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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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alright. see heres the thing. last night i had a dream where i was hanging out with my bestfriend (hes a guy. im a girl) and ive known him a loooonng time and when i first met him i liked him alot but i had a boyfriend (still have the same bf) and i ignored my feelings for him and really they went away now that i know him really intamitly as a bestfriend. so last night i had a dream that was with him and we were 5 years older and i was laying on him and stuff and we were making out and then we had sex. and im really worried cuz i liked the dream :( and being that i have a boyfriend and hes my bestfriend and on top of that i am really good friends with his girlfriend. so all of this is freakin me out. do you think it was just some random dream or something more?

hey, i think taht you still mgiht like this guy. havign dreams about guys are very normal. especially if your crushing on them. chances are the dream isnt realistic. i eamn it could happen but the chacnea re slim. tlak to him about your feelings tho. cait♥

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What would you wear with a white babydoll topthat flares out a lot at the butt/hips area? There is a seam under the bust area with a little bow on the side. Its SO cute and I want to wear something that compilments it!!

hey, my favorite thing with a baby doll top is capris. since it white, you might want to get light capris. white flipflops would look gorgeous with it. to make it look cute add a white sea shell necklace. cait♥

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Is this necessary for a girl to remove pubic hairs? or it is enough to remove only from armpits as armpits are visible to any one. I also have hair around my inner hips are ( near ass hole)what about these? PLease advice.

hey, its your preference. some girls do; some girls dont. however, it isnt necessary. cait♥

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hey does any one know what song this is?

"just nineteen you hit the streets what did you find"


thanks a ton...i'll rate 5's :)

hey, i think its a song by yellowcard. im not sure the name. but try googling yellowcard. cait♥

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Im Graduating on the 6th of June and i need help to figure out a song. What song should it be? I want something about saying goodbye and probably upbeat but slow is cool.

hey, vitamin C- graduation song. i played that at my graduation for 8th grade! lol. cait♥

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im a 15/f and kinda a chunk monkey and i want to begin running b/c i played lacrosse this year n ran out of breathe pretty quick. so i was wondering what would be the best way to build up my endurance and lose weight quickly so by fall ill b able to play field hockey and keep up w/ the other girls?

hey, well start running now! you can either run aroubd your neighborhood in the morning and a night or just once in the early evening or after school. cait♥

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it burns when i pee and it feels like i always have to pee. could it be a yeast infection?

hey, its an urniary tract infection. thats my guess. check it out with your doctor tho. cait♥

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where can i find a list on new songs that just came out? i want to get some for my ipod but i cant think of any and i hate listening to the radio.

hey, im guessing that you already have your ipod set up. so go to itunes and look around there. cait♥

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i met some girls a few months ago. i got to know them pretty good. i have much in common with both of them. i liked 1 of them so i told her how i felt, but she has a bf. after she said that i said it's kind of awkward talking to her. she said not to worry and she'll forget about it. i'm ok with that because i wasn't deeply inlove with her anyway. but now i think i'm starting to like her friend, she seems real nice and always calls me cute and i say the same to her. is it too sudden to say i like her? note: she doesnt have a boyfriend

hey, well dont tell her like today. wait a little because if you jsut got over her friend then shell be like wow this dude is deperate. cait♥

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So my friend told the guy I like that I liked him. But she wrote a note saying it was from me. And he hasn't said anything to me. And now it's just awkward. What should I do?

Another thing, my friend who's a senior has a little brother who's a freshman and i'm a junior and she's like you should take my brother to prom b/c he's the only normal asian at our school. do you think she's kidding, or serious?

hey, if the girl who said something about an asian guy is your friend then ask her if shes serious! for the note tell your guy that you didnt right the note but you realyl do like him. he will appreciate you telling him the truth. let him know that you dont want your friendship to be all awkard tho. and tell him that your not forcing him to tlike you. cait♥

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How do you prevent razor burn from your vagina?

hey, well first of all for the shaving cream use skinmate baby soft. its in a blue bottle. also dont be skimpy with the shaving cream, but alot on there. also you a SHARP venus razor. however do not use the vibrating razor. it doesnt shave as well as the regular one. also you could use nair or an electric razor instead. cait♥

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how do you scrunch your hair? thankss

hey, first off you make sure that your hair is wet. theres three things that you can use. one being gel then hairspray then mouse. what i do is skip the gel (cause my hair is so thick). then use pantenne mouse and aussie sprunching spray (yes its sprunching not scrunching). thats if you have thick hair. if your hair is thin use gel and regular pantenne hairspray to finish the look. for srucnhing just take a clump of hair make a fist and squeeze it all the way to the very top fo your head. make the squeezing by ver hard. to make it ver srunched use a diffuser or if you dont have one blow dry it before it drys. but dont blowdry it when its really wet. cait♥

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I just registered to this site, and this is my first question type thing, so i dont really know what to put as my "subject" or what to put it under.

so.. this weekend, im goin to see some1,&i want to look good, so i picked out an outfit& everything, the only thing is.. i got my period this morning and i dont wear tampons,and the pants im wearing are pretty tight, but i dont want my underwear line to show?and i dont want to pick another outfit,so if any1 has any suggestions on what i should do.. i would really appreciate it... sorry if its a stupid question.!

hey, well you should wear a thong. wear the thicker string thongs tho, because on tight pants the thin little strings show. there are pads out there just designed for thongs. buy the thickley padded ones tho. thong ones tend to be thinner. cait♥

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how should i do my make up for this
i dont like a toonnnn of make up...or basically i dont want to look fake.

i have brown eyes.
lightish brown brown hair
i have a black dress.


any ideas?

thankkksss

hey, instead of usingg foundation use bronser. foundation make you look fake. also use black mascara along with brown eyeliner (black is too overpowering). do not use waterproff eyeliner or mascara, regular works best. for mascara only do teh top lashes, doing the bottom looks "too much" and overdoes it. for eyeliner only line the bottom of your eyes. doing the top is too much. also line your eyebrows with the eyeliner. when you put on the bronser whip your eyebrows with a q-tip to get the bronser out of your eyebrows. also blend it in well. for blush use a tanish-brownish earthtone. theres no need for lipstick/lipliner. just use a cute gloss. mac "oyster girl" is very cute adn shear. cait♥

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Okay well a like a month ago, me and my bf had sex, and he didn't wear a condom. he lets call it "let go" no in me but a little lower than my lower stomache. Now see my period was supposed to start today, but it didn't, and i'm sure it'll come soon, but the thing is about 5-6 days after we had sex a month ago, i got my period.

Can i still be pregnant by any chance?

and i'm 14.

thank you.

hey, its possbile that you could be. you should take the first response pregnaucy test or a differnet brand. cait♥

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Okay, one of my friends are bypolar...but i have no clue what that means. I know when he gets really mad, his eyes turn like, blood red and he shakes, i don't know if that has anything to do with him being bypolar any;thing....

i'll rate 5 for good answers

hey, yes that has to do with being bipolar. bipolar people get mad and tense very easily. they are often stressed if something does not go there way. theres nothing you can do to help your friend. also dont treat your friend dirfferntly because of there disease. it amkes them feel different in a bad way. cait♥

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My face is oily, and I drink a lot of water everyday, and it doesn't help. What should I do to make it better. Please don't say use proactiv or wash my face.

hey, well drinking watr doesnt help oily skin. it doesnt make a difference. but anyways when you do wash your face use a good quality face wash. dont use soem cheap brand. good brands are clearasil, pro activ, and neutrogena. i wouldnt recommned getting teh proactiv if you asrent planning on sticking to washing your face 2 times a day daily. because it is expensive. cait♥

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i have known my this girl ashley since like 1st grade we were like best friends up until the summer going into eigth grade we had so much fun together we never stopped laughing and with my other friends we grew apart but nothing wood ruin are friendship or atleast thats what i thought during the summer going into 8th grade we had a HUGE fight like it was crazy but the weird thing is i dont remember what its about or who started it but it was big so big that its almost then end of 8th grade and even when i walk by her in the hall there is anger in are eyes we havent even talked since the fight and were going to high school next year and i really wanna just be friends again but i dont no what to do i refuse to talk 2 her because then it would be to acword so i need to no what to to 2 be friends with her again other then some cheesey answer like talk it out should i even try to be her friend anymore idk please help!!!

hey, you have to talk to her! if you dont then youll never be friends again. be the bigger person adn take the plunge and talk to her first. you dont have to do it directly. it would be best to do it directly but if you really dont want to do it by AIM, the phone, a note, email, or text messgae. cait♥

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my face is oily but whenever i have foundation or concealer on my forehead, it seems like its peeling, like i can see the little skin peeling off.. but its not alot.. what is this and how do i get rid of it? i use mosturizer so i dont know.. and also how can i get rid of the oil on my forehead?

hey, well get a cleanser from clearasil that you can use daily. the more you use it, the less your skin will peel! cait♥

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When is the best time to start jogging, jump roping, biking, or whatever...after youve eaten or before? At night, before you go to sleep, or the morning when you wake up?

hey, because of school in the morning it doesnt give you alot of time to work-out. the best time for a student to work out is anywhere from 5-6 at night. cait♥

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