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love triangle
Hi I'm a 22 year old female and I'm desperate for some advice. I'm in the middle of to male cousins. I had a fling with adam about a month ago I found out that he was involved with someone else he admitted it to me and he still wants to go along with it. carlton has come along and he is so nice to me he wants to get to know me even though he seems like mr right it's against my rules to get involved with the same family what should I do?
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there is a good question to ask yourself do u love him? If so dont listen to what anyone says if you dont then you hould try to push yourself a little away from him. If you need help in anything else im me at bebexoxox@aol.com
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it dosen't matter if they are kin or not if one is involved think about the girl he's with you wouldn't want your boyfriend going with somebody while hes going with you would you so think about the other girl and if his cousin seem like mr.right then go with him you never know what will happen if you don't take a chance.try mr.right
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u had a bad experance where he cheated on u now his cousin is showin an intrease in u and want to get to no u and u wanna pass it up coz he was his cousin that doesnt make them the same person u coould at least give him a chance u could make each other happy and blomon into a loving relationship i arnt askin u to jump in bed with this man but to give him a chance if it doesnt work out then u havent lost anything but what if it does???? take care and lots of love
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Well, lets be honest most people don't like to date peoples family members so now with that on the table lets talk. You say he is mister right, so this is what you do. You get to know him phone calls, dates whatever you please and feel more comfortable with. Thats it you can never tell what a person is like off the first meeting. So I suggest take your time and get to know him before you make any plans of getting together because if you rush into this you are going to find yourself in a spot of trouble.
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I would try it out with Carlton. Adam and you only had a fling, and he is involved with someone else. There is no reason for jelousy. If it had been a serious relationship I would be wary, but I can't see it being a big deal if you all act like adults. If it really worries you, ask Adam first if it would be too wierd. You shouldn't denie yourself from a good thing just because you had a little fling with the cousin. How often would you really see each other anyway?
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