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At the moment i am in a relationship where i am selling my house but still living with my ex as i can not afford to move and rent. so i have to wait another six weeks before the sale is complete. During this time i am seeing another guy and we want to live together but due to my circumstances i cant at the moment. He lives with friends as he cant afford a place of his own. but can afford to rent a room with someone but he will have to move away from me and all this is putting a stress on our relationship and all we do is argue and he is very paranoid of not being with me and doesnt trust me or anyone near me as he is very possessive. we dont want to split up and we just want everything to happen over night regards to me settling the sale of my house and living together and i'm going mad. I just want some advice on this situation i'm in and how we can over come this without splitting up....or distancing ourselves...please help!!!!!
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this can all be done very easy. You need to talk with one another find out where both of you stand in financial resources. Such as see what it would take for you two to move into an apartment and move on from there. Just for arguement sake why do you want a possessive guy, its to my experiences with my female friends its just small and then they try to own you, which isn't good. But just work everything out and have an indept conversatsion and create a workable plan for both of you to live together or close.
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I completly agree with MFS. 6 weeks is not that long to wait. I was in a long distance relationship with my husband before we got married, and it was a real test, but proved to us that we were ment to be together. Maybe some distance from eachother might be good for this relationship. Things sound kinda shaky, time away from eachother will show you how much you really mean, or don't mean to eachother. This guy also needs to learn to trust you, otherwise this relationship will never work.
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It sounds like your current relationship is no better than your previous. If the two of you can't even be bothered to wait a few weeks to let legal and financial matters settle, that really doesn't look too good in terms of the stability and maturity of your relationship. I think a little distance might be the better option.
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