Im 20 years old, I have faced many obstacles and problems that I have had to go through alone with no help and the help I recieved wasn't ever any good. I have faced women problems, friends moving, suicide, killings, deaths, car accidents, sibling rivals, fighting, weird hobbies, my best friends being raped. I have been through a little of everything and I was the one many of them turned to so I like to help out.
Hobbies: I do a lot of work in recording studios, and video/editing studios so I know film pretty well. I am a director/producer. Thats what I am in school for, to further my knowledge of set production for I am a pre production wizard. I read a lot so I have knowledge. And more.
Education: I graduated at the top 15 percent of my class in high school which was college prep, and right now im in my 3rd year od college. I have an AA degree in media arts, a 6 month screen writing certificate from NYFA. I am 11 months from my BA in FILM and HDTV, and I am a semester away from an International Business Degree.
SO if you have any questions im polite and easy to talk with and you can ask me any question you have, I will be honest no matter what.
E-mail: spin18@aol.com
Gender: Male
Location: New Mexico but live in AZ
Occupation: Sudent/Film and TV Producer
Age: 20
AIM: Tightwireprod
Member Since: January 15, 2004
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A girl at my school is what you call the school slut. She is always in the bathroom with a guy making out. What should I do?? (link)
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My question is what does it matter to you? Like okay she is making out with him in the bathroom that is generally her choice not yours. Now if you need the restroom and they won't leave I can understand and in any case tell, but if its something you heard and never really witnessed I say leave it alone and let them get busted on their own.
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My friend told me that a guy at my school lift up girls shirts and feels their stuff! What should i do? (link)
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Naturally you can't do anything. For one you don't even know the guy because the information is from a friend, and two you don't even know if the information is true of if it was a rumor she head and decided to help spread it not knowing it was a lie. So I suggest you find out more information about the guy/subject before you try and clean the air.
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How do you mastrabate, I am a guy, and I jack off kinda sometimes, but i want to get more...
-Scott Mueller-
Age 12 (link)
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Scott-
Sorry to break it to you man but there aren't that many ways for a male to masterbate. I am going to assume you already know how, so the only advice I'm going to give you regarding your question is just get some lubercant, or vaseline makes the process a bit more vibrant for many males.
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iv always heard that when someone bites there nails constantly that they are nervous is this true????? i usually bite my nails a lot and it seems that when i do that im nervous ...is this just a saying or is it true???? becuz there is this boy i know and he is always bitig his nails like constantly whne i see him so does this mean he is nervous? HELP!
SINCERLEY.....
WONDERING ONE! (link)
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Wondering one,
No it goes without saying its just a saying. But the truth oif it is many people just tend to bit their nails when nervous, I have a friend who just bites his nails when he gets board or is confused. It just depends on the person because I rock my leg when Im nervous and I don't bit my nail when nervous. So It just depends on the person.
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does it hurt when u have sex? (link)
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Well for females the first time hurts and from what I'm told only for like the first 30 minutes of the first time because your muscles. But being a guy it doesn't hurt unless the female is reall nervous and her muscles being to contract during that time.
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thanku very much for taking time to advice me,i have decided that now for 1yr i will give all my exams score brilliantly in my p.g. exams,than my parents would be happy,and if i just run after my sports now than being the only son of doctors parents they will feel tense and spoil their health,and than if its in my destiny than i would get a chance,or else its for me that i contribute more to the society than just being a sportsman,
probably then i could do research in treating cancer in which ihave an interest since my aunt passed away because of it .this is the only way i think i can be happy everyday rather than being so tense that u stop enjoying life please advice whether i have taken the correct decision according too so many circumctances that one has to look into.thanku very much (link)
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Well your heart is in the right place I willtell you that. But what makes you happy? It sounds that you are more worried about what your parents are going to think of you if you do sports. Your parents want you to be happy that something we forget, but its up to you to make the correct decision. And also you say you want to go into the field that deals with Cancer, and you sayd because your aunt died of it (sorry to hear). Is that the only reason why or do you feel the need to learn more and want the thrive in that field? There are many factors that must be taken into accountin your situation. Just do what you love, then the rest of your life will fall into place.
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my friend always touches me on the wrong places like my ass or my breasts n i dont know if he does it on purpose or not. he likes to jump on me n when i am laying its like he is trying to have sex with me but i tell him to stop and sometimes i think if i tell the teacher he is going to get mad or something. the thing is he broke up with his girlfriends for me n every1 thinks he likes me but i dont like him that way hes like a realli good friend but i dunno what to do
signed CoNfUsEd GuRl (link)
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Well first of all what he is doing is called harrassment and that is because he is touching you in a manner that is not liked by you or you do not concent. And if you keep letting him touch you and you don't tell him or a teacher things are just going to get worst or they won't stop. And you say he is your friend, then he should listen to you when you tell him that you don't like him like that. But if it continues I would tell a teacher and risk him getting mad.
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how did i become a moderator for this site (link)
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Ratings, the ratings you are given determine what level of moderator you are.
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What does wet dreams for a guy mean???????????????????????????????????????? I NEED TO KNOW!! (link)
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Means one is somewhat ready for sex, or just has a lot of "horny" thoughts on you sub conscious.
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You know what woman have every month . Well mine is late . I'm a virgin, but I am so worried . My dad won't stop sweatin me , and he knows I be at home or at school . I don't get out much . What should I do ? I can't stand this . He's (my father) has nagged me until now it's starting to bother me . I know I shouldn't worry if I haven't done anything wrong, but has anyone ever went through anything like this before . (link)
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Whats your age? And hey don't worry about it, over 65% of women gain late periods. SO naturally its probably just late give it a little longer and if nothing happens you might want to see your doctor. Are you really skinny? Because if so that might be why you lost your period and if thats the case I suggest you eat, because women that don't have enough body fat to get their period get serious helth and body problems.
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Oh my gosh! I think I am in love...please don't be harsh on me people. I cry about him all the time. I'm just so confused. I liked the guy for about a year, and I'm only 14. This isn't some middle school lust, or infatuation or a crush...this is the real thing. I'm so scared becasue I'm going to high school next year and...oh my gosh...he may not be in the same school because there's TON of different schools in this town. I love him...and I don't know what to do. Please help. I have it bad...and it's breaking my heart. What are ways to ask him out...he doesn't seem like the guy that owuld like little corny things. Please help me...anybody? I'm sorry, I'm just babbling adn I'm probably mispelling some words...but I care deeply for this boy. It's something I just can'r erase from my heart. Please help me...I'm EXTREMLY SHY! Seriously...I have no clue what to do...it's social anxiety disorder...
I don't want to talk to a friend about this...they won't believe me if I say I'm in love (even though they witness the way I talk about him)
Please somebody help...anything to....I don't know...Don't mind me...I only have a month and a half left, and I probably won't ever get the courage to ask him out anyway...GOSH I'M SO STUPID!
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Well just ask, you people keep letting your fears get in the way and your letting them ruin your life. Did you know over 98% of people within their lives question decisions they have made, and most of the questioning is dealing what if I asked them out? You say your in love, how can you be in love with someone you have never dated? Its like my little brother is in love with Hilary Duff. Plus the man you love will never make you crym, how can you cry over him when you rarely know him. Love is more than heart ache and thoughts. I say you think about what makes him so important to you, and if its still love just ask guys don't mind females that are shy but they don't like when they are overly shy and hindered by it.
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Just ask what have you got to lose?
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ok well theres this guy i really like a lot but i dont have the guts to ask him out or talk to him and i think he might like me too but if im to nervous how do i ask or get to know him? and i dont want friends doing it for me so thats an even bigger problem what should i do? (link)
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Really I hate to sound rude but in the sake of advising you I will make an acception. Think about what you just told us. You are too shy to talk with him and the friend idea is out of the question, so where does that put you? NO WHERE!!! You need to just talk with him or else your getting no where and who knows you might be shy over nothing just like most people are and then you end up laughing about how stupid your were acting before you started talking. So Naturally you know the answer to your question, its give over myself and let it flow.
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Hi, I'm a single 37 year old mother, My son is 12 and in 7th grade, he is going to Public school. His conduct has been allways A, but for first time in his school years there is a teacher that thinks all the oposite, I have talk with my son and he says he doesn't know why she doesn't like him, his art work is allways under grade and for some reason now and then, his work disapears from the room. I request a meeting once before, but I felt the school counselor cover up the teachear's behavior and the situation got a little better, but know I can't aloud this abuse to keep going on. My son is an artist and is been selling his work for sometime, the teacher didn't know that, when I told her she sayd maybe he is a good sculptor, but nothing else because he doesn't do his work. Now the problem is that my soon wants to enter a school of art and with no recomendation from this woman even with a great portfolio he won't be accepted, I feel frustrated and my son says that her pet (the teachers favorite) allways gets good grades even with unfinish work. Please help me, what to do? I'm going to have a meeting with her next week. I'm an educated woman and treat people with respect, but I want to be severe and upfront after all is my child's future! (link)
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First you have to approach the meeting with literally a clear mind frame. And look at the course materials such as what does the teacher expect? If your son attends class with a poor attitude because of this current "abuse" as you put it then that could be affecting the grade. Or simply she wants your son to try harder at his work, I had a teacher do that to me though high school My work was excellent but because I knew that he would give me a lower grade because my work was natural and didn't take hard work. The best thing to do is ask her what the problem is and use other classmates work as an example and compare it to that or your sons work.
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thanku for your advice ,just wanted to know that do i forget about my sports activites,because may be i am destined to be a good doctor, instead of getting fame and money in sports,iwouldnot be contributing to society much if i take up sports,and i better concentrate on my work as earlier i used to top, but since i am thinking of changing from a doctor to sports ,got many medals,im not performing well and being the only child,of doctors parents,they are also tense and i cannot handle it anymore,friends also shun away as im not doing well,once was a topper,please help (link)
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Trust me I know the feeling of want to pick another career over the other or being forced to make a huge decision that will impact my life in many ways. Let me ask you this and be completely honest with yourself which is your passion? Thats what people tend to forget go with your passion no matter what anyone says because if you don't want to be a doctor why waist the time and the money to be unhappy? Follow your dream and if your in the sport for only the money and fame thats not really a good reason. So ask yourself what you feel is right for you, thats the only way you will succeed and be happy.
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Hi I'm a 22 year old female and I'm desperate for some advice. I'm in the middle of to male cousins. I had a fling with adam about a month ago I found out that he was involved with someone else he admitted it to me and he still wants to go along with it. carlton has come along and he is so nice to me he wants to get to know me even though he seems like mr right it's against my rules to get involved with the same family what should I do? (link)
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Well, lets be honest most people don't like to date peoples family members so now with that on the table lets talk. You say he is mister right, so this is what you do. You get to know him phone calls, dates whatever you please and feel more comfortable with. Thats it you can never tell what a person is like off the first meeting. So I suggest take your time and get to know him before you make any plans of getting together because if you rush into this you are going to find yourself in a spot of trouble.
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Hello, I may be pregnant with a seperated mans baby. Now I'm thinking of all the scenarios that could happen and need advice. I want what's in the best interested for my child. Now this man is technically still married and has a child with his wife, they all have the same lastname. If I had the child and was not married, is it wrong to give the child my lastname? What about child support issues? I'd never keep the baby from his dad, but what if the father denies this baby? I would want to put him on the birth certificate but what if he's not there, can he still be put on it? I live in the state of Pennsylvania. Please any advice would help. (link)
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Yes, you woukd be able to give your child your last name. Now for support issues whether or not he wants to help raise the child he will have to give your monthly checks to support the baby this is by law so don't worry about that. Well even if the father denies the child is his for your sake and the childs sake make sure when the baby is born you get a blood test done on the potential father that why there is proof he is the father and he has to send you monthly checks for child support. If the father consents to his name being on the birth certificate then yes you can, and im not sure if they do it anymore but if you say the fathers name is whatever they can place it on the birth certificate. Hope this helped.,
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i need the toilet all the time, but when i go for a wee nothing comes out. why is this? (link)
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Might no to add pressure, or you might have a small disfunction. Some people do have baldder problems so I might go checked that out if I were you.
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i am a Dr. i was very good at sports in school and in college specially cricket but could not pursue these as now i have to give my exams for postgraduation and exams for u.s.,u.k. and cannot stay in my country if i get admission abroad,and am not finding time for my hobbies in which i could have been very successful please advice as i am feeling very low as,in my exams i am not performing upto my potential (link)
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Ok ok, take a deep breath. Good to start just take it slow right now step by step. Right now im getting ready to start finals and I need to remind myself to balance my time and to take baby steps. Now make a plan for studying how much time you can afford to study for whatever you need, say 1 1/2- 2 hours a night for your major subjects and 1 hr for less. Just learn to manage your time and study you will do fine trust me.
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At the moment i am in a relationship where i am selling my house but still living with my ex as i can not afford to move and rent. so i have to wait another six weeks before the sale is complete. During this time i am seeing another guy and we want to live together but due to my circumstances i cant at the moment. He lives with friends as he cant afford a place of his own. but can afford to rent a room with someone but he will have to move away from me and all this is putting a stress on our relationship and all we do is argue and he is very paranoid of not being with me and doesnt trust me or anyone near me as he is very possessive. we dont want to split up and we just want everything to happen over night regards to me settling the sale of my house and living together and i'm going mad. I just want some advice on this situation i'm in and how we can over come this without splitting up....or distancing ourselves...please help!!!!! (link)
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this can all be done very easy. You need to talk with one another find out where both of you stand in financial resources. Such as see what it would take for you two to move into an apartment and move on from there. Just for arguement sake why do you want a possessive guy, its to my experiences with my female friends its just small and then they try to own you, which isn't good. But just work everything out and have an indept conversatsion and create a workable plan for both of you to live together or close.
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Who else thinks DOCTORS WHO HELP SAVE PEOPLE'S LIVES should be paid more then people on t.v. who only try to look pretty...
GEEZE that's ridiculous if you think about it. Just because everybody knows your name doens't mean you should get millions of dollars for it. DOCTORS are MUCH MORE USEFUL then some stupid snotty celebrities out there...GEEZE!
I can't stand that...
I know not all of you agree...but is there any of you who do??
Please tell me! (link)
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I agree in a way, but do you act it really is hard. Well do you know what pisses me off my whole life I've been directing my short films right. And when I go professional I will only make like 100,000 dollars or more. Its like the director is responsivle for it all and they get that pay. But yes I agree with you doctor should get paid more, because they work around the clock and have people lives in their hand so I agree with you.
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