ??? i wanna look cute n trendy ! for ppl who have already survived there freshman year ... give me a hint on what to wear first day of school =D

Ehh, im glad im gonna be a sophmore and not a Freshman, i used to think that it was so important at the beggining of the school yr. and then i just realised, NOONE REALY CARES. just wear what you want and be urself.

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my room is soo boring! i have a dresser, a big desk for homework and all this other stuff, plus 2 twin beds and a small closet! the walls are white and the landlord wont let me paint them, how can i make my room look better? dont say whatever you want, say real stuff!!! thanks a bunch!

Post pics of ur friends in a certain wall of ur room like ur closet doors or something, and hang some posters up. Buy some comfortors that match ur style, start from there..and then i think u'll get the hang of it.

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uMm...i saw my friend make a move on my bf..what do i do ?

Talk to her about it.

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okay - i know HOW to lose weight but i have no willpower and a major sweet tooth lol ne advice on how to stop snacking??

Just drink tons of water, and when ur craving something then try to eat some fruit instead, just keep urself full with healthy snacks every few hours (lol i heard that on Oprah)

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okay i have this guy friend and see i dont know if i like him because i havnt seen him in a while and he gave me a hug today and i liked it and then he told me he got a girlfriend and i got mad does that mean i like him?

Most likely. I mean if you didnt like him then you wouldnt realy care if he had a gf. =)

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I really like this older guy.(im a freshman he's a senior:/)I mean ALOT! When I see him I seriously just melt. When I talk to him I don't know what to say....he just like makes me speechless. But he knows I like him and stuff. He always says that I don't talk & that I probably won't do more than kissing. (wRonG) but anyway, I just don't know what to do. I mean he jokes around all the time about hooking up and stuff and I really take all that stuff serious. I'm like obssessed w/ him! haha I need helP!

I know exactly how you feel, because i also like someone older than me and i also have no idea what to say or anything..lol, i guess this is something that happens to everyone because i just read a question that talked about a girl stalking and bothering him..lol. I think guys just are weird like that...and maybe he thinks ur young. I dont know if i answered ur question...but just try and be urself (AND BELIVE ME I KNOW ITS HARD) and if you need anymore advice just ask.

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I have dark hair around my bellybutton and when I wear a two piece swimsuit, you can sorta see it, and it bothers me! I don't want to shave it! I dunno why I have hair THERE... any advice would be greatly appreciated!

you can use some hair removal...or just bleach it.

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you see, i am a female brunette and i have hair on my legs/arms. I would like to lighten my hair so it is less visible because i don't like to wax/shave because hair grows back even darker/thicker. So what products can i use to lighten my hair? Are there any home remedies so I wont have to go to the store?

Just shave ur legs...or use hair removal like Nair or Veet or something..
but for ur arms, at Wal*Mart or something you can get something in the section where the Nair is at, that bleaches body hair....and it only costs like 3 or 4 bucks.

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My mom always complains about me never being home. She says that she thinks that i dont love her and only want to talk to her when i want something. (im sure everyone is gonna say that their mom is like that too), but are there any ways that i can 'hang out' or spend time with my mom with still being able to be as social and hang out with my friends as much as i do? please give me some ideas to have fun with my mom (i know that sounds lame) but i know it would help me to be able to do more stuff.

My mom said that to me yesterday, the thing about only talking to her when i want something, i dont know..just ask her about her day and stuff like that, maybe then she will be convinced that you care about her and all. And ask to tag along when she goes shopping or something like that, you can talk on the way there.

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There's this one guy who I am completely obsessed with. To be honest, I don't know why. This guy is very..confusing. Like, majority of the time he's real sweet, but then for like 1 week...he'll be the biggest asshole. And, I wish so bad that I could just leave him behind. But I can't, I always think about him, whether he treats me badly or not. What am I supposed to do?

I know exactly what you mean...like one time i went shopping and there was a shirt that said "I know how you feel.I just dont care" and it reminded me of him, if you realy want to forget about him..then it shouldnt be that hard.

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is it normal for me to be crying over little things when i get my period??

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yes, i always get mad ..sad..and everything inbetween.

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ok. well i live here in a town called fresno. fresno is a town of really down to earth, cool people. most people aren't really wealthy, which means theres hardly any stuck up snobby people etc.

well.. now im moving to the town next to fresno, called clovis. and clovis is a really nice town. home to people living in MILLION dollar homes. a lot of wealthy people living in that town. so.. theres definetly gonna be snobby rich b**tches there.. and i dont mix well with those kinds of people. meaning, i dont like them lol.

i dont totally have anything aginst them tho, thats just not the type of people i like to hang with or be around..

so of coarse. im going to the school there called buchanan. so like.. im really worried that im not going to make friends because i dont care for rich snobbs which is mainly what the school is made of.

WHAT DO I DO??? how do i make friends..

love, manda

DUDE!!! Is that the school that has the bears as their mascot? i met people from clovis, and ive been to that one school...i dont live there, i just went for something, on the weekends..lol..it's a realy nice school. I know what you mean about the rich and snobby people, but realy..just be urself..thats all that matters and im sure u'll make a few good friends.

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